What does it feel like to be soft spoken? What does it mean to be soft spoken?

It's the feeling that you talk to, but no one pays attention to you. It's that no matter what you say, no one will listen to you, that is, your sense of presence is very low.

People are soft-spoken: low status, speaking is not taken seriously.

The feeling is that others don't talk to you, or even listen to you. Very frustrating. But if you enrich yourself and have unique insights when you speak, it is estimated that others will listen; Of course, if you are in a circle of low quality, no one will necessarily listen to what you say correctly, but if you have the ability, there will be changes over time.

I feel that others don't speak, or even don't listen to you, I am very lost, I begin to feel inferior, I feel uncomfortable with my own status, I will think badly about others, and I will become more and more lonely.

I feel that what I say is not important to others, and my words are nothing, and others will not listen, and I feel very distressed and angry.

No matter what others say, they won't allow you to speak, they won't care about you, they won't listen to the person you say and one thing, you will feel very sad that you are not their person.

It's like you say something that others can't hear, and if you make any suggestion, others won't listen to one of your suggestions, so you feel very uncomfortable.

For example, when a person has experienced a lot of things, they will feel this kind of feeling of being soft-spoken, and the most important thing is that they don't have that kind of ability, so they will feel this feeling.

At this time, I feel very sad that no one believes in what you do or what I do, and no one listens to your opinion.

If you are not in a class and your academic performance is average, the teacher will not pay much attention to you, even if the questions you ask and the suggestions you say are right, the teacher will not care.

It may be that this person has no status in the team, so no one will believe what he says, and even if he says the truth, there should not be many people who want to listen to what he says.

The whole meaning of the word is: if a person is under the position, then his words have no weight. The meaning of "micro" here is tiny, insignificant, and by extension, it means lowly status, bottom.

People are soft-spoken: It refers to the low status of people, and their opinions and opinions are not taken seriously. From the Song Dynasty Su Shi's "Ruling Temperament and Relief and Repair of the Character Book", "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. ”

The status is low, and speaking is not taken seriously. Anyway, speaking in front of others has no weight and no influence.

The status is low, so what is said has no weight, and not many people will be willing to listen to it or adopt it.

Ready-made words that are commonly used in people's lives. Proverbs are similar to idioms, but they are colloquial, easy to understand, and generally express a complete meaning, almost in the form of one or two short sentences.

The content of the proverbs includes a wide range, some are agricultural proverbs, such as "before and after the Qingming Festival, plant melons and beans"; Some are proverbs of reason, such as "sow melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans"; Some belong to common sense proverbs in all aspects of life, such as "Humility makes people progress, pride makes people backward." "After eating, walk a hundred steps and live to ninety-nine." There are so many categories, too many to count.

Idiom usage. combined; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

Example Yuan The third fold of Anonymous's "Uncle Fan": This deserves it, but it is not enough to be afraid of people's words.

Qing Li Baojia's "The Appearance of Officialdom" Chapter 35: You are soft-spoken, how could you have done them?

A Little History of Civilization" Chapter 3: "Besides, the lowly people speak softly, and they don't hear it when they dry their mouths." ”

Don't say lightly, don't believe you, look at the wine glass in the glass, the glass is advanced, and the rich man is rich.

The Chinese idiom is rén wēi yán qīng, which means low status and not being taken seriously by others.

Source: Qing Li Baojia "The Appearance of Officialdom" Chapter 35: You are soft-spoken, how could you have done them?

Translation: You have a low status and are not valued by others, how can you be their opponent.

Syntax: unional; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

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synonyms: 1. Insignificant.

Interpretation: micro: fine, small; Foot: Worth it; Dao: Talk about it. It's too small to be mentioned. It means that the meaning, value, etc. are too small to be mentioned.

Source: Guo Moruo's poem "A Hundred Flowers Bloom, Monochrome": "Although we are insignificant in the grass and flowers. But our suit color is a purple representative. ”

2. Nothing at all.

Explanation: One hair on the body of nine cows. The metaphor of a very small number of very large quantities, insignificant.

