My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and are now ready to get married, but there are

I've been to weddings in many places, and it feels like every place is different. On my side, Wenzhou is generally male.

When buying a house, he is giving the woman a gift (generally 5-80,000). And the woman will add money in the gift money of 5-80,000 yuan.

1-20,000 plus gifts (generally the return gift is to buy furniture, home appliances, accessories and some of the daughter's private money). And my brother took it.

The wife is from Hubei, and the family gave 50,000 yuan, but the women's room was all collected, and there was no return gift. There are some ideas at home, you can think.

to my brother's happiness. I didn't talk about it. It depends on what your boyfriend thinks. He.

If you agree, your family won't be calling for more than 10,000 dollars. After all, it can only happen once in a lifetime. If I don't.

will embarrass girlfriends.

When we get married, the man hires him, and then the woman uses the money to buy electrical furniture. If your name isn't on the title deed, I don't think you should pay for it. If there is your name, I think your family should be properly burdened.

As for the bride price, it is generally a formality, and we basically bring it with us as a dowry.

These are what your parents are supposed to communicate, not for you to convey, and what you have to do is to find an opportunity for them to meet.

Personally, I think that marriage has nothing to do with parents, so two people who want to get married buy whatever they like, as long as they have money, unless their parents are willing to give, if their parents don't give it, the two of them will earn it themselves.

Find a suitable occasion and the right time to say this bride price in the form of a joke Try it first If the feasibility is directly into the next step Operation If you are not very satisfied or very vague, then it is very simple.

Let your family deal with these things, after all, they are all people who have come over, and you can connect them and let them communicate well.

Why do you want money, the depreciation of the yuan, just ask him for 9999 roses, hahaha.

You and your boyfriend are about to get married after 4 months, even if it is a flash marriage, 4 months is too short.

At the time of the four months of the relationship, it is the time when the intensity of each other's feelings is valued, and it becomes the "hot love period" of the relationship, and the lovers in this period are like glue and intimate, and the marriage is indeed possible. During the four months of being in love, it is best to enjoy these periods of love, during which everyone's emotions will grow rapidly.

About 3 to 6 months of the relationship, at this time the period of mutual love has passed, the sweet and passionate period has long passed, the emotions have gradually cooled down, and the mutual defects have gradually begun to appear, and the differences have slowly increased, so the marriage during this period is not a rational decision.

Love for more than half a year to 2 years, during this period of time couples usually have a sufficient grasp of each other, including his personality, temperament, preferences, value orientation, etc., when you feel suitable, we will be able to discuss the completion of marriage, the time is too long It is very easy to pass the marriageable age, so the lovers who have been in love for more than half a year to 2 years are the most suitable for marriage.

Married life is what a woman wants to do most in her life, and there are many things that must be taken into account, including the maintenance of emotions after marriage and its future planning, which must be carefully prepared.

In reality, four months is not a very short time.

If a man and a woman are in love for 4 months, as long as it is not a long-distance relationship, in reality, there are people who have already entered the marriage hall. Even if you don't enter the marriage hall, you are at least in love.

Marriage is not necessarily related to the length of time together, even if you only get along for three days, as long as you feel that you have a common language, similar personalities, and love each other very much, you can consider getting married.