Please help me analyze whether I should give up or keep

I think you can still be ordinary netizens.,Don't think too much.,I personally think it's better for you not to get too close to the friends you know.,I want to say that there are no good people in the world.,But what,There are too many bad people.,It's still necessary to have a heart to guard against people.,

Me and my girlfriend were there.

I met on October 1, 07, she was in Shanxi, I was in Jiangxi, she was in the third year of high school, I was in my 2nd year to June 08, she didn't get it, she continued to tutor in September 08, I started to study in June 309, she was admitted to Jiangxi Normal University, and I was a senior.

Now that I am preparing to graduate and looking for a job, my first request to myself is to stay in Nanchang, and I can't bear the difficulty of parting.

Can't deny the authenticity and value of online dating, which relationship has their constraints, we have had a relationship for almost two and a half years, and now it's very good, which makes many friends envious, and both parties have seen their parents.

But it was really tiring, we used to see each other once every month or two, and then when I stepped on the train, she would cry and run with the train.

In a few words, it's how I feel about myself.

Give it up! People's hearts are unpredictable, and they will definitely be hurt. Most of the stuff online is fake. Don't believe too much, those rhetoric.

The Internet is not practical, you are trapped, and I have several friends who are like this. Thousands of miles away. Go and send B.

It's true that giving up is sometimes easy, but choosing to keep it can mean that we are still cherishing the relationship or the fact that we are not in a hurry. Choosing to hold on is not humble, but rather a sign of bravery, as it requires us to face possible outcomes and possible pain.

Sometimes, we choose to keep it because we cherish the relationship or the thing, and we want to keep it going. This cherishing may come from the importance we attach to the relationship or the matter, or it may come from our fear of losing it.

However, we must also be aware that retention is not always successful. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, we can't change the facts. At this time, we need to learn to accept and let go.

Accepting the truth and letting go is also a sign of courage because it requires us to face loss and start over.

In general, choosing to keep is not a hail of humbleness, but a sign of bravery. It is simple enough for us to face possible outcomes and possible pain, but it also means that we cherish and hope for a relationship or something. At the same time, we also need to learn to accept and let go when necessary, because this is part of growing up.

Hello my friend, I am also male and at the same time an explorer of human nature.

I've been studying the human heart for more than ten years.

Except for these two **, no matter what happened between you before and after, I just saw the two ** you uploaded. Just two of them, and I've already seen it.

I've always been sensitive to words, so please listen to me. Whether you accept my statement and opinion or not, I hope you can read it all, because as a man, I will not maliciously give you guidance and advice.

First: I think it's time for you to wake up because you've done your best, you're a good man, but you're not a good woman. I can see that you are really working hard, trying hard to pay for her money and time.

However, it's not worth it. Now you must get out of it with all your body.

Second: What to do when hesitating is wrong, and hesitation will kill you instantly. Once you choose, you have to do it until you succeed or fail, even if you are desperate.

Third: A woman who loves you must be considerate of your difficulties and your abilities, instead of blindly asking for you extravagantly, exploiting your time, energy, and even money, not caring about your situation or everything, once you satisfy her, she will only have a few words of thanks or love.

Third: If she doesn't just like your money, but your explanations and a lot of words are exchanged for her "uh-huh", I can already see that she is perfunctory to you, and she hasn't even read the messages you send. Do you say it's disrespectful to you or is there no emotion anymore?

Finally: I hope you can calmly analyze, judge what happened before and after, don't rush forward obsessively, calm down, calm down, calm down again. Is what you've done so far worth it, what are you for, what have you gotten, and what have you given in return?

Unreciprocated feelings are always wishful thinking.

Remember, brother, I can only help you get here, you must make a choice. The answer is already clear.

Why do you only see money in the chat, it's really powerless to talk about feelings in front of money, but people have their own reluctance, and they are uncertain about the result, but they want to try it.

Give up a tree, and you still have a forest.

Of course, it's to keep it, and after you keep it, you know what despair is, and some people only know that they are really not worth loving until they have loved.

It also depends on how she usually treats you, if she is good to you, what about coaxing, girls need to be loved, they need to be coaxed.

Long pain is better than short pain, don't be nostalgic, of course, you love until you die and live to persevere, provided that you have to see hope and endure it.

Look at yourself! Whether it's worth it or not is worth it for you to know!

Forget it, I'm not recommended for women,

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Since you have tried your best to cherish it, but you still can't get back what you have lost, then you should learn to give up. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of the flowers of Chi Song's life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn your pants and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

It is recommended that you first understand why she is leaving. If you can keep it, try to keep it. The relationship between two people is to destroy Huai's mutual understanding and tolerance, and it is bound to wear out some of their own personalities. If you think it's worth it, keep it.

If the contradiction is irreconcilable, then let go when it's time to let go. The poem says: There is no grass at the end of the world. and Hengyun: There are thousands of Chinese sons and daughters, if this doesn't work, let's change it again! Hehe.

If you think she's important, stay with her. If you don't think it matters, whatever you want.