27 years old and don t have a boyfriend failed

Of course you don't fail, why do you have to have a boyfriend? Nowadays, people are more childish, the mature age has been delayed, 27 is not too old, still a child, enjoy the single life, make friends depends on fate, you can't be in a hurry. Having a boyfriend is not the result of personal efforts, the preciousness of love lies in the fact that it does not appear at any time, and it is not love to tie a boyfriend to earn face.

Don't fail! Nowadays, women are very independent, unwilling to compromise to have a boyfriend, and are more demanding, which is normal!

But now excellent men are in high demand .........

No, everyone is subconsciously waiting for the person who is destined to meet, who has already sketched his outline before he appears. Then your concept of love is already molded before you meet him, so you are just waiting for your ideal lover. Is it?

It's vague, but realistic, right?

Of course it's not a failure, I support you in a happy life for yourself, why have a boyfriend?

Not counts! It's just that you haven't met the right person at the right time yet!

Now the more excellent the girl, the more difficult it is to find a boyfriend, because you are too good, all men don't want their wives to be better than themselves, so that men can show their manly side, and they will not feel inferior in front of their wives, in short, only men who are better than you are worthy of you.

It's over, it's a failure, hurry up, your choice is old, there are old men over 30 left, it's hard to find.

Have you talked about it? If you don't, you're failing.

Maybe your conditions are too high!!

It's a little bit ... Is it all the while? Or is it just not right now?

27 years old, you're still young, there's time.

How can it be late!

I'm 26, and I don't think I'm too big!

Now looking for friends, the male ratio is out of proportion, not to mention that it is now a material period, and the male handsome man is high and the male is demanding.

It is advisable not to think too much.

I don't think there is any point in asking such a question.

Who knows, personally feels different.

There's basically only one of them! You can solve it by playing by yourself! There is also a possibility, if there are many friends of the opposite sex and like to socialize, then there may be an irregular partner! Traditionally, *more!

I know from the experience of not touching a woman that the scope of not having a girlfriend is too big, for example, those who have not had and those who have broken up.

I don't know what those people have experienced, I haven't touched a woman like this, I've been experiencing it until now.

I think 23 years old is fine.

If you're studying at the age of 23, there's nothing wrong with focusing on studying.

Only when you have the capital.

Then you have the right to fall in love.

Otherwise, people will still look down on you.

The answer is different!

But a woman will change a lot when she gets married!

The first is the change of the circle of friends!

The second is the change in body shape and family relationships!

Anyway, it's a lot of flavor!

It depends on what you're aiming for. If your current goal is not marriage, then you are not a failure, the focus is on what kind of life you want and are willing to put more effort into it!

Feelings don't need promises, they only need two people, one who can trust and one who is willing to understand. A person's life does not need much, a person who understands you, whether rich or poor, will never leave; No matter how beautiful or ugly, never give up. A life is not long, don't turn cherishing into regret; It's not easy to meet, don't turn inseparability into turning away.

Not all encounters can be waited for into beautiful landscapes; Not all people can be treated with their hearts and lungs. Feelings are always unexpected, and if you miss them, you can't remember them. Be kind to fate and respect feelings; Heart-to-heart for forever.

It is the heart that knows cold and heat; What does not leave is love; For a lifetime, it is love. A person's face does not represent a person's heart; A person's wealth does not determine happiness. Love is thoughtful and warm; Love is the love of accommodating and cherishing.

Hot tea when you are tired is moving; Companionship when you are depressed is contentment.

In fact, this is not unusual, there are many such types in reality, and the key point is that I am still unfamiliar.

Your girlfriend is smart and wise, just share the love between you, there is no need to put a circle of friends show, there is no benefit to be obtained from the show, friends are at most one sentence: they are so affectionate! This means nothing to you, on the contrary, jealous people may do something bad about it.

Now when the parents don't urge marriage, the relatives at home, and even the next-door neighbors are helping Zhang Luo on a blind date, hehe, 27, basically every Friday night or Saturday morning, the family will hit ** and then learn a lesson. Then start introducing the blind date. There are no suitable ones yet.

Nowadays, I have taken steps to participate in various blind date activities, organize various activities by myself (my friends and I have a salon organization), expand the social circle, and the number of girls I meet has multiplied. I've been single for a long time, and to be honest, I sometimes feel a little lonely, but in order to relieve this emotion, in life, I am very full of arrangements, and I think that the idea of finding a girl and getting married is so direct, but it backfires.

Fortunately, there are a number of buddies and sisters in Beijing who have been in contact with themselves, and when they encounter things, they help each other, and some bad emotions will help enlighten and resolve, we do things together, play together, and learn new things together, which makes me feel that there are too many beautiful things in life, so don't let yourself be in a bad mood because you haven't met your beloved girl for the time being. <>

To be honest, there is a lot of positive energy now, although it is not a little fresh meat, but the mentality is still very young, and I am still trying different things. Alone, there is nothing to be afraid of. Go swimming, go to find good food late at night, go to a late-night movie, play the guitar, ask friends to play billiards, go boxing, go to eat hot pot.

I envy lovers who know themselves very early on and understand what they want to need.

In my heart, I don't think it's a misfortune, to make myself better, to make myself stronger, more knowledgeable and capable, not to let anyone see, but to have such a positive energy in my heart itself. Still on the way, I think sooner or later I will meet the other half, and we will definitely be very beautiful and happy at that time.

I know an older brother who is in his thirties and currently works in a private company in Shanghai. A year ago, the people around him were already married, and most of them already had children. Parents urge, relatives urge.

