The skills of those scheming veterans in history?

You don't know yourself, you learn scheming, there are many moths in this society, it's not scary to be bullied, it's scary to be bullied, it's terrible, you're slumped, it's hard to get along with your classmates, maybe you don't let go, you're nervous and scared all day.

Or you should learn some ways to get along with each other and understand yourself through observation and thinking and the suggestions in the book and the advice of friends You have to learn social etiquette and some skills in dealing with things Don't solve problems by force Resolve conflicts peacefully, even if you are in a low profile, there is nothing to inferiority complex You have to face yourself and accept yourself Look at people who are worse than you, and you will not have low self-esteem And you may not have deep experience in the world, and the experience of being a person depends on the accumulation of slowly There is you You should take a break and think about your life.

What is the use of learning to scheming, or to suppress good people, what is the use of this, what you should learn is how to deal with things, to be a person with a normal heart, to balance your psychology, this is what you have to learn, and there are some etiquette aspects, speaking aspects.

First learn to act, first of all, you must be able to use your disguise to deceive others, if you are a little cowardly by nature, you must learn to disguise yourself, no matter how capable and powerful the people around you are, you can't escape being confused by a perfect performance, first of all, you must learn to hide your emotions, for example, there is a person who has bullied you before, maybe when you see him again, what appears in your mind is the image of yourself being bullied, if you don't hide your feelings, you will naturally express your avoidance and fear So if you can't actually do it, you pretend to do it, you don't think you're a man, you pretend to be like a man, and you have to figure out how to pretend to be that.

With such a high score and such a strong skill, you have indeed earned it!

But what you should learn is not to scheming, but to learn how to behave.

You were bullied, probably not because you were beaten up, but because you had a disease in your heart.

First of all, you have low self-esteem.

Then, you are narrow-minded and nervous.

Finally, you are vindictive.

However, your merits are also obvious, open-minded and ambitious!

To change your situation, you just need to change your state of mind, you have to let go of hatred or resentment, and slowly learn to tolerate and be tolerant.

At the same time, you also have to do your own thing, study hard, and increase your strength.

A person who is strong in his own right does not need to learn tricks to retaliate, and a person who is already strong disdains to deal with villains.

A master who knows how to scheming, governs the country and governs people, not the whole person.

I have had a similar experience, in fact, this is a lack of self-confidence, and I don't have a very strong feeling after I go to high school. In fact, what you want to learn is the way to deal with people, not the art of scheming (the art of scheming is not a good thing, it is recommended not to learn, even if you learn, do not take the initiative to use, only self-defense). The landlord has begun to realize that to learn these things, in fact, it is the beginning of learning, observe more people around you, see what they do and the results you will slowly learn.

As for the book, I suggest that "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is the best (especially suitable for boys, girls recommend reading "Dream of Red Mansions"), the reason is that most people understand it, and they don't say the truth clearly, it depends on the reader to understand, how much you realize depends on your level, even read this book 7 times, each time there is a new understanding, learn a lot of things, and have the opportunity to suggest that the landlord use the realized things to practice, to see if it works. Remember not to look at the books on the market, such as "Sun Tzu's Explanation of the Art of War" and "Research on Thick Black Studies", first, if these people really have a level, they will not be idle and have nothing to do to play; Second, what others tell you is actually something you don't understand, only what you realize from the examples is what you really understand (whether it's the Three Kingdoms or the Red Mansion, it's actually an example library, look at the examples and understand it yourself), and after understanding from the examples, you have to use it in real life before you can learn it. Even the level of the individual is not very high, understand some, the actual use is too little, can only talk on paper, I hope the landlord will learn something.

Character is innate, and it can't be changed by reading a book or two and learning some tricks.

But the character is not unchangeable, it is just possible to constantly hint at yourself to the aspect you want to change, and take action.

Attached: It is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, it is better to read countless people than to read 10,000 miles, and it is better to have an epiphany overnight than to read countless people.

Thought determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny.

The sound of dogs and horses is full of passing clouds.

Men, to be strong, it does not mean that you must have a strong body and beautiful biceps, but a strong and brave heart. Forbearance, a knife on the head of the heart, further becomes "benevolence", a step back, it is a blade. The key is how you do it, to grasp it.

Both body and mind need to be trained, and a man's growth is indispensable for painful memories, cherish him, and regard it as a valuable wealth on the road of life. Cowardice, submission, regret, and evasion are all strong enemies. Cherish yourself, love yourself, everyone else in this world is selfish except your parents and yourself.

As for the trick of scheming, it is just a trick played by the people of the rivers and lakes, in the rivers and lakes, it is inevitable that you can't do what you want, and when you accumulate a certain status and wealth, you have lost a lot. Is it really good to gain or lose? Wouldn't it be nice to make all this a happy experience?

