It s painful to break up, I wasn t worldly before, but now it s become very realistic, money is real

Society is such a reality, you should choose to let go, in fact, you are helping him, you also said that the conditions of your two families are different, now you can't see any problems, once you are really married, you will be very painful, our young people are very individual, will say that happiness will definitely become better, but reality is reality, when you really come to that day you know what pain is!

There will also be more and more differences in life, can you guarantee that your parents will have no opinion? Living in such a home, he will also be under a lot of pressure, and your quarrels will become more and more, rather than this, you should separate well, so that you can still be friends!

Don't say you can't forget anything, time is good medicine, believe this sentence, when one day you realize how realistic society is, you will be very glad that you have made the right decision now!

It's really not okay to have no money in today's society, doesn't it mean that the world, economic conditions don't allow you to live, eat your parents and live with your parents? There is such a big difference between your two families, the most painful thing is not you, but your parents have to bear a lot for you, if you have a lot of money now, you have nothing to say, but you can support the old people in the future!

So let's be realistic, find someone who is similar to your own family!

Wishing you happiness!

I think as long as the two of them are not poor, don't you say that your family's conditions are okay? As long as the man is willing to work hard, he has been doing it for you for a long time, and it is wrong to say that the door is not the right household, but when your family says that you will find a poor person in the countryside, you will lose face, as long as you like it, cherish it, it is difficult to find a person who is sincere to yourself.

Loyal ordinary men and rich flowery men Which one to choose·· If I were a woman, I would definitely choose the former. It's not easy to find a man who can be so good to your woman in society now. Hopefully, you can stick with it and maybe there will be a turnaround in the future. The wife of the chaff will be rewarded.

I wish you happiness, maybe not right now but I wish you and your boyfriend success in the future !!

Maybe after you marry him, you will understand what pain is! I have a friend who owns a barber shop! The situation at home is also very bad!

My classmates' family conditions are very good! Her father is the chief of public security! At that time, she loved beauty very much!

Go do hair often! Later, my friend deceived her with rhetoric! They knew that their family did not agree, so they eloped!

Finally the family got them back! Raw rice cooked into cooked rice, no choice but to get married! At first they were very happy!

But then his business was not good! She's having a problem eating! In the end, I chose to divorce!

Suck it up!

Is it to break up in the hope that he is happy, or to break up for his happiness! No matter what it is, it's better for the two of them to happily fight for their future!

Now it's money, and society is really helpless. Many times, it is not our love that is fragile, but the heart that has lost its direction and sense of security in our worldly life because of the impact of various desires. We only remember all kinds of differences, high and low, high and low, noble and low, but we forget that on the earthly scales, love is always just a matter of two hearts.

If you really love him, please don't give up, money can be earned at any time in your life, but this kind of love may not be able to get the same again in your life once you give up, and then only regret remains.

If he is a self-motivated, idealistic and thoughtful person, I don't think you should leave him now, if he is not you really have to think about it.

Landlord, this is the legendary growth and maturity.

I heard you say that it is from a rural area other than another place, then it must be very poor, I think you should let it go. As long as a woman is a year older, she should learn to be realistic, those who say that they want love and don't want bread are girls who like fantasy in their teens and less than twenty years old and have not talked about marriage, and those who scold women for being worldly are sad men who are not capable enough and have no money. But as you get older, you should think more about it and think more holistically about the future.

Love is a luxury after all, and only love that is not forced by life can survive.

It is estimated that your family will definitely disagree, under the huge pressure of your family, without your own house, you still have to think about firewood, rice, oil and salt, worry about money all day long, suffer from the grievances of family responsibilities and husband's complaints, how to talk about love. There are more such stories, if you really want love and no bread, your mother will definitely cry bitterly on the day you get married, she knows best what kind of life you want to live in the future!

A good family background also allows you to marry a good family. If you earn enough, will you worry about money?

If money weren't important, there wouldn't be such a thing as money in the world. It's better to find someone else to marry, there's nothing to be ashamed of.

In a place like Beijing, there aren't many opportunities to fall from the sky, unless you are willing to look for a job in another place. But in that case, it is equivalent to ending your life in Beijing, are you willing to go with him? Even if he wanted to, would he be able to provide the conditions for settling in?

If none of this is a problem, just follow him

I still remember a book I read that said that a woman's life is determined in her twenties. If you haven't learned the world when you're in your twenties, you'll only be sad when you arrive.

Don't think that if you have love, you can't do without bread, because without bread you even have a problem with living, and what kind of love do you say?

And who dares to say that there will be no accidents in the future, having money can ensure the best ending of many things, especially the good ending for yourself.

All, there is nothing wrong with the world. Love is not the whole of life. You can live without love, but without money you are not even qualified to live.

You're already shaken, so why bother asking.

Your boyfriend is rural, which means that you may return to the countryside with him one day and become a peasant woman. However, sometimes a golden phoenix can fly out of the chicken coop. What he does now is indeed more important, but there is one more important point.

That's his development potential. In this way, you can determine your future position, which is up to you to discover. People go to high places.

There is no need to give up your pursuit for the sake of so-called love. If he loves you, he should work his own and solve the material problems first. I say "I love you" all day long, but I can't even find a job to love, and I let my girlfriend shake for herself.

