Troubled by love, troubled, what should I do with love

Pick a time they spend together and make it clear to their faces.

No, because I used to love her deeply, and I won't punish myself and her because of what happened before, I will only love her even more, and come to tease and comfort her wounded heart.

Different people have different opinions about such things.

If you care about her past and have been haunted by it. The only thing that is to persuade you to leave her as soon as possible, or one day, you will hurt her because of this incident.

If you only care about it for a while, then you have to think about whether you can not use this incident as a reason for your quarrel in the future, and love her well. If you think you did, don't say leave easily.

So, listen to your own heart. Think about whether your love for her can surpass her past unbearable. Weigh it yourself, don't hurt her too much, and don't hurt yourself too much.

It depends on the depth of your love for her, if you really love her very much, don't care about her past.

n Then it depends on whether you can withstand your inner struggle and the so-called gossip, and there is no problem with how the woman will raise the stove in the future, if you can wait by your side in the future, it is not impossible to ......

To put it mildly, if you love her, embrace her past!

The female is always the weak person in the relationship, and she has to pay for the impulsiveness of the two people, and the boy is happy, but the girl has to bear the consequences. You know what I mean, who hasn't been in the past.

When Ming Maoran, what I said was empty words, and when it was real, you had to be prepared to face it yourself.

See what kind of heart you use to measure? Just be able to pass that level in your heart. If you can't get through, let it go, otherwise it will hurt more when you say it in a quarrel in the future.

In fact, there is no right or wrong in love, love itself is very bumpy, you can choose your object, but you can't choose your family! So intellectually speaking, you should choose your family, but you love him very much, maybe your family or his family is against it, and you are faced with the choice between love and affection.

You should try to communicate your thoughts with your family, here you must not take extreme measures, such as the idea of "raw rice cooked rice" is not advisable, after all, this kind of thing may be regretted for a lifetime for girls, so when you communicate with your family, your family is resolutely opposed, then what should you do?

There is only one answer, and that is painful separation.

Why leave?

The reason is, in my opinion, a marriage that your family is against is unhappy, and your single-mindedness may cost you your family, who are against you.

When you resolutely get married despite the opposition of your family, you may find that family is more valuable.

The above represents only personal opinions and is for reference only! Of course, there are also those who resist the family and are happy later, believing in your own choice, at this bifurcation of happiness, only your own opinion is the real choice. Believe in your own vision and believe in your choice! ）

It depends on which one is more important to you.

First, get the consent of your family, for your sake, it's not difficult for him to do this!

If I can't help it, I can only say that a marriage that is not blessed by your parents is not good.

Start by figuring out what love is and what kind of life you want to live in dealing with your love.