How to end unhappiness in love, and what to do if you don t feel happy in love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I feel like you should ask him to break up!

    1. The two of you are not suitable in themselves, you are already working, and your boyfriend is still a high school student. Realistically, this is not appropriate.

    2. You are on a different path from him now, you are working in society, and he is still a high school student, and he will go to college in the future, etc. Even if you don't propose to break up with him now, there is no guarantee that he will not propose to break up with you in the future!

    3. He is still an immature man, and he doesn't know how to take care of a person or how to give her warmth. I don't feel safe with this kind of person.

    3. Find someone who suits you! You will have happiness!

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I felt it. Just let it go.

    It's all normal now.

    Just will you get hurt?

    Will it hurt him?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

    In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

    How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

    Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

    Have fun!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Generation gap and distance.

    It is possible for him to feel that you are dispensable in his life

    He may not know much about love, but just play with you, think about it, if you propose to break up, will he keep you?

    You have feelings, you have brains, how can you not feel it, you can think about it, think about it, it's not worth it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Loving someone doesn't necessarily have him or her, but you must have the courage to let the other person know what you mean!

    But to have a person is to love him or her well

    Whether you're together or not, at least remember having each other in the future! That's enough.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is a generational gap. Age is the same thing, it doesn't matter how big or small, as long as you have feelings, it's fine.

    The main thing is that you both belong to two worlds, one works, one goes to school, and if you love him very, very much, you have to tolerate him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't see each other often, maybe you're too nervous about studying, isn't he still making money, and sometimes I don't have to talk sweetly to you, right, you should be more considerate of other people, isn't that the case the same is the case, if you are compatible, you will go, right?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up kindly, since you are not happy together, why are you still tied together, everyone explained directly. You have to be bold in doing things, otherwise you will only get more and more tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think there's any need to keep it going.

    I hate men who eat soft rice the most (personal opinion).

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems that there is no need to hesitate, you can leave him for your future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At the end of the relationship, it's time to let go and talk to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then disperse, you are not suitable at all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Time has passed. And the people were scattered.

    The relationship is over.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you're like people from two worlds, let's break up amicably.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Cut the Gordian knot! Chirp.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think you need to be together, points!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be direct! Better a finger off than always aching!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    During the relationship, our mood is like a roller coaster ride every day, with ups and downs. One second was still in a good mood, and the next second suddenly I was sad, but sometimes it was really a girl who thought too much. When you feel really unhappy, you should want to calm down and think about whether it is such a person who makes you uncomfortable, or your subconscious makes you uncomfortable, and you need to distinguish this feeling.

    Girls want a lot during their relationship, sometimes a certain holiday boy does not prepare a gift, she may feel that the boy does not care about her, does not pay attention to this relationship, she begins to think, will he not love me? Then she began to feel sad. Therefore, it is necessary for boys to prepare small surprises and small gifts.

    When a girl looks forward to a lot, and a boy can't meet it, she will feel that she doesn't want much to argue with, whether he can't give it to himself, or he doesn't want to give it to himself, and starts a series of brain thoughts, and finally closes up because it is better to be single, and it is better to have no desires and no desires.

    After a long time in love, how long have you not been really happy, some people forget their original intentions when they talk about it, either they have conflicts today or break up tomorrow. I feel that there are some problems inexplicably, and it's really too much like falling in love. A love relationship has gone from being glue-like at the beginning to being full of scars now.

    For yourself, you can either adjust and change in time and learn to communicate, or you can separate the meaningless emotional constraints as soon as possible.

    The beauty of the relationship is that you know that this person has shortcomings, he is not good, and you know that this person will have a great impact on your life, but you still want to be with him to enjoy your love, share happiness and share suffering. He's a guy who deserves your attention.

    If you are prone to being unhappy during a relationship, you should think about whether it is such a person who makes you unhappy, or your own subconscious that makes you unhappy. Distinguish the reasons and adjust the changes.

    The above is the problem, if there is any error, please understand!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because during a relationship, we can't help but magnify our requirements for the partner, so it is easy to be unhappy and unhappy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because a lot of things don't go as smoothly as I thought. After two people have been dating for a long time, it is easy to become tired, and the relationship is easy to fade.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    During the period of falling in love, the reason why we are prone to being unhappy and unhappy is because in the relationship between two people, it is inevitable that there will be large and small conflicts because of some things in Yitonglun.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't feel happy in a relationship, there may be something wrong with your relationship. Sometimes, this kind of problem can stem from a miscommunication between you or a misalignment of expectations for each other. In either case, you need to think hard about how you really feel.

    First of all, you need to examine whether you really like the other person, or if you are only with the other person because of loneliness or other external factors. If you find that your feelings are not genuine, then you need to consider ending the relationship so as not to waste each other's time and energy.

