Boyfriend s utilitarian reality uses rich women to develop his career, will he get better,?

The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change.

There are many examples of this kind 99% that will not get better.

Can you bear him coming back to you after sleeping with that rich woman? If he says he doesn't have anything to do with the woman, he's lying.

He has no money now, so naturally he thinks about you, after abandoning the rich woman when he has money. Hehe, the character of a person who takes advantage of others needs to be verified.

There is no hope in this life to get better, you don't have to hope.

Unless he has been taught a great lesson and blown, it depends on whether there is anyone to help him, and if God loves him, he will teach him some lessons, and if God does not love him, he will go farther and farther away, towards the abyss of darkness.

In case one day there is a rich woman who asks him to dump you and stay with her.

He is too realistic, and he does not blame the means for the sake of the end. He has accomplished this purpose, and there will be a next one. Human desires are never satisfied. In the end, it is you who will die.

Yikes

You can do it yourself if you look at such a person.

In case one day there is a rich woman who asks him to dump you and stay with her.

What do you think he chosen?

It's a gamble, you bet if you have confidence, but don't regret losing.

A man's ambition will grow with age, and he will need more and more "bigger bread", so don't throw yourself into his greed.

In fact, I don't think there is any need for such a boyfriend to continue, he just sees you as a tool that is not helpful to his career, not because of love at all, even if he reluctantly continues, he will not be happy.

No need to continue, let's break up decisively. Such a man has no ability to blame his girlfriend, does he want to eat soft rice? A useless man will be like this, and he will not have a great future, don't waste your feelings and years on him.

There is no need to continue. A man's career should rely on his own efforts, this person does not want to be active and serious in his work, but complains that his girlfriend's family does not help him, which reminds me of parasites. I advise you to break up and leave him early.

I think I can leave a man like that. Because a man does not attribute his own efforts and struggles to his career, but to whether the other party's family is helpful to him, I think this attitude is not good, because there may be all kinds of quarrels in the future life because of such a situation, and these will lead to unhappy married life.

This situation can be completely given up, and the utilitarianism of the other party's consideration completely exceeds the pure love between two people, so even if they are together, it is also risky for their future life.

I think you can consider letting go in this situation, because this kind of guy probably doesn't really love you, he just wants to use your family background to help his career, this kind of guy is generally very selfish and doesn't care about other people's feelings.

I don't think this kind of boyfriend is still missing, it's not your wife at all, it's your family background, he may be looking for the kind of woman who won't affect his career.

If that's the case, I don't think it's helpful to his career, you should think about it yourself, and I think it's better to leave with someone like that.

Retribution is hard to achieve! In this society, from a utilitarian point of view, bad people always take advantage, and good people always run into walls everywhere. Good people always suffer in this society. And the villain's life is always very good. This is the helpless reality.

Just dumped you, and didn't do anything unreasonable, what is there to retribution?

For me personally, I have never believed that good people have good rewards, bad people have bad consequences, and I should take everything lightly.

The result of this bar is really not necessarily a good result, retribution for this ......In the end, the two of them were not together, even if it was retribution for him.

Zodiac signs, fortune telling, prophecy and the like are indeed magical, so there may be forces in the world that science cannot yet explain. But even so, it does not necessarily mean that many unrighteous deeds will kill oneself, because the world is entangled, your angle is not the angle of heaven, and your unrighteousness is not the unrighteousness of heaven.

You're not the day.

Everything has a cause and effect, and it is not that the time has not yet come.

There will be no good results, and there will be no happiness, the woman's family will be picky about him if she has money, and it will be a long time.

Relax, nothing else matters.

Yes, it's not that the time has not come!

Dear, I advise you to let him, men have to change their minds, even if they insist, the pain is still themselves, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Especially he is still so utilitarian, even if you get married, if you meet something that is conducive to your career, you will still go to GD

Don't want such a man, dear, I believe that you will meet a better one

What is your problem.

I am a Pisces man, a Pisces man wants to save face, he doesn't stink, he actually loves you in his heart, he is afraid when you leave, he will be sad to cry, Pisces man is very emotional, loves fantasy, has a little bit of romance, don't do it with a Pisces man, how do you make him happy, he spoils you.

Nervousness, forgetfulness, sentimentality, imagination, self-deception, etc. are all Pisces' image words, but Pisces' biggest advantage is that he has a kind heart, he likes to help others the most, and is willing to sacrifice himself for others, but don't think that he is great, in fact, he just highlights his affirmative value by helping others, which shows how unconfident they are.

[I can be sure that he loves me very much and can't live without me].

I don't know if you come from this self-confidence.

To be the best version of yourself, so that he can't live without you, is always obsessed with you, is the important thing.

I am also a Pisces man, and I feel that our love is buried in our hearts and does not need to be deliberately maintained.

It doesn't matter what zodiac sign he is, if he really likes you, he won't let you leave him.

Pisces boys, cranky.

I'm a Pisces, and if you're really good to him, he'll give you back double.

yes, I want to say that if you plan to marry him and have the possibility of a later life, what kind of role do you think you will be, a virtuous helper, or an independent free man? If you plan to combine, you should be very clear about what you need to do, generally a successful man often has a successful woman next to him, and there is a phenomenon that a man's success often leaves the woman! If you want him to succeed, it depends on you to a large extent, whether it is a spur, or a motivator, or a guide, it depends on you how to do it!

