The other party is unwilling to break up, how to force him to compromise?

it??? Dizzy! Just make it clear what needs to be said!

Don't be ambiguous, don't be tactful! This will only continue to hurt and continue to entangle. Sometimes a little bit of emotion is a help.

To be together, two people need to nod their heads in agreement; To break up, it only takes one person to decide.

In fact, reluctance can only mean that she still loves you No one wants to be a person who is still dead in love Breaking up is just a formality If you really don't love anymore And she hasn't figured it out before you can mention it and let time dilute the scars between you.

Forcing him to compromise" is such a cruel sentence I have only one problem for you, and your attitude towards love can be said to be a game in that relationship.

Why do you have to break up? Why don't you just calm down and talk?

A girl cried and said to me, Mr. Qin, he broke up with this boyfriend in a relationship, of course he didn't really want to break up, but he felt that the mood came up at that time, so he used the breakup to force this female boyfriend to slipper, so unfortunately I didn't agree, and decisively moved out of their so-called cohabitation place, and asked me what I should do, what to do In fact, it is difficult for us to say, but I hope to be able to give these suggestions through this **. In our intimate relationships, many girls don't want to break up as soon as emotions come up, trying to coerce their boyfriends to compromise. The reason why people are different from each other, and we repeatedly emphasize it, is because everyone's understanding of love, boundaries, and bottom lines is different.

So what should we do in this situation, the first one is to look at yourself inwardly and trace the source, the problem lies in **, why do you have a boyfriend in your heart, and still love your boyfriend, but the mouth is completely asymmetrical with your heart, so what scene does this situation often occur in, the negative emotions of the emotional state at that time come from**, is it from the mode of getting along in a short period of time, or is it due to some sudden, directional events, take a good look at the emotions of **, At the same time, to deal with these emotions, emotional stability is very important in intimate relationships. Second, you must reduce your sense of need at this breakup level, don't contact your ex-boyfriend with high frequency, when a relationship is temporarily terminated, the other party is very happy and free in a short period of time, then at this stage, if you deliberately disturb the other party as your side, the other party may show up, eh when you break up.

Because of such nonsense, breaking up is what you want, and reuniting is what you are, for this boy's heart, he can't accept this fact, so at this stage, you must reduce your sense of need, and at the same time control the quality of your contact with each other, give this relationship a period of time, so that each other can calm down again, and each other can look at themselves internally, and at a more appropriate time, this relationship can naturally slowly return to the past. So if at this stage, in addition to some other problems, we must also learn to accept it with a more tolerant attitude, because a good start of any relationship does not mean that it must end well, breaking up is everyone's right, and it does not need the consent of the other half, but whether to get together again requires both parties to agree at the same time. Therefore, in an intimate relationship, don't use the breakup as a tool to make the other party compromise, more often you should calm down, establish a relationship chain with each other, and work together to make a relationship.

It is a very important ability to be able to maintain a desired ideal state in a real sense.

Don't easily talk about the breakup, you have to say it all the time, and if you have a problem, you have to communicate and solve it, instead of playing temper to try it.

It is a wrong move to threaten people with a breakup, and if you don't want to break up, you should cultivate a common hobby between the two of you, and communicate in a timely manner if you have problems, rather than forcibly controlling and possessing too much.

If you don't want to really break up, then don't threaten him with a breakup, if he agrees, then your nuclear situation is very embarrassing, and you are very passive.

Summary. Hello dear, in this case, it seems that the other party has a reluctant complex, and the dish is unwilling to break up. If you want to break up, in this case, there are several ways to do it.

One, dear, first explain your thoughts and meanings to the other party, and let the other party give up this relationship is the best result for the two of you. Second, dear, in this case, you can take the initiative to eliminate all contact with the other party, so that the other party knows that the two of you have no result.

Hello dear, in this case, it seems that the other party has a reluctant complex, and the dish is unwilling to break up. If you want to break up, in this case, there are several ways to do it. One, dear, first explain your thoughts and meanings to the other party, and let the other party give up this relationship is the best result for the two of you.

Second, dear, in this case, you can take the initiative to eliminate all contact with the other party, so that the other party knows that the two of you have no result.

Third, dear, in this case, you can let others persuade the other party and tell him that he already has a beloved, and your existence cannot have results.

Fourth, tell the other party that the two of you are no longer possible, and you have to get together and disperse, so that you can be friends for a long time.

Break up with him directly, don't explain too much, don't give him any chance to question, don't reply to any messages he sends, even if he misunderstands, don't give any explanation.

You can directly say to each other, I don't like you anymore, there is no need to force feelings at all, only if both parties like each other very much, then they can really be together, not to mention that there is no need for feelings to be so humble, I hope you can let go of this time and look forward.

After all, you are different from ordinary people to him, and you are a very important existence. No matter what you do, he will pay special attention to you, and under normal circumstances, two people do a lot of things after they are together, in fact, they are discussed. But under normal circumstances, when a person loves you enough, no matter what conditions you make, he will agree to you unconditionallyBecause he has you in his heart, he wants to meet all your conditions.

