How can I ask for pain? How can we stay away from pain. Please, thank you

If you can, go out for a walk, think about happy things, don't think too much about one thing, if you don't think about it, it won't be painful, it's easier said than done, but one thing is that you have to divert your attention, so that it will be fine slowly, and you won't go back to the pain like that, and think about it.

The ** that breaks the pain first is not to touch the person or thing that brings you pain a little bit. Don't be alone, spend all your free time with good friends or family, and forget it after a long time! It's a great way to heal!

It's very easy to get out of the pain, as long as you take a bold step, everything is so sunny and so beautiful......Don't always close yourself in that small space, in fact, if you think about it carefully, what you suffer is just a little experience in life, eat a trench and grow wise, you will have a better tomorrow.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun. Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Falling out of love is first and foremost a blessing, and then a misfortune. Falling out of love proves that we have truly loved. If not.

It doesn't matter if you're out of love. You must know that in this world, there are many people who have never really loved each other in their lives. Compared to these people, we have earned an enviable point in our lives, although we have lost it.

But our lives have been enriched by this. The feelings became deep. The temperament has become mature from this time.

Falling in love is a completed choice, and falling out of love is faced with an upcoming choice. In the days to come, there is only one person who can connect with your heart. We can go back and say to the years

Thank you, I'm glad I fell out of love. Don't be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting in the near future. The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to smile, to smile, to yourself, to others, to each other, and it's good for everyone.

You must know that the blow of falling out of love is the same for both parties, see yourself clearly, understand others, go your own way, and don't be discouraged; Good luck to the other person and don't be resentful. Don't be a bear, be a real person! The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to forget.

Forget the joy and happiness in love, forget the loss and pain in love. But don't force yourself to forget, the more you do it, the easier it is to remember. When you don't think of her anymore, you won't have any feelings like falling out of love.

At that time, you will face it calmly, and when you think of her, you will sigh, "Oh, I used to love her."

Falling out of love proves that he or she is not the person you really want to be with in this life, try to make yourself want to open some! What is not always something will always be without. Sometimes you can't chase something because it doesn't belong to you.

On the contrary, sometimes a very good thing comes to you naturally, because that's what you're all about! Either way, I firmly believe that what belongs to me will always belong to her, and even if it is temporarily lost, I believe that she will come back. Someone who is willing to be with you, no matter what the circumstances, she will be willing to follow you, because two people love each other!

Here, I wish all lovers in the world to become married!

In fact, to tell the truth, the wounds of the soul can only be healed with the heart, and you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal the wounds slowly, return to nature to heal the wounds of the soul, and wait for the wounds to heal. In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past.

Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves.

In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Not suffering is a reflection of the heart, and it is necessary to prove that you are still suffering, and there is no need to prove that you are not suffering.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars. When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

Ye Li The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will always keep your good memories in his heart, love someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when time slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with memories, Let him pass in the past, a short period of heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

It's good to entertain yourself from the pain and look down.

Life is like this, and we can't avoid being unhappy

and painful things. Pain is not a DAO

Terminal illness is just a passing experience on the road of life, we may shed tears and heartache, but we must not give up the pursuit of the future. So how do you make yourself happy after all this sadness and pain? I think true happiness comes from the comprehension and interpretation of pain, because it is impossible to feel happiness in a life without pain, and happiness is always relative.

Only in this way can we learn to give up, know how to cherish, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, and analyze the pain in life, so that it can become a wealth of your life, an experience, a memory, a comprehension rather than pain, so that we can calmly look at the past, open life, happy life, no regrets in life, life has real happiness, not to escape and cover up, It's not even about making a smile. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape. //

Figuring out the cause of your pain and then fixing it won't be long before it's ok!

Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is. Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain. Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad. People are self-grasping all day long:

I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness. Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance. Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear. As the saying goes, the deeper you love, the more it hurts!!

As long as you try to divert the emotions that hurt your heart. Shifting your attention to what interests you can dilute the depression in your heart. Learn to soothe yourself.

I believe that the origin and extinction of the fate, the gathering and dispersion of the fate, everything goes naturally, life is short, and you can't spend all day in distress! Happy or unhappy, happy or unhappy is your own business, others say the best and don't know that you forget your troubles, face the reality from a new beginning, although the bell still needs to be tied to the bell, but you have to rely on yourself to solve. Even if there is a good psychiatrist to treat you, if you can't figure it out or understand it, it's useless, let the past pass, and you have to face the reality bravely.

Hope you come out of the shadows soon!!

Time can make you forget the pain!