Guiguzi Wang Xu (about 400 B.C. - about 270 B.C.), a king of Chan, the Taoist name Xuanweizi, the year of birth and death is unknown, Huaxia nationality, prominent figure in the Warring States Period. According to legend, the four flesh moles on his forehead have become the image of ghosts. One said that Weiguo (Qi County, Henan) people; One said that the people of the Warring States Wei State Yedi (Linzhang, Hebei).

One said that Chen Guo Dancheng (Dancheng County, Henan) people; One said that the shore of the Han River is from Yunyang (Shiquan County, Shaanxi). A famous strategist, a representative figure of Taoism, a master of the art of war, and the originator of the Zongheng family, he is proficient in a hundred schools of learning, and calls himself Mr. Guigu because he lives in seclusion in the ghost valley of Yunmeng Mountain. Guiguzi often goes into the mountains to practice, is well versed in Taoism, and is unpredictable.

"Wang Chan Lao Zu" is the name of Guiguzi by later generations, and it is one of the five schools of old learning. Old school: Su Zhang (Su Qin and Zhang Yi), Guigu faction, Shen and Han faction, Yang Zhu faction, Zhuang and Lie faction, Yin Wen faction.

When Xiang Yu was young, he saw Qin Shi Huang passing by on the street, and what he said was: "He can take his place." This is recorded in Sima Qian's "Historical Records of Xiang Yu Benji" of the Western Han Dynasty, and Xiang Yu said in the face of the first emperor's honor guard. It shows Xiang Yu's ambition and pride.

He may take his place" means: I can also take his place. "He", another thing, here refers to Qin Shi Huang. "Generation", replaced.

He can be replaced by the original".

Qin Shi Huang traveled to Huiji, crossed Zhejiang, and Liang was both observant. He said: "He can take his place."

Liang covered his mouth and said: "Don't lie about it, the clan!" Liang is a strange book.

He is more than eight feet long, and he can carry the tripod and is talented, although the children of Wuzhong are all gone.

Translation: When Qin Shi Huang visited Huiji County to Zhejiang, Xiang Liang and Xiang Ji went together. Xiang Ji said:

That person, I can replace him! Xiang Liang hurriedly covered his mouth and said, "Don't talk nonsense, you have to cut off all the door!"

But Xiang Liang felt that Xiang was very unusual because of this. Xiang Ji is more than eight feet tall, powerful and capable of lifting the crown, and his talent is beyond ordinary people, even the local young people in Wuzhong are afraid of him.

When Xiang Yu was young, he saw Qin Shi Huang passing by on the street and said: "He can take his place!"

"He can take his place", which means that I can also replace his throne. I think he said it when he was a teenager.

The original text of "Historical Records": Xiang Qin Shi Huang traveled to Huiji, crossed Zhejiang, and Liang was both from his origins. He said: "He can take his place." Liang covered his mouth and said: "Don't lie about it, the clan!" ”

Historically, Song Jiang was the leader of the peasant uprising in the Northern Song Dynasty. In "All Song Ci", there are two poems of Song Jiang, one is the sentimental and melancholy "Nian Nujiao", and the other is this "Xijiang Yue" full of pride. It is impossible to verify where it was written.

According to the well-known "Water Margin", this poem is an anti-poem inscribed by Li Songjiang in Xunyang Building after he was drunk.

Original poem. Xijiangyue has studied history since she was a child, and she also has the power to plan when she grows up.

Just like a tiger lying in the wilderness, lurking minions endure it.

Unfortunately, the cheeks are stabbed, and that is worthy of being in Jiangzhou.

If he has revenge, blood will stain the mouth of the Xunyang River!

The heart is in Shandong, the body is in Wu, and the river and the sea are screaming.

If he succeeds in Ling Yunzhi, he dares to laugh at Huang Chao for not being a husband! 

"Xijiangyue: History of Studying the Scriptures since I was a child".

Song Jiang was written in Xunyang Building, Jiangzhou.

Since childhood, he has studied history, and he has the power to plan when he grows up; Just like a tiger lying on a barren hill, lurking minions to endure. Unfortunately, the cheeks are stabbed, and that is worthy of being in Jiangzhou. If he has revenge, blood will stain the mouth of the Xunyang River! This is the 39th episode of "Water Margin" in Song Jiang's anti-poem (actually a word) in Xunyang Tower.

Since childhood, he has studied history, and the Great Wall also has power. Just like the tiger lying on the hill ......If he is Ling Yunzhi, he dares to laugh at Huang Chao and not his husband" This is the word written by Song Jiang in Xunyang Building Xijiangyue.

On the style of the style of the very high mountain scenery.

Because he only understands how to seek a country for a while, but he does not understand how to maintain his health (body), let alone how to seek a country of a hundred years or a thousand years (life or body)!

A psychological disorder is a person's inability to behave in a socially acceptable and appropriate manner, and the consequences of his or her actions are unsuitable for the person and society.

Communicate more, communicate more, it is because you don't communicate often that you have a sense of fear of people.