I liked him for 3 years, but I didn t dare to tell him, tell me what to do?

Updated on educate 2024-02-09
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I missed two girls in my high school years! Two nice girls! Originally, I wanted to chase it!

    But maybe it's because I don't know how to speak, so I haven't said it! Until contact is lost! I regret it!

    Now that I think about it, I kind of blame myself!

    So I advise you to tell him what you think now while you are still in contact with him! When you lose it, you won't even have a chance to say it! Even if he does reject you, what is there to be afraid of!

    What's the point of enduring a little hardship for the people you love! You won't regret it when you look back on it in the future! I've tried my best!

    It's just no fate! What's more, it's possible that he likes you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go after her, if you don't go, you'll really regret it for the rest of your life! Even if you show her that you love her, and she rejects you, you won't suffer! It's too late!

    Otherwise, the excellent girl will be snatched away by others! When the time comes, it's too late to chase her! Get ahead of the time!

    Time waits for no one!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Contact him and let it be.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're afraid to say no, but you don't get it now. It's better to break it down.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since there is no contact, are you still afraid of rejection?

    After the confession fails, the most important thing is that there is still no contact.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At the beginning of the relationship, the man was enthusiastic, but as time went by, the man's attitude became more and more cold. It feels like men don't like women so much, what should women do?

    1. Make yourself excellent and have the strength to leave at any time. It is undeniable that many girls will pay a lot for each other when they find their other half. Especially after getting married, too many women will quit their jobs and devote all their energy to the family.

    For such a woman, if a man loves himself, then there is a down-to-earth dependence, but if the other person does not love him, then he puts himself at the greatest risk.

    Therefore, when a woman feels that a man does not love her, what she should do is not to blindly break up and divorce, but to rely on her family to continuously improve her ability and regain her survival skills. When you become good and have the ability to leave at any time, you will find that the initiative is in your own hands. If the other person loves, they will live well together.

    If the other party doesn't love it, it won't be particularly embarrassing even if you leave.

    2. Find something you like to do to distract yourself. When you find out that a man doesn't love you, no matter what the reason, don't be obsessed. Because when a person doesn't love you, persistence and entanglement are synonymous.

    Entangling with men is very exhausting and physically demanding. It's better to get together and leave with dignity and make good memories for each other.

    Adjust your mindset and find something you enjoy doing to distract yourself so that you don't get bothered by love or unlove. For example, if you like flower arrangement, take the time to learn;If you like to dance, go to a teacher to teach you ......Have something you like, stick to it. As time passes, slowly forget the pain in your heart.

    Life is an individual, no one can be without anyone, and no one can leave without anyone.

    3. Maintain inner self-confidence. A woman who gives too much in love has some inferiority. Even after leaving, she still thinks:

    Is it my fault that he doesn't like me?I don't deserve to be liked." As human beings, we are all equal.

    Never feel unworthy because of your initiative or his rejection. Don't think you're not worthy of his love. Love has nothing to do with money, nothing to do with material things, but love does not love.

    Your low self-esteem, to put it bluntly, is because you are not confident. Self-confidence is the last thing a woman can afford to lose. How confident we are, the gas field will be big from the inside out.

    Unworthy, unworthy, don't put such words on yourself, even if you are a person, you should become stronger, a woman's self-confidence can never be lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Two people sit down and communicate well, you can ask him directly, if he really doesn't like you anymore, you should leave and live a good life alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should communicate with him calmly, say anything, don't hide it, don't ask him directly if he loves him or not, you can't bear not to say it, which will cause a lot of problems.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this time, you must adjust your mentality, improve your self-worth, focus on your work, and soon find someone who likes you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The two of them sit down and have a good time, you can maybe ask him directly if he really doesn't like it, you should get out of it, and have a good life alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, when you realize that you like this person and want to be with this person, be brave and go back, I think you may be afraid that the confession will be rejected when the time comes, and you won't even be able to be friends after the confession fails. But for me, there is no way to be willing to be friends if you like someone, that is, when the other party walks beside you, you will really want to get closer to the other party, but at the same time you will worry about whether your sudden behavior will be inappropriate or something. If you think this person is very good, if I don't confess, it will be a pity if I don't confess, then be brave enough to confess; If you feel that you just need to be quietly by the other person's side and can accept the result that the other person will be with others in the future, then just don't confess and accompany them.

    All in all, confession for me is not a requirement that the other person must give me a kind of feedback on my liking, but because I like you, I want you to know that if you happen to like me too, then I am lucky in this relationship; If you don't like me, then I can also collect my emotions and re-regulate the relationship between you and me. A kind of internal friction of feelings for each other is a kind of hurt, every day to guess whether the other party has feelings for themselves, whether they like themselves, it will be really very tired, everyone spread out to talk, to accept the facts, let the stone in your heart put down is simply not too cool, okay! !

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A crush is a beautiful thing, and a two-way love is the icing on the cake. I have a crush on him, I want him to know, but I'm afraid he will know, what should a girl do when she encounters this situation?