Source: **"Sentimental Books, Seven Ancient Hands" poem: Don't boast at all, pride and complacency will overturn.

People speak lightly and are not valued by others and have a low status.

人微言轻 [ rén wēi yán qīng ]

Explanation: Low status, speaking is not taken seriously.

From: Song Su Shi's "Shang Ruling Begging for Relief and Repair of the Book of Yu": "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. ”

Translation: Song Su Shi's "The Book of the Ruling Ruler Begging for Relief and Repairing the Yushu": "He has mentioned this matter several times, but the emperor has not paid attention to it. ”

Example: How would you have done them?

Syntax: unional; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

The antonym of a person's subtlety is a word.

一言九鼎 [ yī yán jiǔ dǐng ]

Explanation: Jiuding: The treasure of the ancient country, according to legend, was cast by Xia Yu. One sentence is worth nine pounds. Parables speak with great power and can make a big difference.

From: "Historical Records: The Biography of the Plains Junlie": "Mr. Mao arrived in Chu and made Zhao heavy in Jiuding Dalu. Mr. Mao's three-inch tongue is stronger than a million-strong teacher. Don't dare to reinstate. ”

Translation: "Historical Records: The Biography of the Plains Junlie": "As soon as Mr. Mao arrived in the Chu State, he made the prestige of the Zhao State higher than that of Jiuding and Da Lu. Mr. Mao's three-inch-long tongue is as strong as an army of millions. Zhao Sheng (I) didn't dare to evaluate talents anymore. ”

Example: If you are an expert or an important person, then don't worry about it.

Grammar: subject-predicate; as a subject, a predicate, a definite; Compliments.

A person who is soft-spoken means that he has a low status and is not valued by others.

人微言轻 [ rén wēi yán qīng ] Source: Song Su Shi "Shang Zhi Qi Du 牒赈济 and because of the repair of 廨宇书": "A certain has played three times, and has not been reported so far. ”

Vernacular translation: Song Su Shi's "The Book of the Ruling Ruler Begging for Relief and Repairing the Yushu": "I have played this matter to the emperor three times, and until now no emperor has paid attention to it, my low status and speaking are not taken seriously, and I should be self-aware." ”

Syntax: unional; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

synonyms: insignificant, people are light, people are cheap, people are light.

Antonyms: a word nine tripods, a promise of a thousand gold, nine tripods of Da Lu.

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人微言外 is a Chinese idiom, pinyin is rén wēi yán qīng, which means that the status is extremely low, and speaking is not valued by others. It is a word that belongs to the joint form, which can be used as a predicate, object, and definite, and the part of speech has a derogatory meaning.

From the Song Dynasty's Su Shi's "Shang Zhi Du Mu Ji and the Book of Repairing the Yu Dynasty": "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. "It means that I have played this matter three times, and I have not responded to it until now, just because people are soft-spoken, so it should not be taken seriously.

People are soft-spoken: It means that they have a low status and are not valued by others.

Source of the idiom: Song Su Shi's "Shang Zhi Zhi Du Mu Ji Ji and the Book of Yu Yu for Repair": "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. ”

Interpretation: I have mentioned this matter several times, the emperor did not pay attention to it, according to the inside, you should respect yourself, don't mention this matter again, but considering the matter, you still have to bring it up.

Example sentence: When people speak softly, listen more and absorb a little experience to make up for their shortcomings.

The meaning of a person's light words is small, insignificant. By extension, it means to be of a humble and low position.

人微言轻: rén wēi yán qīng [Interpretation]: Low status, speaking is not valued by others.

From: Song Su Shi's "Shang Ruling Begging for Relief and Repair of the Book of Yu": "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. ”

Example: How would you have done them? Qing Li Baojia's "Officialdom Appearance" Chapter 35 [Grammar]:

combined; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory [synonyms]: insignificant, people are light, people are cheap, people are light, people are light [antonyms]: a word of nine tripods, a word of gold, nine tripods of Dalu.