If you analyze the realistic situation and estimate that the possibility of being together is very small, then it is recommended to let go as soon as possible, and it is a responsible performance for yourself and others! And your values also prefer the strong, so this is the inevitable direction of your natural selection, cut through the mess quickly, go!

Finally, I want to say that there is success in life, but few people care about success in love, and the power of the latter is even more invincible and invincible!

The above is purely a personal opinion, I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!

Nonsense you m b words. You want to succeed in finding Li Jiacheng like that. Do people want you? Since I love it, I'm afraid that people won't succeed. What a thing. You're a big jian b know not stupid xx

Since it is true love, it should be cherished.

Choosing to give up is undoubtedly a disservice to him.

Give him a little time, sometimes men need time.

What's more, your boyfriend has so many advantages, don't you think you should give him some time? I believe that your future will be better.

Believe that he will succeed.

Then help him to correct his shortcomings.

What you have to do now is not to put too much pressure on him, and don't say in front of him all day and night that I won't marry you if you don't succeed, otherwise it may be him who runs away at that time.

His advantages: steady, intelligent, calm, down-to-earth, sincere, kind, strong, willing to endure hardships, particularly wide range of knowledge, particularly good popularity, have seen the world, sleek and decent, not impetuous, easy-going

Affinity, responsible, considerate of others everywhere (probably because he grew up in the army yard, his father is a colonel), has a high IQ, has good language skills, and has written skills.

He was also very good, very good to me, very much loved me, he cooked very deliciously, and many of our teachers liked him very much when I was in college.

It's all as good as you say. You just wait.

LZ: Hello cow.

You ask your boyfriend Plug.

Ask us what we do???

We are not immortals who can ** the future.

The first few years of entrepreneurship are losses, and success is lost

You have to be careful, it's not that he doesn't succeed, it's that you're too realistic, he can't succeed, you won't choose to marry him, you're too ruthless. Remember, with love there is everything.

Whether your boyfriend succeeds or not depends on his perseverance, if you can't persevere, you won't succeed

If you want me to say that you don't love him, you like him! Why? Because the so-called like is to be able to accept the advantages of the other party, just like we like celebrities, what we like is their image on the screen; If you love him, you have to accept the shortcomings of the other party, change what you can't accept, adapt if you can't change, and break up if you can't adapt!

Is your love built on two people in the development of society? What you love is a person, not whether he develops or not, are two different things, of course, if his social status is high, but if he is like that, you can't help it, everyone has a different view of success, maybe people have other ideas, unless he doesn't love you anymore, otherwise you have no right to abandon him because people are not as good as you, you can only say that you want to be stronger than him, but you can't force others to be as strong as you, it's unfair to think like this, everyone's worldview is different, some people want to get rich and succeed; Some people want to be a big pipe and succeed; Some people succeed when they produce results; Some people think that they have succeeded because they have many friends; Some people even think that getting a good night's sleep every day is a success! That's how I am (I have severe insomnia), so it feels like you're doing a good job of mixing in the first place, and your worldview has changed!

You should encourage your boyfriend!! Tell him not to be discouraged!!

Otherwise, ask your boss to lower your work a little bit, so that he will be more confident!!

Since you see so many good things about him, why not give him a little time, and he will succeed in the future.

Like a person, even if he is poor, he is willing. Unless you're looking for a man who can help you in your career.

Whether it will succeed is difficult to say.

So it's better to have a deadline.

When you can't wait any longer, you have to consider your own situation and make a rational choice based on the other party's situation, this is my opinion, thank you.

He has so many merits, why should he give it up? He has so many shortcomings, why don't you tell him that you are better than him at work, how to be a man, judging from the questions you asked, you are far behind, I am very angry!

If you are a realist, get rid of it, cherish and love him, you have to help him, cheer him up, don't make him feel very bad.

Your boyfriend is a very ordinary person, and the odds of success are average, but he should be a good man, cherish it.

You're going to change your mind, we'll do whatever you want.

Be a really good woman! Bear, the responsibility is all inclusive, point to support him, pay silently, and look back at yourself after a few years will have a sense of achievement! You're too utilitarian!

In the face of the real society, it is a positive external performance, but there may be errors in your evaluation of your boyfriend, (your utilitarian self-motivation leads to your complaining taste between the lines is too heavy) is not good at socializing, Sven does not mean that you don't have the idea to keep that job, you can say that you are steady, the world is not as easy to fight as you think! Hope it helps you and I wish you happiness!

I sympathize with that man when you say that! So it's up to you to choose.

How can there be a rich and handsome man in the world! If you choose emotion, you have to give up money, and you can choose one or the other. After all, there are some things that cannot be forced.

Take him to a psychiatrist, relieve him of his psychological problems, take him on trips, let him be open-minded, take him to parties, let him adapt to the masses, and do everything possible to make him a confident man. There was once a very introverted man who, after a year of enlightenment, also became a TV host, so people can change. If you love him, try to enlighten him.

Don't know how to cherish it, if you find a big man, you won't think so.

You do more ideological work for him, enlighten him more, and if he wants to open up, he will naturally listen to your words and do it.

He is such a man, he is self-aware, so he stays in this post. It depends on what you want, but I think that when you are together, although you will not have a life like luxury cars and brand-name bags, you will have at least a stable life, depending on what you want.

A strong man doesn't necessarily love you, loving you is the most important thing.

Hello, yes. A few failures will lead to success.

Do whatever you want.

Everything has two sides! It's the same with people!