    1 First ask a mutual friend if he has someone he likes.

    2 If you don't have someone you like, jokingly ask what type of girl you like, see if you are his dish, and judge whether he will hate himself.

    3 Then start teasing him, let him take the initiative to confess to you, how can we fairies take the initiative to confess.

    4 If he remains indifferent, love speaks boldly and leaves no regrets for himself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can start with his conditions, such as:

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For such a boy, you should tell him that doing so is very detrimental to your relationship, and since you chose to be with him at the beginning, it means that you should have a certain understanding of each other, and since you have made a choice, tolerate his shortcomings, after all, this two-person relationship mode still needs the two of you to run in with each other.

    I have one such friend close to me, and he is also a Leo.

    of boys, self-esteem.

    It's also very strong, not only his girlfriend doesn't dare to say it, even those of us who are friends don't dare to say it, as long as he refutes him a little, he will get angry, at least he won't talk to you for a few days, and he will have a big fight with you, we also know his shortcomings so we let him do everything.

    But we as friends and girlfriends can let him, once he goes to the society, no one will let him go, you should talk to your boyfriend, many times as a boy should let go of his face, after all, the two of you are in love, the boy itself should also let the girl, although in a short period of time the girl can rely on her love for the boy to feel nothing, but after a long time, it will inevitably be sad and lost, followed by the breakup of the two of you, So if you really can't bear your boyfriend and don't want the relationship between the two of you to fall apart, you should still help him get rid of this bad problem.

    A person's self-esteem is a good thing, but it should be used in the right place, such as at work, if your plan has not been, you should work harder to solve this problem, rather than putting it on arguing with your friends, which is still very incorrect, but it is also understandable that now the family is an only child, and boys will have a little stronger self-esteem.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I like him, but I can't accept him, and I don't know why, although I like him, I don't like him at all. I think since you like him and can't accept him, then you still don't have any feelings for him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You like her, but you can't accept him, and you don't know why, although you like him, you can't remember it at all when you see him, what you say is very contradictory, and you like him and don't like him, so don't like him or not, don't deal with him if you don't like it, don't accept him, don't accept him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You like him, but he can't accept you, and you don't know why, although you like him, he can't hope for you at all, which means that the two of you have no fate together, so he doesn't like you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe you don't really like him, it's just a momentary feeling, he makes you like it, so what, then you don't like it when you see him, it means or maybe you don't really like him, it's just a momentary feeling, he makes you like it, so what, then you don't like it when you see her, it means or don't like it?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's normal for you to feel this way, like him, but you just can't accept him, you can be friends, you just can't further develop into lovers, and you don't need to be entangled, just rely on your own feelings, and you can't be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    And her life is spiritual, liking is spiritual love, and then when you face him, you don't like it, then don't like it, put it in your heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I like him, but I pick him up, I like him. But I can't accept it, I like him, but I can't accept it, I don't know why, although I like him, but he watches, but I see that he doesn't like it at all, you still don't love him very much, you don't feel a little bit about him, this is what I like him, but I can't accept it, I don't know why, although I like him, but he looks, but I see that he doesn't like it at all, you still don't love him very much, you don't feel a little bit about him, this is a sign that you don't love him, I just like and like his dad, I just like him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I like him, but I can't accept him, I don't know, although I like him, but I don't like him at all, maybe it's always the kind of lack of a certain eye, I think this may not be suitable for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I come to you I like him, but I can't accept him, and I don't know why. Although I like him, I don't like him at all, I don't think you have any feelings for him, or if you press him, you don't feel that way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should make a final decision. If you like it, you will always like it to the end. It's best that way.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Like him, it's impossible not to accept him, the main thing is that the contact time is short, there is no in-depth contact, there is no full understanding, and I accept it if I fully understand

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I like her, but I can't accept it, and she doesn't know why, although she likes him, but she doesn't like him at all, then you don't have too much contact with him, so you don't hurt each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It means that you have no fate, maybe he has some bad habits that make you disappointed in him, lack of eyes.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you can't accept him, it means that you don't like him, and your words are a bit contradictory. If you like someone, then you will be happy to see them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Like someone but don't dare to accept it; First of all, this is because you don't love deeply enough, so in your heart, you won't dare to accept each other; If you love deeply, then you will naturally go out of your way to the other person; Secondly, this is in your heart, feeling that the other party is not very reliable, and he can't give you the happiness you want, so you don't dare to accept it. Love can't be forced, but don't leave regrets, think about whether you will be sad and sad without him, then love him well, you won't be sad, then let go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What you like may not be him as a person, just a certain feeling, or a certain trait in him, don't idealize him, face reality.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I like him, but I can't accept it, and I don't know why, although I like him, but when I see him, I don't like it at all, I think the protagonist of what you say is contradictory.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you like the other person, then be brave enough to say that you have this habit of the other person, and if you don't like it, then don't do it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    <> if you really don't like the other person, then make it clear to the other party directly, otherwise the other party will definitely keep misunderstanding.

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