I don t get along with my parents, and I really hate them

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You don't have to learn "communication", you don't have enough level to learn this word, you might as well learn what "morality" and "filial piety" mean first, right?

    Dad stayed in his hometown because he had to take care of his sick grandfather. This is your own words, I advise you to first analyze the events described in your sentence from an objective and human point of view, and think about what kind of inspiration your father's behavior of taking care of your father will give you? If you think clearly, you should be able to know how to get along with your parents.

    Or maybe you close your eyes and say, "Now I want to drive them both back to my hometown." If you don't realize how bad your words are, then you should simply not open your eyes, because in the near future, your own children will be like you to your parents, so that your life's nurturing and hard work will turn into darkness!

    People are divided into three, six, nine, and so on, and if you can't understand my words, you're pathetic; If you understand and know what to do, you are happy; If you understand it, but just want to reply to me in dirty language, you are pure ridiculous.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How old are you and you can't cook by yourself, do you still want to hire a nanny for you, he is your father, you are still afraid of what he will do to you, you really have a problem in your heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do you feel like you're completely away from your parents and living the life you want now?

    Feel like the appearance of your parents is a shame for you??

    I think the most important thing for you now is to learn filial piety.

    I didn't want to speak, but it's really chilling to see you say that about your parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Our parents not only gave us life, but also gave us life.

    So, if possible, think about what it means to be a parent

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be self-conscious.

    Filial piety to elders.

    Little kindness is fun.

    It starts with me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My parents have always looked down on me, how can I get along with such parents?

    My parents have always looked down on me: it is recommended to sit down with my parents and communicate with them if they are not satisfied with you, and if their parents put forward correct and reasonable needs, then try to change their own shortcomings or let their parents understand their difficulties. If what your parents say is unreasonable, it is recommended to live separately and then care for your parents from time to time, and use time to smooth your heart, because people really can't satisfy everyone in the Burning Wild Clan and reconcile with themselves.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, I don't know why you don't share your daily routine with your parents, there may be the following reasons:

    You feel that your parents don't understand you or are not interested in your daily life, so you don't want to waste time and energy communicating with them.

    You're worried that your parents will interfere too much in your daily routine or give you pressure and criticism, so you don't want them to know too much.

    You feel like your daily routine is dull or terrible, and you don't want to share it, so you don't want to talk to your parents.

    You feel that you have grown up and do not need the care and help of your parents, so you do not want to communicate with your parents.

    These are all possible causes, but perhaps not the real ones. Maybe you just haven't found the right way and time, or aren't aware of the benefits of sharing your daily life with your parents.

    Sharing your daily routine with your parents can increase your sense of intimacy and trust, let them know your life and psychological needs, and let you understand their thoughts and feelings.

    Sharing your daily routine with your parents can reduce your stress and loneliness, let them give you some support and encouragement, and also allow you to give them some care and comfort.

    Sharing your daily routine with your parents can broaden your horizons and mindset by allowing them to give you some advice and experience, as well as some fresh and interesting information.

    Of course, it doesn't mean that you have to tell your parents everything about yourself, nor does it mean that you have to live according to your parents' wishes. You just need to find a balance between retaining your privacy and independence while keeping in touch and communicating with your parents.

    If you want to try sharing your daily routine with your parents, here are some suggestions:

    Choose a suitable time, such as after dinner, on weekend breaks, during holiday gatherings, etc., to avoid disturbing them to work or rest.

    Choose a suitable topic, such as work, study, life with potatoes, interests, etc., according to the similarities and differences between yourself and your parents.

    Pay attention to listening and expression, try to use a positive, open, and sincere tone, and avoid using a negative, closed, and indifferent tone.

    Pay attention to respect and understanding, try to use an attitude of tolerance, approval, and support, and avoid an attitude of criticism, refutation, and accusation.

    Hope you find this information helpful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Different concepts, different cognitions, and lack of communication.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As a child, you need to be respectful when you get along with your parents. ......Only when children respect their parents can trust each other and live in harmony.

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