    If you really like each other, then there may be a problem with communication between you. In this case, you need to communicate openly with the other person about your feelings, tell her your expectations and ideas, and work together to solve the problem. Sometimes, you may need to spend more time and effort to solve certain problems, but as long as you can communicate sincerely, I believe that the problem will be solved.

    At the same time, you also need to be clear about your own needs and don't blindly give up your happiness in order to cater to the other person. This does not mean that you need to be selfish or disregard the feelings of the other person, but you need to learn to balance the needs of yourself and the other person so that both parties can be happy.

    Finally, if you can't solve the problem, then maybe you are not a good fit together and need to make a rational choice. Before making any decisions, you need to carefully consider your own feelings and thoughts, as well as the other person's attitudes and behaviors. Whatever choice you make, you need to respect your own and the other person's decisions, as well as the experiences and lessons that come with the relationship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't feel happy in love, you can't be closed and devoted, you can't appreciate each other's advantages, and you can't get each other's love and accommodation, you care about gentleness, thoughtfulness and understanding, just like two strangers who don't have a little temperature together, don't talk speculatively, and don't have emotions.

    First of all, we must give, treat each other sincerely, and take into account each other's feelings and dislikes. Be warm and sunny, don't be careful, and be harsh in everything. Only when you love each other will you be loved by each other.

    Be kind to others and be kind to yourself. In love, you can feel happy by learning together, making progress together, encouraging each other, and supporting each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then stop falling in love and just continue to live a life alone.

    Love is two people tolerating each other, mutual understanding of emotional time, and spiritual blending. Being in love will make both people feel happy, not stressed.

    In a proper relationship, both emotionally involved will feel that life is full of fun and will not want to be with each other all the time. And a relationship that makes people feel uncomfortable can only mean that you are not suitable for each other.

    Maybe it's not the right way to get along, maybe it's not the right person at the right time. But no matter how you look at it, you should not continue this relationship.

    There is still a long way to go, and we are all still very young。If you feel very stressed and unhappy during the love stage, the end is already doomed.

    No one can bear the mental pressure to persist, and no one can unilaterally give to maintain a relationship. Rather than waiting until the long pain of tears in the future, it is better to have a short pain, and it is better to break up now.

    After the breakup, the two no longer have a relationship。You can go on with your life and face everything alone. Even if life doesn't go well, even if you regret it when the time comes, you have a new choice.

    It's better to be in love if you're not happy. When you face life alone, you can choose to face it or choose to escape, and when two people are in love, you can only choose to be brave.

    We live in this world, and there is no one who does not yearn for love, but there is no one who does not want to make themselves happier. Everything we do now is to make our lives better.

    Change the unhappy life now and face the future with a smile. Maybe life will be better in the future, but it all needs a fresh start.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think that if you are not happy in a relationship, you can find a way to make yourself happy with each other. It's normal to feel unhappy in a relationship, after all, there are no perfect people in the world, and there are no perfect lovers. Therefore, there will definitely be a lot of friction in the process of getting along with you, and the economic pressure on two people living together will be much greater, and you have to think about the future, and the responsibility on your shoulders will be heavy in an instant, and it is impossible to have no pressure.

    You can choose to find a time to talk to your partner about your future and your current situation. This will help you have a clearer plan for the future. Two people discussing the future together can also enhance the relationship between the two.

    You feel stressed, and you first have to know where your stress is coming from, and then you have to figure out how to fix it.

    Back then, you could choose to avoid it for a while, just to give yourself a time to calm down. For example, a temporary separation from the partner is not a breakup. Experience what it's like to have no object, and you'll know which one feels better.

    To love someone, you have to shoulder responsibility. It is recommended that you communicate more with the partner, so that you can better solve the problem, and a pleasant love experience can also reduce stress.

    If the financial conditions allow, you can go and buy some delicious things to treat yourself, or you can take the object to a nearby place and come back with a circle. In this way, both of them will be happy, somewhat. If the financial conditions do not allow, plan with the object for this month's expenses and the future.

    Sometimes saving money can be as enjoyable as spending it, and saving money doesn't cause a burden.

    Finally, I wish you all the best in your relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When we fall in love, we feel a lot of mental burden, in fact, there are many reasons. On the one hand, it may be because our work and life are not clearly distinguished, so we increase the pressure at work invisibly to life, on the other hand, it may be because we do not have better communication with each other, so this distrust between each other will make our mental pressure greater, in the face of this kind of problem, we must communicate with each other in a timely manner, find a solution to the problem, or relieve our pressure by distracting attention, and have more emotional exchanges with each other. Only then can we go further and further and reduce this mental burden.

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