Don t honest people suffer How can honest people not suffer losses

Updated on society 2024-05-21
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Honest people are the most likely to suffer.

    I've eaten them n times.

    The loss of honest people is not because of honest people, but because of the system, and the bad system has created a lot of people with evil intentions to harm honest people.

    Honest people follow a system that leads people astray, and of course they will suffer!

    But I still have to say that people are still honest, after all, everyone still doesn't like bad people, and it doesn't matter if you don't go too far on the moral level.

    For example, China's examination system, the appointment and dismissal system, and the loopholes in the moral environment.

    Men have to be themselves? "It seems to be a "Seven brand suit", oh, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not right to play scheming, but it's even more wrong to not understand scheming

    I won't say much about cynics

    It is often more than honest and resourceful

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello. In fact, there is a saying that I don't know if the landlord has heard it:"Sufferers are always there".And God is very fair, sometimes although you suffer a loss on one side, but in the clear it gives you compensation on the other side!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In today's society, honest people really suffer losses, but they have a clear conscience against their will

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should ask if honest people always suffer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on whether the people you meet are good or not, but usually if you are really honest, I believe that you will have a lot of friends who will treat you sincerely, and you don't have to worry about others bullying you! People are good, people deceive the sky, and they don't deceive!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Three tricks in the face of those who love to be greedy and cheap, do not suffer.

    1.Thicker skin than he is.

    Many people are afraid of face, and when they are asked for benefits by people who love and are greedy for money, they always learn not to refuse, so the person who pays is always you.

    Honest people here must not be afraid to refuse and be kidnapped by face. He is thick-skinned and troubles you again and again, making you suffer.

    You have a thicker skin than him, what is your own is your own, and you can't give him any benefits.

    2.Distance appropriately.

    People who like to take advantage of small advantages usually like to attack their colleagues who have a good relationship, because the relationship is good, and people will not care about it if they suffer a little loss.

    Therefore, keep a certain distance from colleagues who like to take advantage of you to reduce the chance that they will take advantage of you.

    3.The heart should be hard, but it should be hard.

    Many people have been wronged, and the sail banquet has been hurt by others, and they will always hold it in their hearts, but as long as others come over and say a few good words, you will immediately forgive the other party.

    At work, you are obviously very busy, but if a colleague has a request, you will immediately accept it, and finally have to extend your working hours.

    Don't be kind without a bottom line, your kindness will make others think that you are easy to talk and bully, and you will be even more aggressive.

    Honest people want to change, then you must be able to maintain your own bottom line for everything, some can help some can't, some people can forgive, some people can't easily forgive.

    Don't be a person who is too soft-hearted, you have to be a good person with a bottom line.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Honest people are kind-hearted and do not have a "heart to hurt others", but they also do not have a "heart to defend against others", so they often do not know how to reject others, and in the end they are always hurt.

    A mature person, starting from learning to say "no", rejects those inappropriate requests! Honest people are easy to lose, mainly because they don't know how to reject others.

    All honest people have to do is learn to say "no".

    As everyone knows, learning to say no is a necessary step for anyone to mature mentally. If honest people want to improve their emotional intelligence, they must learn to say no.

    dare to be angry but dare not speak, accustomed to being submissive;

    As the saying goes, "persimmons are looking for soft pinching", which is the bad side of human nature, but it is also a reality that cannot be changed. The rule of nature is that the law of the jungle is to bully the weak and fear the hard, and the same is true for human beings.

    And honest people are not good at losing their temper, dare to be angry but dare not speak, and are accustomed to being submissive.

    Honest people you must understand that people's hearts are sinister, although we do not harm others, but we have to guard against people at some times, we can only say three points when meeting people, be a person of forbearance and restraint, you will retain your own mystery, let others feel your unfathomable.

    Honest people like to do good deeds without asking for anything in return, only trying to comfort their souls; But as everyone knows, this is conniving at others to learn badly, making people insatiable, and taking everything for granted, and then raising a white-eyed wolf.

    Therefore, honest people, don't eat the loss of "doing good deeds without expecting returns"!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Honest people are easy to suffer, in fact, outsiders think. Honest people themselves don't think so, but they think that they are not suffering through a certain emotion and a certain way of thinking.

    So there is a saying that suffering is a blessing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Honest people are more down-to-earth and kind-hearted, and they are more likely to suffer, but sometimes suffering losses is a blessing, not necessarily a bad thing.

    A wise and honest person will not suffer; People who are too honest will suffer a lot. Although it is very good to be an honest person, personally, honesty is the moral character that a person should have, and this kind of morality is also valued by many leaders. But when it comes to the atmosphere and form of today's society, if you are too honest, you will definitely be calculated and framed, because your honesty makes others know you too well, and honest people are easy to attract the attention of leaders, so jealousy is inevitable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In real life, honest people do suffer a lot, thinking that suffering is a blessing, but it is not, and if they suffer too much, they will ruin their lives.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This sentence is very correct, honest people are down-to-earth, diligent and diligent will be affirmed by everyone, and the achievements they have made will be seen by everyone, and honest people will not suffer after all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. Not necessarily honest people will not suffer. An honest person is just an honest person, real, but anyone and everything may suffer, but remember, be honest but can't be bullied, it doesn't matter if you suffer, but you have to remember it for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not true, because honest people don't want to worry about others, and it is inevitable to suffer losses, but people say that suffering losses is a blessing, and suffering a little loss may not be a good thing.

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