He had heard the words urging marriage countless times, and his ears were calloused. What's wrong with that? In their concept, filial piety comes first, and a man who is not married at the age of thirty is regarded as a prodigal son.

He didn't think so, feelings were originally not to be exquisite, and they couldn't be forced. I also went on a blind date before and met a lot of people, but in the end, they were all dissed one by one. It's not that he has a high vision, he said that he just didn't meet the right taste.

If you want to say how you feel, every time he goes out to dinner with my brother's family, my brother brings his wife and lovely children, to be honest, I believe he will definitely be a little bit infected. But his stubbornness and reason locked him up, and he did not allow himself to settle for anything like this. So I think that no matter how rational a person is, his heart is soft.

People have the weakest side to themselves, and then use their own methods to make themselves look stronger. <>

Some time ago, I heard that he was about to get married. The object of marriage is his college classmate, I have seen a photo of that person with him, the two of them are smiling very happily, and the woman snuggles up to him, showing a little woman's smile. Finally, I don't have to listen to my parents and relatives anymore.

Yesterday, I looked at the circle of friends and saw them traveling to South Korea together, my brother is not like a thirty-year-old man, he looks even younger.

I'm thirty years old, and today I'm married" This is a sentence posted by my brother in the circle of friends.

It's definitely sad that I'm not married, it's sad to be in contrast, my friends have already started a family, but I'm still alone and working hard. It's always good if you don't, it's like a kind of persistence, and in the end there will always be the same weight of gain.

The age of 27 is indeed an older leftover man, and he is not married, so he must be reluctant to go to the street, and then he feels that he has an inferiority complex. Now the 27-year-old people in the countryside who are not married are considered older youths.

I think it's normal for a boy to be 27 and not married, 212 came out of school, it is possible that 234 just came out, 278 is the time to work hard for a career, first start a career and then start a family, and lay the foundation for the future.

Generally speaking, the age of boys is the time to work hard, I don't think you need to be too anxious, as long as you work hard to make a career, you will definitely meet more excellent girls in the future.

Fate is really uncertain, so I don't think there's anything wrong with not having a boyfriend at the age of 28, and there's no big problem, I can only say that the fate that belongs to me hasn't come yet.

From the objective aspect, a person has to play a variety of roles in this society, and in these roles, different people may have different pursuits and plans for their lives, so they may regard their careers or some other things as more important, and when those things are dealt with almost completely, they find that they have reached the age that is left, so at this time they still need to slowly find their destined people, after all, the relationship is still better than indiscriminate.

From the subjective aspect, all kinds of negative news about marriage appear in our eyes from time to time in today's society, and it is impossible for our hearts to be unaffected in the face of such negative news, so it is normal to want to look for it slowly and find a boyfriend who really cares about itself, so I think there is really no need to deny yourself because of other people's remarks, just stick to your own ideas and pursuits.

Of course there is nothing wrong with that! Everyone's choice is different, if you want to have a boyfriend, if you don't want to pay, you don't have to pay, it's all voluntary, whoever stipulates that you have a boyfriend when you're older, whether you have a boyfriend or not is your own business, it has nothing to do with others, others can't care, you don't have to care about what others think, you don't have to care about what others think, and it's up to you what you want to do.

And love comes very suddenly, your love may come late, you haven't met your love yet, maybe Prince Charming will come to pick you up. You don't have to worry, you'd rather be lacking than indiscriminate, even if you're single for a lifetime, you can't just find a boyfriend to deal with for any reason, it's irresponsible to yourself.

Your life is your own, no one can decide your life, and the person who says you don't have a boyfriend is just a passerby in your life's journey, don't care. Even if you don't have a boyfriend when you're 38 years old, it's not surprising, there are all kinds of people in the world, and no one is a model, don't doubt yourself, should it be normal to have a boyfriend at the age of 28?

Nowadays, many people think that if a girl can't find a boyfriend after the age of twenty-five, it is a mistake, otherwise how can she not even find a boyfriend, let alone not having a boyfriend at the age of twenty-eight, it is even more wrong. But in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at the age of twenty-eight. Not having a boyfriend doesn't mean you're doing something wrong, it can only be said that you have high requirements for your partner and demand quality, not to get married for the sake of getting married.

At the age of twenty-eight, you already have the financial ability, you can support your parents, support yourself, and heal your own injuries if you have injuries, and many things can already be solved by yourself, not by your boyfriend. At this time, if you can't meet the right one, you would rather not have a boyfriend than compromise with your boyfriend for the so-called wrong and not wrong. So there's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at twenty-eight, it's your own choice after countless times of deliberation.

Like my cousins, they are almost over twenty-eight years old, but they are still single, and their lives are more exciting than those who are not single, and who can say that they are wrong.

Be brave and firm and tell yourself that there is nothing wrong! Just be yourself.

As for those seven aunts and eight aunts, the so-called people who care about you, surround you all day long and say: Why don't you have a boyfriend and get married? When you're older, you can't get married! Just take this sentence as the wind in your ears.

It's just that I want to be a good person, thinking that I am very wise, and impart the experience of life to you.

Life is yours, and it's up to you to decide how you want to do it.

If you really don't like this person, do you want to face him for the rest of your life?

If you don't like the work, you don't want to do it for three days, and it's rare to be able to do it for a month.

It's just work, and if I'm not happy, I change it. But if you get married, you change your husband if you are not happy?

After all, China is still a relatively traditional country, and divorce will still be looked at with colored glasses, and it will get into a lot of trouble.

So I think it's better to carefully choose someone who really wants to live a life and then enter into marriage.