How do introverts spend long vacations?

Introverted people, withdrawn by nature, do not like to make friends, like to do things alone, they have a particularly strong self-esteem, and their face is also very big, Pu, they are not willing to do anything difficult, afraid of being embarrassed if they do not do well, and once they can't do it, they will give up, and they will become more lonely and unwilling to see people, and they are unwilling to do it again. They are also prone to depression and can't think about things, especially those who have big ideals. But they will be wiser, and they will have a very rich inner world, and they will like to do things by themselves, and they will be very practical and more successful in what they do.

Of course, that's not to say that all introverts are like that. For an introverted and unconfident college student, how to get through the confusion zone? I think there are the following.

First, don't be afraid to do anything with self-confidence, others can succeed and you can succeed, I am not worse than anyone else, is it that others have more heads than me, two more hands, three heads and six arms. Second, eliminate self-esteem, don't be afraid of embarrassment, people in this world can not succeed no matter what they do, I'm afraid of what a big deal to start all over again, it's a big deal that they say I don't have the ability, and in this world, after all, there are very few people who have the ability. Third, we should make more friends, go to more crowded places to take a look, open our minds, communicate with them more, learn and learn, talk about our experiences, emancipate our minds, let go of our ambitions, get out of loneliness, be active and open-minded, and slowly adapt to the social environment.

Fourth, now find a job to adapt, learn to learn, and then set future goals, to struggle and work hard, I think as long as this no matter what difficulties, in front of you you can overcome, no matter what you do, you can succeed, and do very well.

Introverts and extremely unconfident people must first build confidence. Get a job and regain your confidence in simple work. When a person who is not confident can achieve a little bit at work, there will be a great sense of satisfaction and self-confidence.

At the same time, the confusion and confusion at the beginning disappeared. As for what causes the lack of self-confidence, there are many reasons. The first is that introverted children are quieter and more obedient.

Not assertive, not good at communicating with strangers. Even if you are wronged, you will only suffer in silence. If you hold it in your heart for a long time, it will have a great impact on yourself.

Also, when you are in school, other classmates are stronger than you and make you feel inferior, and you stay away from them, so you can only follow silently. There is no courage to compete. Such a character also has the responsibility of parents, and the strict requirements of parents will also make children only obey, but not have the initiative to deal with things.

In short, to have faith, you must first have results, when others praise you. You will gradually gain a sense of opinion and direction. At this time, you may be a little persistent and can't listen to other people's opinions, so you should pay attention.

College is a new beginning in life. Actually, I've seen a lot of college students who are in a similar situation to you. Here, there is no way to provide professional counselling as I usually do when I work with students.

So, let's briefly talk about what can be practiced. If you are a person who knows how to read, you may benefit from using your vacation to find some information about talking and interpersonal communication. More importantly, it is a good choice to start consciously practicing in real life, such as starting to lead a topic, starting to boldly interject from the middle, and starting to take the initiative to ask someone to chat.

Of course, if you have deeper troubles or difficulties before doing this.

The introverted personality is indeed very passive, and many introverts are retreating because they are too unconfident every time they should be brave enough to express their opinions, and over time, they form an insurmountable obstacle in their hearts. This is a common phenomenon, and there are some individuals who have an introverted personality formed due to sudden changes in family circumstances. In short, it is very difficult to completely change the personality.

However, its own flaws can be complemented in other ways. That is to say, we introverts are not good at words and do not smile. Then simply be yourself.

But no matter what you do in the future, you must have a plan in your heart and be fully prepared. Don't give confusion and confusion a chance. Finally, don't underestimate yourself.

It is because we have extraordinary endurance and a heart that is willing to be alone. As a result, we have a strong inner world, and as long as we are willing to accept extroversion, everything can be changed.

Introverts don't like to talk, but they are serious, focused and they are reputable people, why do I say that, because I am an introvert, in fact, introverts are not necessarily unconfident. Unconfidence is related to their past growth environment, but if introverted and unconfident people should spend time in confusion, they should first let themselves think calmly, think about what kind of life they want, see what kind of life they want, see what they are lacking in, how to change, see how they will develop in that direction in the future, and then find a job, do a good job in the current job, and slowly work well to have self-confidence and maintain enthusiasm for work.

Introversion is not something that can be changed to extroversion in a day or two, but it can be overcome. It's like saying that you have to be well prepared before you go to an interview. We say that social universities don't depend on how gorgeous your diploma is, whether it's a mule or a horse, or whether you have to walk it.

Since I know that I am introverted and not good at words. It is also important to prepare well for the test. Thinking about the interviewer's Q&A pattern is nothing more than self-introduction, what is your understanding of our company and its future development prospects, and how to do it.

If you don't want to do even the most basic preparations, then it's not a question of introversion and extroversion, and it needs to be deeply examined.

Introversion and lack of self-confidence are not necessarily related. You can see me go through an introverted question. In a familiar environment, you will be confident when you do what you are familiar with.

If you are not familiar with it, you will not be confident, can you not be confused? If there is no difficulty or challenge in doing yourself, the whole person will be in a state of stagnation, and if you don't advance, you will retreat. So you have to be bold and do it, for example, a job, you think you can do it, but it may take a year and a half, then go for it.

This is how every novice in the workplace comes. Don't panic when you have goods in your stomach, you still have to learn more knowledge.

The so-called introversion or lack of self-confidence is basically a negative emotion that affects the subconscious! If you want to help yourself eliminate negative emotions, you need to use positive desires to influence the subconscious, and it is positive emotions that govern your mind. Your subconscious mind will accept and accommodate any thought.

At this point you have to remember that you are "alive" every day, living in the various thought impulses that enter your subconscious. Positive emotions and negative emotions cannot occupy your consciousness at the same time, and one of them must be dominant.

How to get through the period of confusion? In the four years of college, if you have to graduate before thinking about your future path, then you are too irresponsible for yourself. Think about whether you want to work or start a business, if you work, what to do, and what your long-term plan is.

If you start a business, what can you do and what resource advantages do you have? In short, just set a goal for yourself, and then move forward step by step, and when you start to do things, you won't be confused. As for what caused it, it is related to your own experience, especially the family environment, the influence of your parents is great, don't dwell on the past, live the present well, and grasp the future.