I ve been with my friend for more than two years, but he hasn t been able to forget his first love,

Updated on society 2024-03-17
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm so happy for you, he can't forget that man because he is a loving person, don't you think so? Another point is that he does not shy away from that person with you, which also shows that he is honest with you and does not cheat on you, as a friend, trust is very important, and trust as a lover is the foundation. For him who has no reservations, it should be a choice for you!

    Of course, there will inevitably be many difficulties between men and women, but it depends on everyone's state of mind. But that's what I think, two people should understand each other and not be blindly suspicious. Anyone who encounters such a thing will be distressed, and everyone has someone who can't be forgotten, hehe.

    Everyone has a past, right???

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    2 years ......It's not short.

    I've been in love more than 20 times, I guess I have a lot of experience, anyway, this proves that the two of them really have a deep relationship, otherwise they would have forgotten it a long time ago.

    However, you may have a misunderstanding, because your boyfriend just can't forget, not always in love, in fact, think about it from another angle, you must still remember your first love, if he gave you something, you won't throw it, right? It's like when you get old, you don't lose your childhood.

    Bear with him, at least I can tell from you that he's a pretty cute boy

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you love him very much?

    If you love him very much, love him very much.

    Then don't ask anything.

    There is no need to know anything.

    Even if he tells you in person that he will always like her, you are just a stand-in.

    You are sad and hopeless.

    What else!

    Who made you love him! As long as he's happy, you're happy and happy, right?

    Don't love him? Then leave him.

    Wishing you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He wants to prove that he is a very innocent little boy. Just let him be.

    And there is nothing to lose to you. And it won't hurt you too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are some things that you deliberately make him forget, and that will make him addicted, believing that time will dilute everything. In fact, as long as he doesn't have to beg for something, you can let it go. Why don't you look at him from a different perspective?

    At least he's a true man with affection and righteousness. There are not many men who can stick to their emotions anymore, cherish them. Slowly melt him with your affection.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Get rid of him, this kind of man doesn't care about your feelings now, what about after marriage? Think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Seriously agree with what the 2nd floor said.

    He's going to be a good man.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Normal. First love is always beautiful and unforgettable.

    You shouldn't force him to forget. It's understanding.

    In fact. There are unforgettable and unforgettable things in everyone's heart. Maybe. You should learn from the qualities of her first girlfriend. Let him know that you are better than herMore suitable for him than her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that he is a good man, loves him well, and it is not a bad thing to remember his first love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I believe that you are in love with a good man A man can miss the old, which means that he is a person who values friendship! If you have you, you will abandon the past, such a person is too terrifying, it is difficult to say that in the future, for the sake of another girl, you will forget it completely. Forgetting a person, a relationship, is not to erase the pencil words from the blank paper, it can be so crisp.

    Because he has a true and kind heart, it is difficult to be ruthless!

    Maybe he just sees everything as a memorial, a remembrance of the emotions of the past. Are you so unconfident that you feel like you'll be defeated by photos and scarves?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Turn your face immediately. She said this is that he is not in the lake for you.

    Even if you get married, you are angry.

    If I'm not mistaken, he rarely takes the initiative to call you.

    Divided.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My first girlfriend is the same, she can't forget me, and I can't help it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First love is an important event in everyone's life, and some people can't forget that relationship even years later. But can't forget and can't let go are two concepts, as long as the first love no longer affects your life, you will find that you forget much faster than you imagined.

    Immersing yourself in a new relationship is one of the best ways to forget about your first love. The reason why first love is unforgettable for many years is not only because it is the first attempt of a person's feelings, but also because it has been affected and changed too much in this relationship.

    In this situation, long-term memories and longing will inevitably make the relationship more fermented, and the best way to solve this problem is actually to invest in a new relationship. When you devote yourself to a new love life, the shadow of the first love in your mind will gradually fade, the influence of the first love in your life will gradually become smaller, and the proportion of the first love in your memories will become lower and lower.

    People should never overestimate their memories and nostalgia for the past, when the face has disappeared in life, and there are too many things to occupy these empty hearts, you will quickly forget all this.

    Busyness is the best eliminator, and you'll forget faster than you think. It's actually a very simple truth, when you're busy all day long, when you're extremely tired from work or other factors, you don't really have much experience to miss your first love.

    When this busyness becomes a habit, when this forgetting becomes a life, you will forget your first love sooner than you imagined. If you really can't forget someone, it only means that your life is not busy enough, and time has not passed long enough.

    In fact, for memory, the more deliberately you forget, the easier it is to remember, and as long as you don't deliberately do anything, the speed of forgetting will be far beyond your imagination.

    Maybe time can give you the best answer, and in the process, the shadow of first love will fade more and more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can go to see your first love again, at this time you may let go when you see him now, and his desperation will make you decisively want to open something.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then accept this result, since you can't forget each other's words, then you can miss each other in your heart, and it's okay to remember each other, and then you can also find a type that is closer to your first love, fall in love, so that you can empathize with other loves, of course, your feelings for your first love are pinned on this person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When many years have passed, I still can't forget the feelings, it means that my heart is still too entangled, and I can't control my heart. It's better to keep yourself busy a little bit and not think about these things, that's the only way, there's nothing too good about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can directly contact each other to see if the other party has a partner now, if not, two people try to be together, or go out to meet different people by themselves, find a suitable object for themselves, and forget each other by diverting attention.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first love will only be engraved in your heart forever, although many years have passed and you can't forget it, so let him always exist in your heart, don't turn it out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The solution is to try to improve your ability and make a qualitative change in yourself. Moreover, you should also pay more attention in daily life and find the one who belongs to you, at this time, you will be immersed in the current relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Delete anything related to your first love, find a new girlfriend, and when you have a new relationship, and there is no first love imprinted on you to remember, you will forget it after a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If your first love has no object, you can try to reconcile with him, in fact, sometimes you can't forget your first love, it's not that you still love him, it may just be a psychological "can't get".

