I m so helpless... What does it mean to be so helpless?

Obviously, love you are there, but love your family even more. A man with backbone, what he is most afraid of is that others say that he eats soft rice, but at present, everything he does proves that he is eating soft rice, and he is determined to go on like this, which is very dangerous for you, you must tell him seriously and clearly, we are not married, you can't live in our house, this has a very bad impact, my parents will look at you differently, you really love me, you should love yourself more, you must know how to respect yourself, let him go out to find a job, find a place to live. But to be honest, I suggest you split it up.

After all, who can really understand each other? What's more, it's not going to happen, he's like this, and you'll be cheeky in the future.

Judging from what you have said, your boyfriend is so unmotivated! The conditions at home are not good, and I don't think about how to work hard to make the conditions at home better, thinking that it will be okay to find a girlfriend with good conditions? Do you feel like he has a sense of family responsibility?

If you can't bear such a person now, he will harm you in the future, and it will be even more terrible after marriage. When looking for a husband, you must find someone who has a sense of responsibility and thinks about everything for your sake. Have you ever discussed studying abroad with your dad?

If you tell him that your dad asked you to go abroad, I don't think he can follow him anymore, right?

If you really love each other, family conditions and distance are really not obstacles. If the relationship has reached a certain level, (very good, very good), then why bother with this. Let's talk to him, remember... Be calm and sincere.

But if you don't feel it anymore, don't care about face. I hope you are happy soon.

The first point is that money is necessary for everyone, but it is slightly inferior to true love. So there is no head-on conflict between money and love.

The second point is that we don't know if he is good to you, but it seems to be a bit far-fetched from the first time you meet him.

The third point is that loneliness, affection, and love are often confused. Maybe you're one of them.

Summary: Your problem, I don't think people who have experienced it first-hand will have no way to help you solve it. Only by doing your best, the original intention is the next answer. Supplement (Resolve emotional matters must be calm).

It's up to you how you look at this kind of question.

It is indeed an unreasonable choice for the man to live with you if he is not engaged or married to you.

If you really love him yourself, it is not impossible for you to choose the path of marriage, so that your father's worries are unnecessary.

If he relied on the job your father found him and lived with you for a long time, it means that he doesn't have too strong self-esteem and self-motivation, so go to your father's company as soon as possible and see how he reacts. He is a man who conquers the world and a man who pesters girls......

Feelings are very tangled, it is a man who should have his own career, no career, at least he should have a relatively stable job, nothing, how to give his other half happiness, drink the northwest wind together?

People will change, they may get better or better, and the future cannot be predicted.

However, I agree with netizens, you really shouldn't hurt your parents, you are very similar to my niece's situation, it's really worrying.

Feelings are very tangled, if he loves you very, very much, you explain to him, I think he will agree; If you don't agree, then you still choose a better development opportunity, girls can't just rely on men, they still have to rely on themselves when it is critical. I hope you solve this tangled problem as soon as possible, and I wish you a bright future!

It depends on your usual life together, in the details, do you feel that he loves you, or is he just greedy for your family's wealth? All sincerity can't escape the verification of details, and ask your heart, do you still love him? If you don't love it, let it go, even if you've been together before, it's nothing, after all, people who really love you won't care about this.

It feels like you're all guessing, and a lot of things happen because of poor communication. The right way is to find a suitable opportunity to tell him what you mean, and what your parents are worried about, so that the problem can be solved. Random speculation is like going to the doctor, you can't afford to delay, and you will regret it for a lifetime.

Sometimes you already have an idea in your mind, and you just want to find a reason to be more obedient to yourself. Do whatever you want mentally, others are far less aware of your current situation than yourself.

I still want to make it clear to him directly, I hope he will stabilize his job, and you don't go to your dad first, find a job outside, live in the company dormitory, and see how he reacts.

Try to make it easier for yourself, not everyone is like that.

I think it's a love of money, and I think anyone will take advantage of it.

Is it worth hurting your own parents for the sake of outsiders? I've had this experience too, and it's going to pass.

He kind of wanted to be a little white face (to be hit by me.

You'd better go to your dad's.

I don't like you, find someone who cares more about you.

I didn't see that he liked you! Look at the chaos.

You can't have this kind of man.

To be helpless is to feel helpless without help.

无助 [ wú zhù ].

Interpretation: There is only one person or one side of the force, and there is no external assistance.

From: Zhang Ping's "Choice": "He suddenly felt that he was so weak and powerless, and at the same time so helpless. ”

synonyms: unaided.

Example sentence: There is no one around him in this dark and dangerous environment where he can't see his fingers, and he feels helpless like never before.

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Good helpless synonym idiom introductionLone Army Battle [ gū jūn zuò zhàn ] Interpretation: An isolated army fights alone. The metaphor is to do things alone, with no one to support you.

From: "Selected Works: Strategic Issues of the Chinese Revolutionary War": "We have detached ourselves from the slowly developing situation of the past. ”

Example sentence: We have come out of the situation of slowly developing and fighting alone.

Usage: subject-predicate; as a predicate; Used in the military.

Hello refers to the fact that there is only one person or one side of the force, and there is no external assistance.

It means to be isolated, to be helpless, to carry oneself without the help of others, and to need the help of others. But no one cared. But I couldn't find anyone to help me, and I expressed a sense of loss.

Helplessness is also a psychological feeling, feeling at the end of the road, without support, the strong sense of loneliness and loss in the heart. It's a word with a strong sense of desolation.

"So helpless" means: feeling helpless when you don't get help. "Helpless" means that there is only one person or one side of the force, and there is no external help.

From the first volume of Song Zhou Xuan's "Qingbo Magazine": "The genus is not prosperous, the former star is not shining, isolated and helpless, and the knowledge is cold." ”

Sentence formation: 1. Maybe in 08 years, I have experienced too many things that make my mood fluctuate a lot, and too many ups and downs have made me so helpless, so helpless that I can only cry on the pillow at night. I'm scared, and even though I've learned to get used to it and endure the feelings that make me miserable, I still choose to stay away from them if I can.

2, you are in the distance**, now I miss you so much, I think about the scene of every time we meet, you are so lonely and helpless when you are not in me, come back quickly, come back to me.