Why do many rural women like to chat so much?

Maybe it's used for no other entertainment activities in the countryside, in fact, it's good to chat, isn't it fragrant to talk and laugh together? My mom is a rural woman, and she loves to talk. But she wasn't like this when she was young, maybe when she got older, we were not around as children, and I was more bored, so I liked to chat everywhere, otherwise there was really no one at home who could talk to her.

Actually, I'm very happy that she was able to find someone to talk to her.

I think everyone actually looks at rural women with colored glasses, thinking that these elderly uncles and aunts are very broken-mouthed, like to talk bad about others behind their backs, and like to engage in small actions and so on. I feel that their existence is to discuss gossip, today it is about the East Family, and tomorrow it is about the Li Family. But I think the quality of rural women has actually improved a lot, and many of them were educated when they were young.

With the development of the times, I think that rural women should also wash away people's stereotypes about them.

Take my mom, who was also very fashionable when she was young. Every time I go out, I will dress up very delicately. Later, after marrying my father, after giving birth to me, she became a little rougher.

Maybe it's because after giving birth to a child, the pressure has increased, and she is actually a raunchy person now. But I still think my mom is still very cute, she may have some minor problems now, such as having to play cards every afternoon, in fact, I sometimes find it annoying, but most of the time I will say that I can understand, after all, she really has no entertainment.

What about rural women who like to chat? Originally, communication is what normal people have to do to get along. In the new era, there are also new types of rural women, and we can't just mention rural women and put a hat on them, and when we see them chatting together, we think that they are maliciously spreading rumors or something.

Rural women can also be very cute.

Because they are relatively idle, they don't have much to do, and they don't have higher pursuits after eating and drinking, so they only chat.

Maybe it's because the workload is not too large, so you can chat with your friends in your village in your spare time, how comfortable it is. I think it's good that people just need to communicate more with each other.

Because rural women see less and need to know something from others, and because they are more enthusiastic.

Mainly because there is no entertainment in the countryside, they can only relieve their boredom by chatting.

Pull homely. Gathering women: The content they talk about is very rich, not only to talk about their own things, but also to care about other people's things!

Whose child was admitted to college, whose son married a daughter-in-law, whose family got angry and fought, who complained about ......Wait, there's nothing they don't seem to know! This group of people is also called "propagandists".

Notes:Try to avoid taboo topics in the process of small talk, be considerate of others, and know that anyone who is hit will be hurt by any sore spot, so you must control your mouth when talking to others. When a person gets angry, he has no reason to say something that offends people, and when the matter is over, he regrets what he said.

So when you are about to get angry, you must control your mouth, and no matter what kind of words you say, you must be in line with the principle of not hurting others.

Most of them will talk about other people's parents. In fact, they don't really want to talk, but they really don't have anything to do.

These people always like to talk about some short things in the family, such as whose daughter is married again, or whose chicken is laying eggs again.

They all like to talk about the gossip in the village, like which family married a daughter-in-law and a daughter; Which daughter-in-law gave birth to a boy just a year after entering the door, and which daughter-in-law will not give birth; Which old man in the village died, which man in the village remarried, etc.

Rural women are more gossipy, they like to talk about other people's affairs, such as whose family fights, whose daughter can't get married, and so on.

They all like to talk about things between women, as well as the emotional situation of the family, the learning situation of the children, and they are very gossipy.

First, the news, they all like to discuss state affairs.

Second, gossip, they like to gossip about their neighbors.

Three, his own family affairs, boasting about his son and husband. Talking about your own relatives?

They will talk about some parents. They will also be very interested in other people's family affairs, and they pass the time in this way.

I like to talk about some parents, complain about my environment, my husband and my relatives, and also talk about some gossip.

It is to talk about what happened to someone's house, or talk about other people's homes, where they are not used to it, or talk about their own things.

Short gossip in the parents. Rural women usually have the most contact with relatives, friends and neighbors around them, and the circle is small, so it is natural for them to talk about the short things in their parents.

It's not the most popular thing for women to talk about, it's just that the east and west families, the short children, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the family are such topics, and rural women often talk together, which is really boring.

Rural women are most likely to talk about the education of their children. There are also small things that happen every day.

Nowadays, women are very financially independent, so they will have a career of their own, even better than some men. But in the countryside, there are still many married women, after giving birth to children, they are idle at home and have nothing to do, every day they are holding a child, and the owner of the Li family is short, chatting with a bunch of women. It was supposed to be the age of struggle, but it was already tied up by the family.

Seeing that those girls who are still very young are already holding their children, I feel quite sorry for them, because they can't find the value of their lives.

One: Idle and have nothing to do. Two:

Don't want to make a change. Three: I don't know what I can do.

Maybe this is the difference in thinking, some people are willing to accept the status quo, and some people are thinking about their own future, no matter what, as long as they are happy.

No, I think it's a normal way to get along, but people in the city sometimes make small talk.

It's really boring, and if there's something to do, there's no time to discuss it.

It's really boring, there are no job opportunities in the countryside, so I cook at home, and chat the rest of the time.

Not entirely. In the countryside, there were no square dances or smartphones, and a group of women sat together knitting sweaters and soles during the slack time, just chatting to pass the loneliness.