People are soft-spoken and have a low status, and their words are not taken seriously.

From: Song Su Shi's "Shang Ruling Begging for Relief and Repair of the Book of Yu": "A certain has played three times, and it has not been reported so far. ”

Translation]: He has already reported the incident three times, and it has not yet been reported, so it turns out that people are soft-spoken, and it should be so.

Syntax: unional; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

1.Pronunciation [rén wēi yán qīng]2Paraphrase.

The status is low, and speaking is not taken seriously.

When the sentence maker is soft-spoken, listen more and absorb a little experience to make up for your own shortcomings.

Yeyu Xiaoxiang said: Seeing the subtle knowledge, the person is soft-spoken, these topics are okay"Micro"The era is the era when the power of the grassroots gathers.

I'm soft-spoken, and it doesn't help you speak.

I'm just a salesman in the company, and I'm soft-spoken, and I can't intercede for you in front of the manager.

People are soft-spoken, and your words have no effect.

There is no part of speaking in front of others, and no one will listen to them when they are always inferior.

The meaning of a person's light words is small, insignificant. By extension, it means to be of a humble and low position.

人微言轻 [ rén wēi yán qīng ]

1.Explanation: Low status, speaking is not taken seriously.

2.[From]: Song Su Shi's "Shang Ruling Begging for Relief and Repair of the Book of Yu": "A certain has played three times, and has not reported defeat so far. ”

3.Example: How would you have done them? Qing Li Baojia's "The Appearance of Officialdom" Chapter 35.

4.Syntax: unional; as a predicate, object, and definite; Derogatory.

5.[synonyms]: insignificant, people are light, people are light, people are cheap, people are light6[antonyms]: a word of nine tripods, a word of gold, nine tripods of Lu.

There is an idiom called "people are soft-spoken", which says that if a person has a low status, his words have no weight.

If you think about it, why is this happening?

What determines a person's status? Some may say that it is determined by a person's wealth or power, some may say that it is determined by his knowledge and ability, and some may say that it is determined by the people that a person can influence.

But no matter what, there is a premise first, that is, you need to recognize yourself, you need to think that you are important enough.

When a person has wealth, power, knowledge, and ability, and can influence many people, of course, he will be recognized by others, and naturally he will recognize himself, and he will be able to feel that his status is high enough.

However, when a person has not yet received so much, or is still in the process of struggling, does he also need to recognize himself?

This is actually a topic that has been painful for generations, many times, we put other people, the collective and the larger organization in front of ourselves, and when there is a conflict of interests, we tend to sacrifice ourselves for others, tend to sacrifice our lives for righteousness, and tend to make great sacrifices for the good of the collective.

There will be many important things in a person's heart, and the only thing missing is recognition of oneself, and the importance of oneself.

This has a lot to do with a person's failure to establish their own internal authority, if a person can't be good to himself, then even for others, no matter how good he is for the collective, there will be a very important thing missing.

Moreover, if you don't elevate your own importance, how can you elevate your status? If you don't recognize your own status, then it is likely that many times it is not that you have no weight in speaking, but that you don't even have the opportunity to speak and the courage to speak.

Some people may say, this is not to let yourself have the confidence to be confused, this is not necessarily, more is that we have the courage to discover our strengths, to be able to let ourselves have recognition of ourselves, to do well is to do well, do not be too modest, otherwise it is likely to lose a lot of valuable opportunities.

Moreover, when you can recognize yourself, you can better recognize others; When you can be good to yourself, you can be better to others. This is a virtuous cycle, there is an input, there is an output, there is an internal cycle of self, not a blind output, there is no input, and it is also unreasonable from the point of view of energy conservation.

With self-confidence, self-esteem, and enough internal authority, you will naturally be able to have the courage to speak your own opinions, even if you can't get everyone's approval at the beginning, but as long as you think about it yourself, you can continue to learn through each expression, then you can continue to improve yourself, and you can better make your inner authority stronger, and you can make your own words more weighty.