I don t think death is the end, people will exist in another way when they die.

Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is. Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain. Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad. People are self-grasping all day long:

I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness. Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance. Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

Human perception is just a biochemical reaction of the brain, when a person dies, the tissues of the brain will die, the chemical reactions of the body will stop, and another way of your existence is to turn into feces.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, the counseling question you gave involves two arguments: I think that life has no meaning, and the ultimate end of life is death.

In the university exams, my classmates didn't study, they sharpened their guns, and cheated in the exams, but I worked hard but still didn't do well. I feel that there is no point in working hard.

Then I will give my response or my personal opinion with this. For the first argument, animals die just like humans, however, only humans touch on the existence of the problem and thus generate meaning. In the German philosopher Heidegger, he believed that animals can only die, because animals do not ask the question of death, nor do they actively choose death; Man can actively choose to die because he can recognize existence and give meaning.

Therefore, if the end of man is death, and you don't know that karma means that life has no meaning, if your argument 1 is true, maybe you are assuming that you want to make some kind of eternal meaning beyond death. And that's another topic; As for the second argument, since you put it forward, it just shows that you assume or think it is meaningful (contradicting the first argument), but you feel that there is no point in working hard, and the argument comes from the fact that you worked hard but did not do well in the exam, and your classmates did not study, sharpened their guns and cheated on exams. However, the results obtained by grinding guns and cheating in exams do not represent the knowledge gained, people get scores in exams to verify the effect of learning, however, only those who have gained knowledge by their own efforts can be verified by exams, cheating is only to deal with teachers and exams themselves.

There are many different social environments in college, which are different from high school. There are also many people who cheat in life, and I think you can get this feeling through your college classmates, which can be amplified into future social activities; However, this is another topic that needs to be discussed specifically; Finally, perhaps more importantly, why you feel that you have worked hard but have not achieved good grades, I do not know your major, your teacher's way of writing questions, your mastery of the level and the relationship between the exams, which can only be discussed after further understanding.

I happened to mention the story in the movie "Then" in "Life Philosophy Lesson". In the story, the father talks to his daughter about the topic of "death".

The father said to his daughter, "When we die, we don't exist, or maybe we will exist better." Do you know why I think so?

When you see a ship disappearing into the sea......Have you ever seen a ship disappear in the distance? When a ship disappears, we can't see it, but can we say it doesn't exist? ”

Daughter: "No. ”

The father continued, "yes, so I think it's the same with death. It's as if life is gradually moving away from us for some reason, and although our eyes can't see it anymore, it still exists. ”

The daughter asked, "The ship will come back, but why don't the dead come back to us?" ”

"Because they went to a better place than here, they didn't want to come back," the father said. But we will see them again, because we are also going to that place, and they are waiting for us there, and finally we will be reunited with them in that better place. ”

After reading this story, I was asking myself, "If that world is so beautiful, why don't we go there?" ”

Later, I found the answer: "Because we don't know enough about the world." ”