I really don t want to break up, but I really don t love anymore. How can we make everyone happy?

Time really dilutes everything, and if there is no impulse, there is no emotion.

Don't run away, sincere confession is the best solution, worthy of her and worthy of your conscience.

No regrets...

You are separated because you are pursuing different things.

Even if you don't love someone, you can also make you not love her.

Have a good breakup. Tell her that there's no need to waste everyone's time.

Don't take habits for dislove. You can divide. Look at whether you are relieved or regretted after the breakup.

But the relationship with a rift can't be reconciled as before. But from a realistic point of view, if the long-distance relationship is fruitless, it is better not to delay each other. In short, I don't regret taking the medicine.

Take a stethoscope and listen to what the heart is saying.

Time will tell.

I think it would hurt a lot less if you let time fade down.

The first love is beautiful, but as time passes, there is not only time but also the relationship between two people, and the final result of such a relationship is a breakup. But some people are no longer in love but refuse to break up, so it consumes both parties, so is there any way to change this status quo?

1. Find out why you broke up

If you are no longer in love and the other party refuses to break up, it may just be that you unilaterally propose to break up, and the other party has not yet come out of the pain of your proposal to break up, and the other party does not know why you proposed to break up or still can't accept the reason why you proposed to break up. In this way, you should find a suitable opportunity and occasion to talk to the other party, let the other party realize that the breakup is an inevitable result and is not likely to change, and do not let the other party still have any illusions that you still have a chance to get back together.

2. The other party is reluctant to give up this feeling

The other party can't accept the reality of breaking up, so mentally they will find various reasons to refuse to break up, the joy and happiness of two people together make the other party unable to let go of this relationship, and it is difficult to get out of it if you invest too much emotion, even if you know that two people have broken up and don't love, you still can't face it. Then give the other person a little time, gradually move away from the other person in the period after you have proposed to break up, and give the other person time to slowly adjust to the life without you.

3. Whether the two people have other problems that have not been solved

Most couples will live together after knowing each other for a while, living together like a real couple, and various living expenses are inevitable, such as rent, living expenses, and even savings, etc., these are not problems when they are together, once one party proposes to break up, it is easy to have economic disputes, if the other party insists on refusing to break up, you can start from this aspect to see if there are any remaining problems to be solved.

Then just say it clearly, or choose a way to disappear.

Rationally analyze the current situation of both parties, as well as their respective psychological states.

Let's talk to each other and see why you don't want to let go.