What kind of love is this?

The above is just my personal opinion and is for reference only!

In the past, because you were young, you had your parents to support you, and after graduating out of society, you had to rely on yourself for everything, and you needed money for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and you couldn't do it without money.

Money is the foundation, it is difficult to move an inch without money, this is life, the attitude towards money should be within a reasonable range, and you cannot become a slave of money.

It is difficult for a clever daughter-in-law to cook without rice, not because people are too realistic, but because people need money to live.

It's not that you're realistic, it's that this society is too realistic, with less emotion and more money.

When you were a child, you were taught badly by your teachers.

Life is forced to do without anyone, isn't it?

Put yourself in their shoes. Comfort

Family and friends always wish you well.

Communication between people is important.

Don't hide everything in your heart and bear it yourself Learn to talk and listen When you're in a bad mood, it's good to find someone to talk to.

Show your goodness and impress the other party with a sincere heart

The first consolation is the most important thing in today's heart.

It's okay to think more about how to get rich, don't be sad in the emotional world, after all, the money pinched in the palm of your hand, or the unpredictable heart, come more steadily.

It depends on your values and outlook on love!

If your love is indestructible, I believe that no one will be able to part with you!

Please believe that the opposition of your family is completely out of love for you, if you really love him, all you have to do is to make your family believe that he is a person who is worthy of entrusting him for life and will make you happy, as long as you see you happy, your family will change their opinion, and they all want to see you hello in the end!

I don't think we can think about things in our 20s with the mentality of our 40s, no matter what the outcome will be in the future, the road has to go by itself, please make your own choice, if you have enough confidence in yourself and him, please don't give up! The family's opposition was only temporary

And most importantly, do you love him? Is he someone worthy of your life's work? If the answer is yes, hehe, friend, congratulations, I wish you all happiness!

Loving someone is painful and beautiful!

In today's society, who doesn't value money.

They all think that money is everything.

But what is the use of money you have.

Can you take a point with you when you're gone?

People are selfish.

Feelings are often worthless in the face of money.

But why do some people give up all their kinds for the sake of feelings?

It depends on how far you have a relationship with him.

Think twice about yourself for the sake of feelings.

Of course, it's not a shame to give up something for the sake of feelings.

But think about feelings, family affection, and money rights.

You still have to make your own decisions.

No one else can help you.

At most, it can only help you figure it out.

People say that as long as you truly love each other, nothing else matters. But the reality is cruel. In the face of love and money, many people will choose the latter, even if they don't want to give up, they have to give up in the face of pressure from family and friends.

This is the reality, it is what you have to face, and this is what I have to face. I can tell you that I didn't give up, I don't want to give up on her no matter what, I hope you can persevere, no matter what happens, no matter what you lose, at least you still have him. That's enough!

How could he give up? If he is a responsible man, he should work hard for your happiness.

If you really love each other, then work hard.

Reassure your family so that slowly your family will agree.

Today's society is very realistic, and you can't blame your parents, in fact, they are for your good, don't want to worry about three meals in the future, don't want you to live a hard life, who calls the child is not a baby, parents will not harm you, it's just that they don't understand that the feelings you want are so sincere, if you really love him, you try to talk to your parents calmly for him, maybe they will look at you differently

First, feelings cannot be measured by money, and family members may not respect your decision.

Second, it may not work in this society without money, but the reality is exactly what the family thinks, and they also want to find a good son-in-law

Third, do you really love this man, and is it worth paying for this man?

The pressure at home mainly comes from the fact that this man has no economic foundation, which is normal and understandable, but in the face of love and reality, what you have to solve is how to balance their relationship? That's a key.

Find a balance to balance them

Don't tell the family about the man first, and then tell the man about his feelings and pressures, as well as his family's views on the relationship. Let me give this question to my boyfriend, and maybe he can give you a good answer

I am the little prince of love

The above is purely my views and opinions, and I do not assume any legal responsibility

Friends are brave enough to pursue their love, and if you give up now, it will become your regret in this life. Love needs to be tested, because my family and our young people think differently! You should be considerate of your family.

Cherish it yourself, some people may not encounter true love in their lives.

You should talk to him about your thoughts, and then talk to your family about what you think now.

It's better to start a family or get married.

But it also depends on how the person is, if he is a good person, true to you, and self-motivated, and the current economic conditions are not good, it is not a problem.

Parents no matter what they say, the starting point is also for your good, they don't want to see you unhappy, in their eyes you are still a child, you don't know much about your own concept of love, afraid that you will be hurt, of course, they don't want you to just marry money, then there will be no real happiness at all, happiness is not only to eat and dress well, but also spiritually, you should explain to them that you have grown up, not a child in their eyes, know how to protect yourself, Sometimes your parents' behavior is indeed too extreme and unreasonable, but if you calmly talk to them about your inner thoughts, your parents will think that you have grown up and can choose to walk on your own and no longer need them to protect you. For the people and things you like, if there is no danger, just let go and chase it, don't think too much, because we are young, don't leave any regrets for ourselves You love each other sooner or later in exchange for your family's approval.