But if there are some problems between the two of you, and you think that the two of you will not have a future, then you propose to break upIn this case, it is actually easier to say, you can directly talk to your boyfriend about the problem between you, so that the blow to your boyfriend may be smaller. After all, if you can, don't do those things that hurt his heart.

If you want to break up with your boyfriend but he doesn't agree, you can find someone to pretend to be your current boyfriend and make him completely dead.

If you really don't want to be together, you have to say something cruel that you don't love him anymore, have no feelings for him, or fall in love with someone else. Don't be indecisive and make him feel that you still have feelings for him.

found a male friend to act with him, saying that he didn't like him anymore and had fallen in love with someone else, so that he wouldn't be obsessed anymore.

If you really don't have any thoughts about him, and you don't feel it anymore, you can let him know that you have this idea, and I believe he won't force someone who doesn't love him to be around.

If I want the other party to be completely dead, the best way is to tell my boyfriend that I am very disappointed in him, and say that he is not motivated, to suppress him in this way, and then make him completely dead.

I think you should have a good talk with him, tell yourself what you really think, and let him know that if you continue, nothing good will come out of the two of you.

Directly cut off all contact between two people, and it's up to you to break up or not to break up.

When a relationship has reached the final stage, you are sure that there is really no love between two people, and you are determined to break up, what should you do, in fact, you have a number in your heart, but you are not willing to face it.

A breakup that is not decisive enough, in fact, you still have a trace of illusions about feelings in your heart. If two people really reach the stage of breaking up, they will be particularly resolute when they want to break up.

Whether it is directly cutting off all contact between two people, changing to live in a city, or even changing the circle of life, couples who really want to break up will always find more reasons in their hearts than they face in reality.

If you ask someone what to do now, it means that you are not sure about the breakup, and you still have a trace of fantasy in your heart, and you hope that the two of you can go back to the way before.

Decide if you want to break up or not, and then decide what to do next. If you really want to break up, then just change to a city life, or confess everything to your boyfriend and let him stay away from you; If you're just testing your boyfriend, now that he's against it, I don't think there's any need for you to insist when he's given enough sincerity.

Love needs two people to manage and care for together, and when there are no irreconcilable contradictions in life, there is really no need to talk about breaking up. You still have a trace of illusions about your relationship, and he doesn't agree, you are separated like this, I think this relationship can probably be maintained.

Don't ask others what to do, you know better than anyone else, it's just that you haven't figured it out yet.

Ask yourself if you want to break up. If you really want to break up, of course, how to be ruthless, if you don't want to break up, then give the other party a chance, and give yourself a chance.

It doesn't matter what you do now, what matters is that you are sure of your heart.

Then what your boyfriend hates the most, you show it in front of him and perform it to the extreme. Or you can just not contact him.

As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, you must let your boyfriend see your determination to break up, and the reason for your breakup, if he still continues to entangle, then you should use the law to protect your legitimate rights and interests.

Love will always have a period of love and cooling-off, as well as a breakup period, sometimes there is no emotion and want to break up, but your boyfriend does not agree, at this time it is recommended that you think carefully and tell him what you really think, you can refer to the following methods to deal with:

The first thing to do is to think about it seriously, whether you really don't love each other anymore, or if there is something unbearable about the other party, as two people in love, cherish and move each other is what it should be, when a relationship is no longer the same as before, don't break up in a hurry, think clearly before deciding. If the other person can change, or if you still have some feelings, you should be cautious and give each other a chance.

The second thing to do is to have a serious talk with the other party, except for the first question, whether it is possible to break up peacefully. It's not easy to get together in the vast sea of people, when you can't continue, don't cry hysterically when you break up, let each other calm down, break up peacefully, what do your boyfriends want, as a woman, as a person who takes the initiative to break up, try to be as satisfied as possible, and calm each other's mood if you can't be satisfied, in short, breaking up as peacefully as possible is the last word, so as not to hurt each other, and leave some regrets.

If neither of the above methods can get your boyfriend to agree to break up, choosing to leave is also a way, although it seems a little cruel and irresponsible, but it is much better than a long-term ruthless possession and maintaining a relationship without feelings. Everyone's youth is limited, time is limited, and feelings are also limited, and they can't be consumed in vain on something that has no temperature, so leaving is also a method.

If you mess with him, you must break up! After making up his mind to break up, the man does not understand you and continues to entangle, not because he loves you much, but because he is inconsiderate of you, this is just possessive.

Leave directly, it's not a divorce, it's just a relationship, if you don't like it, it's over, if he doesn't agree, you just quit his life.

You can just say that you are breaking up, as long as you don't keep in touch with the other party and explain the reason for the breakup to the other party, in fact, you don't necessarily need the other party's consent to break up.

As long as you are not married, there is no such thing as him agreeing or disagreeing, and there is no legal certification, so I can't stand it, just break up unilaterally, no contact or contact.

Stick to your choice, you can't just because he doesn't agree, you will be with him, and you won't be happy.

Wait for him to calm down and then tell him, it's normal to hear that you can't accept it rationally when you hear that you want to break up, and wait until you calm down for a while.

I think you should talk to him well, tell him why you want to break up, and then ask him to understand you and try to be tactful, after all, damage is inevitable.