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After many years, you still can't forget your first love, which means that you love it deeply, and if you want to forget your first love, you need to cut off all contact with him, and then it's best to start a new relationship, so that you can have sustenance and it will be easier to forget your first love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Years have passed, and you can't forget what to do with your first love? In fact, this is your obsession, the more you can't let go, the more you will miss, the more uncomfortable you will be, since it has been a long time, maybe everyone has a family, why bother again?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Years have passed, and I still can't forget my first love. It shows that you are a person who is more emotional. After all, there will be some regrets in the first love.

    You'll never forget. Makes you want to make up for it. Although now I have a life of my own.

    If it's really a knot, then learn about it through the circle of friends and make up for this regret.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think this matter needs to be resolved, you can put your first love in your heart, because this is a very good memory for you, a memorial related to your youth.

    You can live a normal life, work, or have a new life, and you don't need to forget it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The reason why you can't forget your first love is that it's not that you can't forget it, but that you don't want to forget it. The question of first love, in fact, is not a problem, the reason why you can't forget it is just because you can't let go of the past, after all, first love is a beautiful feeling, and it is also the most sincere, but also because there is no result, so you want to get it more, people often can't get it, the more you want to get. When you can't forget, all you think about is how sweet this relationship ended without a hitch, after all, there are too many good memories of first love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Years later, I still can't forget my first love. In fact, the best solution is to start a new relationship, as long as your relationship has sustenance, the first love will naturally not be so important.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Although you can't forget your first love now, I think that as long as you find a person you love or find someone you particularly like, and then the two of you are together, you will slowly forget this first love directly, so don't rush to give yourself a little time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First love is beautiful, but the end of first love is often a failure. Everyone will never forget their first love, but they must forget it. So the best thing to do is to find a new soulmate.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You should do something you enjoy to distract yourself, and you can also ask your ex if he has a new life, and if he doesn't, the two of you can start over.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First love is indeed the most unforgettable, not only that person, but also that time. So you don't have to force yourself to forget, and know that it's impossible to come back, and then dust it up, and start a new life, a new relationship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can chat with your friends and learn something to make your life a little more fulfilling, go out for a walk, leave this sad city, and start a new relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When you don't have anything to do, don't think about your first love, and at the same time you need to make some changes yourself, start a new relationship, forget after getting to know someone, and you can also stay with good friends and relax.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Just bury it deep in my heart. Many people are like this, although many years have passed, but they still can't forget the first love for the rest of their lives, they can only bury it in their hearts and start your new life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You still need an unforgettable love, or you need someone who loves you, and this person is also loved by you, as long as you have such a relationship, you will definitely slowly forget your first love, and you will not think about the previous experience.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    After many years, you still can't forget your first love, so it's best to learn to keep it in your heart for this situation. You have to understand that if you can't forget it, you won't go, and it's okay to keep it in your heart. What matters is how you look at it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you can't forget your first love after you can't pass it, you don't forget it, keep it in your heart. It is important to understand that it is very difficult to truly forget a thing or a person completely. So it's better not to dwell on it.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's been so many years, you are already people on different paths, there is no need to put her in your heart anymore, because it doesn't belong to you anymore, so you will soon be relieved when you think so,

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Many years have passed, and I still can't forget the solution of first love, which is to find him, chase the other party back, and see if the other party is still single? Some are sure of this issue.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    After many years, Hawkeye can't forget his first love, and the solution is very difficult, so many years have passed, you should have forgotten, and your children can't forget, so you can only go to him.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't deliberately forget, you must fall in love with another reason, and through the slow passage of time, you will definitely forget it after a long time.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Summary. It is often said that first love is beautiful, completely unforgettable, so it is very normal, after all, it is first love.

    I would like to consult about my first love 20 years ago, why I can't forget him after more than 20 years.

    It is often said that first love is beautiful, completely unforgettable, so it is very normal, after all, it is first love.

    But I don't know if my first boyfriend would think like that.

    Well, a man may always pretend to be you in his heart, but what is his current marital status, if his family is very happy, you don't bother him, he will forget you, if his marriage and family are unhappy, he will always think about you in his heart, and he will think of your good.

    Oh, that means you still can't let go of him if you buy it newly, and then you can contact him as a friend, and if people are doing well, then you can rest assured and don't bother people. But also consider your husband's feelings.

    He who I liked in his circle of friends deleted all the circles of friends I liked, and he may not be very accepting of me contacting him.

    Because when we first got in touch a few years ago, after chatting for a few days, he deleted my WeChat, saying that it was for the good of our respective families, and we should not contact each other, telling me to love myself well, not to work night shifts, and to maintain more.

    I posted a story about me and him in Moments last year, and then he posted a message in Moments to say, just say, don't go back frequently about things that have been decided, drop prices, I feel like he is telling me, yes, he is saying it to you, and he is not in memory.

    Can't help but miss him.

    I managed to forget him anyway, I loved him to death from the beginning, but he didn't know it, and he was too young at that time, we fell in love at first sight, and liked him at first sight, it was always that feeling.

    So what does he think, you know?

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