I chased a boy for four years, but he said he didn t feel anything for me

Updated on educate 2024-05-03
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Learn to like others and learn to relax yourself. It's just one of a million people you've met in your life, and just because you're stuck in it doesn't mean you won't like people anymore. Don't hang yourself on this tree, the wonderfulness of life can't be ruined in his hands.

    In addition, I will tell you that there are hundreds of thousands of lovelorn people in China every day, I wish you a happy time and find someone who loves each other!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be stupid, you won't be happy together, a man will not refuse you four times even if he has the slightest favor.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Twisted melons are not sweet! Don't you understand this truth? The more this happens, the more he ignores you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're very single-minded about your feelings! But there are times when you don't fall off a tree and die! See what that means! I wish you to find your true love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A happy relationship requires both parties, and you are advised to let go. Probably for the best.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you just let it go, how many four years does a girl have to waste? Open your eyes to search, you will always meet someone who you love him, and he loves you, knowing that he has no feelings for you, why bother?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't feel it, it's no way, I know that something else can change, there's no way, he doesn't feel for you now, and he won't go back in the future, give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Taurus has its own opinion, if you don't like it, you don't like it, and the most stubborn crowd doesn't have one. Unless you have the opportunity to make a radical change or get to know you in depth, the more sudden, the better, and he won't waste energy on things that he is not interested in.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Pursue a guy you like, and if the other party tells us bluntly, he has no feelings for us. Personally, I feel that I should give up this love and not have feelings, and then wait for the sweet love that truly belongs to me to appear. The other person has no feelings for us, and our pursuit will only disgust the other person; Even if we can be together, it may not be out of love, but for some other purpose.

    Feelings cannot be forced, love can not be situation, it is very common in relationships. In the face of this kind of love without emotion, whether it is a boy or a girl, you should choose to let go, don't sink into such a relationship, let yourself be hurt, and delay your emotional life.

    The people we like also like ourselves, and it's a happy thing for all. If the person you like doesn't like you very much, we should also learn to let go, you must know that there are many people who come into our lives, but 99% of them are passers-by, and only 1% of our lives will be left to become friends and relatives.

    The guy you like doesn't like you and should choose to give up the relationship and no longer have hope for the guy. When we give up the pursuit of boys, we may meet our true love at the "corner", so that we can usher in love.

    As the saying goes: "A twisted melon is not sweet", knowing that a boy doesn't like him and wants to be with each other, it means that the other party has a purpose, not a heartfelt like. Such a relationship is a bit deformed in my personal opinion, girls in love, the status will be very low, not only pay a lot, but also need to always care about the feelings of their boyfriends.

    The boy has clearly told us that he has no feelings for us. He still chooses to be with us, and it is very likely that he will "ride a donkey to find a horse". We are just a temporary shelter for him emotionally, and when he meets a girl he likes, he will not hesitate to flap his wings and fly away.

    Therefore, when the pursuing boy says that he has no feelings for us, he is rejecting us, and what we should do is to give up the love for the boy and find a new relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need, because the other party doesn't like you at all, and two people are equal in the relationship, so you shouldn't be so humble.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A guy chased me for three years, and I never agreed, isn't it a bit wrong to do that? In life, if a man chases you for three years, but you never agree, will you be too decisive? Personally, I don't think this has much to do with whether it's preschool or not.

    Because whether you like him or not is your business after all, so I personally think that if you really don't like it, it is better to refuse decisively, so as not to waste the time of both parties. Interrupt the other person's thoughts so that the other person can enter a new life.

    <> I personally think that this requires you to look at your own state of mind in terms of your own situation. If the requirements for the man are too high, or if they don't like the other party at all, if they are too demanding, then you can think about whether you can lower the requirements appropriately, or let the other party do something, and then promise the other party to be with you.

    It must be that you didn't agree to this boy because you didn't want it in your heart, which is normal. It's like liking someone, there's no understanding, and such a guy has been pursuing you for three years, proving that this guy is sincere to you or that you are the girl he wants. You can't be blamed for this situation, because you told him that we were not suitable.

    It's his own problem that he continues to do so. Love and love are so magical. Often, the more you can't get it, the more you want it.

    Aren't you too, didn't find your favorite.

    You can make certain demands on him, and if you meet that request, then you can agree to be with him, and if you can't, then you can only refuse to make some difficult demands that you can make in order to make him die.

    Actually, I personally don't think you'll be satisfied with any answer. However, I think since you have this idea, go for it. From my point of view, it's about giving each other a chance.

    It must be a very frustrating feeling, maybe you don't know it yourself, you have long been used to his care, and now that you have left this feeling, it is difficult for you to adapt all at once.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, I think this problem should still be deeply communicated with your boyfriend, clearly tell him your thoughts, I believe it can solve your problem, I wish you happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. In fact, in the process of just starting contact, if the boy has clearly told you that he has no feelings for you, it may be able to prove that the two of you really have no chance to be together, we might as well be in the hazy period of the relationship, when you love him and don't love him enough, we will also let go of it, because when you have some hints to him, he has clearly told you that he has no feelings for you, such a boy, He does belong to the kind of love-hate who dares to love and hate, so no matter how hard you work in the future, such a boy will never fall in love with you, and the hope of the two of you being together is not very big.

    In fact, in the process of just starting contact, if the boy has clearly told you that he has no feelings for you, it may be able to prove that the two of you really have no chance to be together, we might as well be in the hazy period of the relationship, when you love him and don't love him enough, we will also let go of it, because when you have some hints to him, he has clearly told you that he has no feelings for you, such a boy, He does belong to the kind of love-hate who dares to love and hate, so no matter how hard you work in the future, such a boy will never fall in love with you, and the hope of the two of you being together is not very big.

    If you just started to show love to this boy, he didn't say promise you, nor did he say that he rejected you, so that the relationship between the two of you has always been more beautiful, but in the end he said that he has no feelings for you, such a boy has to say that he is very scumbag in the face of such a scumbag, if he didn't meet a better girl than you, he would never be willing to let go of your hand, such a scumbag doesn't mean that he has no feelings for himself, he wants to give up on you, It's that we should leave him as soon as we understand what kind of person he is.

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