What exactly is the problem of feelings in love?

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... to have everythingPlease cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

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Love is always imagined to be more beautiful than reality, and so is the meeting, and so is the farewell. We thought that love was deep, deep, and that the years to come would let you know that it was only shallow, shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time.

In life, we often feel anxious, such as the tension with our partner makes you anxious, such as worrying about your children's learning and anxiety, such as anxiety about work performance is not as good as that of colleagues, and we may also be anxious that we are old and have nothing to rely on, etc.

These anxieties make us uncomfortable, but it will not let us go because we are uncomfortable, but follow us like a shadow.

Actually, we should not resist the generation of anxiety, they are a natural product, it is something that causes our emotional reaction. Emotions don't matter whether they are right or wrong, only whether they are comfortable or uncomfortable, whether they are uncomfortable or not.

Avoiding antagonism is not the right way, the right way is to accept this normal emotion, and then analyze it, understand it, what is it in life that makes us anxious.

Anxiety is a kind of internal friction, it shows that you have made a mistake, you have done something wrong, and you have to correct it. This stems from the idea that is ingrained in our hearts, the boundaries that exist in our brains.

Normally, something happens because they cross that line, which we don't know at the time, but it actually has a shock in our hearts, so it affects our lives like a shadow.

The event itself is the fuse, the boundaries in our hearts determine our cognition, when our cognition is good, there will be no anxiety, only when the cognition is biased, wrong, or the event itself really harms the individual, anxiety will arise.

When our cognition is biased, we must adjust our cognition at this time, and the first thing to adjust is our inner boundaries. Partnering tensions happen at some point in every family, and there is no need to make a fuss; If the child's studies are not done well, it is not entirely the child's problem, whether the adults have good counseling; Worrying about not being as good as others at work is the most normal emotion; Worrying about being old and having nothing to rely on is a bit unfounded, and you are not finished in your young age, so you begin to worry about your old life.

So an analysis, a lot of anxiety is that the boundaries in our hearts have been impacted, the lack of these boundaries is like the scale of life in the brain, if we are too fast, it will produce blame for the slowness of life, so sometimes, we need to adjust our scale, let ourselves be in line with real life, not too fast or too slow.

Some people fight anxiety is to control, and use all their strength to resist it, but these anxieties will be like a flood beast, they can't be suppressed, you suppress it at one moment, and the next second it will come back, leaving you in endless distress.

But there are some people who are really powerful, they suppress it, and let the anxiety freeze, but the consequences of this situation are even more terrible, because once this happens, his body will get sick, and this disease is not a minor disease, but a major illness that he has caused himself. Emotions are just a product of nature, and if they are forcibly suppressed, they will be unnatural, and you can see which thing is good for all the anti-natural things in this world. So proper grooming is the key.

Maybe you're not very interested in this male state friend, and you don't like this boyfriend very much in your heart, but yes, I don't hate it, and I don't like that feeling This man, sometimes he is a little more anxious, and this is also normal.

No boyfriend is a very attentive person, and if you are good to her he remembers it in his heart, so he can feel this feeling of love.

Love is a matter of two people, and if you give him a struggle, he will definitely feel it. And if you feel that the first person who can't realize it is honest with him, maybe he is more restrained.

In the process of falling in love, when you are good to your boyfriend, then your boyfriend must be able to feel it, because everyone.

Love is intangible, invisible and intangible, but can only be felt with the heart, with the heart to experience Sun Hao Peihui, love a person can be him all, love a person can be heart to heart, with the heart to understand and experience, Lu Yuan hopes that the two of you can be long.

The emotional posture is yes, your love is indeed problematic, your object is too demanding, he feels that you have no love for him before he starts the book, and it may be clear that you really haven't really loved him, you don't love him.