I m confused if I m sick

I'll tell you about it carefully, it's normal for you to have so many thoughts at your age! However, if you feel that people are alive and do not have their own ideals and goals, it is normal, mainly in you, now you must not know what to do during the day, there is nothing to do, so you have a lot of empty thoughts, in fact, there are many ideas that you don't need to think about now! When the time comes, you'll think about it!

So, if you want to get out of the confusion now, you have to find something for yourself to do, or just go to the army (I wonder if you're still in school?). Down-to-earth, slowly you will be confident through your own efforts, you will also be proud, in fact, it is proud, that is to mark that you have experience! I have also experienced your age, I hope you will stand up as soon as possible, get out of the misunderstanding, your future is bright!

In fact, you realized so early that it is very good, and it is better than many people! So you have to be confident! Bless you

For the world, it doesn't matter if there is one more of you or one less of you. What do you think your appearance has changed in the world, and what is your outlook on life? Everyone is extraordinary, everyone has their own characteristics, and they must be good at discovering their strengths.

You set yourself a goal first.

I'm not a psychology major, so I'm not very good at explaining this, so if you really can't solve it yourself, you should see a psychiatrist. (Note: It is not that seeing a psychiatrist means that there is something wrong with your psychology, but that a psychologist can understand what everyone thinks in their hearts and can help you solve your problems fundamentally in a simpler way.)

You can also ask me any legal questions in the future.

There will be so many problems at this age, but if you want to be proud, you must have proud capital, and if you want to be not mediocre, you must work harder.

It's normal to be troubled by a lot of things during puberty.

It's actually a good thing that you have this thought.

People who are not willing to be mediocre will be useful people in the future!

It's okay, everyone has had it! You think, everyone has something in common, others must have what you have, and what you don't have, others may also have! I always think about it, I'm no different from others!

As for psychological problems, I think it's a bit exaggerated, everyone has a little problem, not necessarily psychological problems!

This is the confusion of an only child.

Tendency to depression Too much stress Psychological tolerance needs to be improved Pay attention to your own psychological regulation ability There is also a need to strengthen physical exercise may help you.

Normal is normal, everyone has had it!

Everyone is like this during the season of dreaming, indicating that you are on your way to maturity.

Normal. It's that you're thinking too much.

, because you don't go into details, at least you have a tendency to be depressed.

1. Listen to ** more often, and let beautiful music dissolve mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable** can make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing out loud is the best way to get rid of mental stress.

Consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and don't blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

2. Make friends, often chat with friends, and heart-to-heart communication or confiding can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel comfortable and eliminate your troubles.

3. Believe that you will be able to reduce pressure, cheer up, feel comfortable, and be healthy, so that you can enhance friendship with a good attitude, work smoothly, and live a happy life.

Hinting in my heart, every day when I get up, I tell myself that today is good, I am in a good mood, and my life is good.

I'm also unenergetic all day long, I can't see the future, I can't see hope, I want to change, but I don't know where to start, I feel like I'm hopeless...

Uh, hehehe, look at the Buddhist scriptures answered upstairs so boring so I plan to reply, as for those Buddhas, I agree with Gude's Buddha to kill the Buddha, the Buddhist scriptures are even lazier to participate, easy to fool people (does not mean that I do not respect the Buddha, it is true that the Buddhist scriptures are ancient and modern).

Now you feel the same way when you see those words, but people have gone through so much to gain the ability to think independently, and they have gone through so much to take a few words that seem reasonable, and then study hard to say a word that breaks the sky.

So, you're not walking the same path they've walked, and you've been through a lot and read a lot of books.

Reading is the fastest way to increase wisdom, but books are also very mixed, especially some of them make sense at first glance, but they are actually a bunch of bullshit, and the children of mistaken people are still proud of themselves.

This is also good, that is, to teach us the way of thinking and knowledge, and then read more books, more thinking in the head will naturally be able to think independently and discern, and then you will not be able to distinguish the truth from the false, if you continue to accumulate, you will not be the same as those authors who are very meaningful (or philosophical) and have a word-breaking word?

Hello this friend;

I understand your feelings. Now give you a psychometric test; 3+6=9；2+7=9；4+5=17；What do you think? I think you're sure to single out; How can 4+5 equal 17?

This is the "weakness of human nature". People are born with the love of finding their own shortcomings, so that they feel that they are really not good, and then they begin to feel inferior, look down on themselves, suffer from themselves, and even give up on themselves.

In fact, in the above test, there are two right and one wrong, and there are many right and few wrong. But the weakness of our human nature is; No matter how many advantages a person has, he always has to find out his shortcomings and magnify them, so as to hit himself and make himself miserable. That's why there are so many people who get mental illness in modern times.

Give up the pursuit of perfection in character、There is nothing wrong with shortcomings。 Disadvantages are also features. Maybe you don't know; Professional psychological counselors and psychologists have poor language skills, and this is their best advantage!

Because professional psychological counselors and psychologists do not have good language skills, clients will think positively, and when I do counseling, it often happens that clients describe the problem more accurately and comprehensively than me, which is illustrated; The visitor figured it out. The consultation worked very well. The consultation was done.

So, understand the weaknesses of human nature and change the wrong thinking. Let's live a happy life. Bless you

You don't have these feelings when you go to the Buddhist scriptures.

In a word, it's not a heavenly opportunity, it's superficial.

I also recommend that you read Buddhist scriptures, such as the Diamond Sutra, and read the vernacular on the Internet.