She doesn t love me, but she loves her boyfriend for a long time, and I still love her

Before you two could do anything, she was spying on you

If you're really together, can you stand her? ``

Think about it

By the way, life is like this, what should be yours is yours, what shouldn't be yours, never yours I've loved a person, but I should have transferred for me, so I lost everything, vented, and continued.

Who made you pay attention, playing with other girls, you don't want to think about how she feels, now you know, regret it. It's late.

Feelings cannot be forced.

No longer tolerated with you.

I believe that girls in love sometimes "do", so I hope that boys care more about you, and boys can tolerate this kind of "work" in daily life. Of course, there are also people, and some boys don't like their girlfriends. Some boys are acceptable.

But most boys are still acceptable to their girlfriends when they "do" and do more important things that do not affect them.

When you're playing petty, the performance of the extremity boy can actually show what he really thinks in his heart. If he still loves you, then he can accept the things you "do" (of course, not all the time, otherwise a boy can't stand it), because he loves you, so he tolerates you, spoils you, and loves you to overshadow your shortcomings. When you occasionally "do" and he behaves particularly impatiently, then it is obvious that he doesn't love you anymore and is no longer as tolerant of you as he was in the past.

I don't care about you anymore.

The cold and warmth on weekdays make you dependent on him. Because of his care for you, you indulge in his tenderness and can't extricate yourself. In the days together, the sweetness of two people warms up, and his care for you has become a necessity for your life.

And his concern for you, for him, was to chase you at first, and after a long time, it became his habit. When he really doesn't love you one day, then this kind of care will gradually decrease, or even stop caring for you. So, when he no longer cares about the trivial things of life that you share on weekdays, and even thinks that your life is boring, he loses interest in you and no longer likes it.

There are several ways to show that your boyfriend doesn't love you:

1.Absent-mindedness. Always slippery, no intimate actions.

2.Don't pay attention to the changes in your girlfriend. I don't pay attention to changes in hairstyles, costumes, and small accessories that are decorated.

3.Unwilling to spend money. If you don't want to give a gift, please eat a meal.

4.Get busy. Find all kinds of reasons to prevaricate and not want to stay together.

5.Refusal to communicate. Becoming silent and refusing to communicate is unloving.

6.Don't talk about the future. I like to envision and plan for the future.

If someone who loves you no longer loves you, you can try to keep him, but what can you do if he refuses to change his mind?

You'll never be all of him, and if he really loves you, you won't have to think much about it. The only thing that can punish him is to live better than him, so why bother yourself. If you are not strong, who can you show weakness?

Sometimes giving up is just fate hoping that you can find a better person.

An ex-girlfriend is an ex-girlfriend, if your boyfriend doesn't have that mind at all, what's the use of having a few more women, it's just that they are asking for trouble.

Or maybe it's just that your boyfriend is a little confused, maybe they broke up at the time and was just forced, if you really love him, then go for it. But don't get along with that woman, and don't make yourself look like a man.

In any case, as a woman, please control your dignity and would rather turn around and walk away in a chic manner than be weak in front of others.

Time smooths everything out, don't be too sad.

It's the feeling of love that's gone.

Distance love is generally difficult to be together.

The problem is that you never say what you want, but you keep your eyes on each other in order to protect yourself.

For example, if you say to be separated and calm down, in fact, your voice is not "want to separate". Your voice is, "I think there's something wrong with us, and we get into fights all the time, and I feel sad." I want to solve these problems, but I don't know how to do it.

This is a stone-throwing asking for directions, using an attacking technique: "I have proposed to break up, it is so serious, can you show a nervous attitude and talk to me about our problems?" ”

However, when you use the technique of attack, he feels "attack", and the first thing he will do is "protect himself". He said, "You're sure that's it." This understatement was made to protect his self-esteem:

I don't want to be blackmailed by your breakup. At this time, he was so focused on "protecting himself" that he was no longer able to take into account the question "do you want to settle the dispute".

Another example is him, in fact, his heart is not to separate, but "I don't want to quarrel with you, you told me to break up, I think you said it too casually, I am sad." —but he didn't say that either. He takes an evasive approach to protect himself, saying that he is tired, does not want to talk, and wants to sleep.

At this time, you feel his avoidance, and the first thing you do is to "stop him from avoiding". You'll keep chasing him and asking, so he keeps avoiding it and shifting the conversation by buying a bike. At this time, you are also unable to consider the kindness of "he doesn't want to continue to quarrel".

It's not that he doesn't love you, and it's not that you don't love you. But what you say is not a good reaction to each other. This is because you are all very careful to protect yourself from expressing the seemingly weak but touching emotions in your heart.

In this way, you can only fight, and you will not be able to fall in love.

Hehe, it's normal. You've been together for a year, and you're more familiar with each other's personalities. But the longer time together, the less trust there is for men, that's a blow, if you don't have reasonable doubts, just guess yourself. Then there's no need to be specific.

Men are actually fragile too, he just doesn't want to show his vulnerability in front of you. That's why I talk like that. Afterwards, he didn't mention it because he didn't want to continue the argument with you, so as not to hurt his feelings, so he acted as if that didn't happen.

And if you continue to mention the previous events, it will make him think that you are careful. It's not that he doesn't care about your discomfort, but he doesn't know how to end up continuing that topic, do you want to continue arguing? In fact, there is nothing wrong with taking a step back.

I've been through this too, and it's a bloody history.

From another point of view, if what your boyfriend said to you, what would you think, and he still came to you to show that he still cares about you, and everyone is dignified, so he said not to force you, and if you agree, you will come and go. You tell him that he doesn't want to break up, and he is afraid that if he keeps talking about it, he will really break up, so he doesn't want to say it anymore, cherish your love.

When he no longer loves you, don't email him again, don't try to evoke his memories with words, touch his heart, if your person can't move him, then even if you use words to move him once, in exchange for a moment of warmth, the large blank space after the warmth can only make you more sad.

When he doesn't love you anymore, stop paying attention to his life, don't care about his every move. Don't stare at that illuminated window at night and imagine that he is watching you from behind the curtains. His life is his life, and your life belongs only to you.

If you don't need to share, then you can bear the sorrow and joy alone.

When he no longer loves your Huailu, don't force yourself to appear on occasions with him, and don't need to be forced to pretend that you don't care in the lively crowd, and be forced to talk and laugh. Even if you choose to avoid it, it is by no means weak, if you can, choose calm loneliness and let your wounds heal slowly.

When he doesn't love you anymore, don't give him a second chance to hurt you. Don't believe him when he says he came back to you because he remembered you. Since he was so resolute when he gave up on you, then next time he will ignore it and never look back.

If you remember the day you cried and slowly slid to the floor, you must not succumb to your weakness and trust in the fleeting warmth.

When he no longer loves you, don't imagine that you can leave a tear in his heart. Even if he is moved by your tears for a moment, as long as he no longer loves you, he will never be moved by you longer than you shed tears.

When he doesn't love you anymore, don't hold grudges. But at the beginning, it is inevitable to resent. Don't ask him, and don't ask yourself why he's so ruthless, why he can forget so quickly.

You even suspect that he didn't like you at all, and everything seems to be just a **, or believe in your initial feelings, if you think he liked you at that time, then he may have liked you. It's just that he doesn't love now, and if he doesn't love, he doesn't love anymore, even if he explains, is it so important to explain?

If you must cry, then cry once, cry happily, but only cry once, don't let the tears drown out your once bright smile, you are still the same lovely you.

Believe me, everything, there is a clear day, and one day, you see him as simple as seeing a table. Believe me, because there are you and me who have come out of lovelorn.