The child didn t hear about the willfulness, I was here to care about the old man, what should I do?

This one... It's a problem since ancient times, as a post-80s and 90s, we also came over like this when we were children, the strictness of our parents, the doting of the elderly, and the naughty and disobedient since childhood.

Haha, but when we grow up, we live very well, maybe we can't be a big bowl in the world, but we don't steal, don't rob, don't cheat, the right parents, be worthy of ourselves, live a healthy life, what's not satisfied.

So I think that children sometimes be naughty and disobedient, in fact, the problem is not big, after all, we will grow up and will no longer be naughty, but there is a little bottom line, we must not give in, that is, the child's conduct, must not be used to, including their grandparents and grandparents, I believe that if you talk to them about the child's education, others can be used to it, but the character problem must be strictly corrected, I believe they can also understand, will cooperate with your child's education.

Communicate well, buy food, coax, be friends, tell him about this It's not good to do this, that can be done You have to communicate with the elderly, otherwise you will harm the child for a lifetime.

You should communicate with the elderly, it's all for the good of the child, too laissez-faire will always hurt the child, if it's me, I'll take it to my side and don't let the old man take care of it.

Or is your method wrong, don't control the child in front of the elderly.

This is the most difficult thing to say, you can talk to your lover and ask him to persuade the old man.

Let's go with the flow, how about studying? How old is it?

I didn't understand what you meant, and the sentences were punctuated.

Legal Analysis:1Enlist the help of community workers in Miho.

For the problem of non-support of children, they can seek the help of community workers, criticize and educate the children, and the community assists in supervision. 2.Initiating a civil lawsuit.

If the child does not fulfill his obligation to support his children, the elderly can entrust a lawyer to file a lawsuit with the court. If the supporter fails to perform the maintenance obligation, the elderly person has the right to demand maintenance from the judge. 3.

Pursue criminal responsibility. Where an old, young, sick, or other person who lacks the ability to live independently, who has an obligation to support but refuses to do so, and the circumstances are heinous, is to be sentenced to up to five years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release. A child who does not fulfill his or her maintenance obligations may be guilty of desertion.

Legal basis: Article 49 of the Constitution of the People's Republic of China Adult children have the obligation to support and support their parents.

Communicate well with the elderly, there are a lot of bad things for children in such behavior, for example, parents are actually educating children how to behave, if the old people always stop like this, then parents may not be able to educate children well, and in this case, the education that children get is imperfect, and an imperfect education of course has no way to educate very perfect children, Therefore, the elderly should reflect on whether what they are doing is really right.

After being obstructed in this way, parents can discuss with their parents and tell their parents that if they are used to children like this, children may encounter many problems in the future. And let their parents know that if the child develops an arrogant character, then the child will definitely encounter all kinds of troubles, and there is no way to solve it, consider the troubles encountered in the future, it is better to develop a better character for the child at this time.

In reality, many parents, under the banner of "all for the good of their children", often nag and accuse their children, and seriously yell and even beat and scold. This wrong way of education not only fails to achieve the desired results of education, but children are also prone to become more rebellious. If this is the case, it is normal for the elders to protect them.

The right way is for children to have more questions, communicate more, listen more, and guide more. The key to giving children the opportunity to make mistakes is that after the fact, the child can deeply reflect and truly grow.

When it comes to educating children, there is no compromise on matters of principle. Although this is too iron-faced and selfless, you must establish your own majesty in the child's heart and let him understand not to violate the bottom line. Some parents complain that whenever they are educating their children, the elderly will always come out to interfere.

Enlightenment Education wants to say that even if the elderly intervene, they must be brave enough to insist on their own views. Don't interrupt normal education just because the other party is an old man, which can only make the child feel that no matter what mistakes he makes, he has a backer.

In this case, we should communicate with the elderly, and tell the elderly that blindly protecting the children is not really good for the children, and it is best to work with the elderly to develop a unified management and education method for children.

Communicate more with the elderly, you tell them some ways to educate children, and develop some good habits from an early age, which will have a certain impact and effect on the physical and mental development in the future.

Be sure to communicate with the elderly, telling the elderly that it is not right to do this, and it is easy to cause children to not have a good three views.

Legal analysis: If the son does not care about the elderly, the old man can negotiate with the son first, and if he still does not support the elderly after negotiation, the old man can file a lawsuit with the court to require the children to pay alimony. It is the duty of the children to support the elderly, both morally and legally.

If the child does not support the elderly, and the circumstances are serious, it may constitute the crime of abandonment. Supporters shall fulfill their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly.

Legal basis: Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly

Article 14: Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly before the rebellion and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter who prepares mu shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.