My ex boyfriend invited her to dinner, and my ex boyfriend asked me to dinner

Oh, I was in the same situation as your girlfriend, and I wanted to tell you how I got here, but I thought it was too long. I don't know how long it's been since your girlfriend and her ex-boyfriend broke up, anyway, the three of us were struggling for more than a year at that time. I tell my current fiancé every day that I love him, and on the other hand, I promise to have dinner with my ex-boyfriend, and I say that I am just eating, but if you think about it, men and women just want to attract each other to chat and eat together, let alone with their ex-boyfriends.

What's worse is that my ex-boyfriend is very rich and always takes me to top Western restaurants for dinner, while my current fiancé was a poor student at that time. At that time, my ex-boyfriend and I were in the same city, but my fiancé was in another city, so I also told my fiancé that I had dinner with my ex-boyfriend and also told him not to think about it. In fact, I was very conflicted and shaken at the time.

My fiancé always told me he trusted me, but wished I could figure out what exactly my ex-boyfriend wanted, and he never blamed me. The more he was like this, the more I couldn't bear to leave him, and the more I couldn't bear to do anything sorry for him. In almost a year, the three of us are living in various situations, my current fiancé has always believed that I firmly believe that I love him, and although I am reluctant to give up on my ex-boyfriend, it is difficult for us to bridge, and then I make money in business, I often return to my fiancé's city, he has holidays and often comes to accompany me, after experiencing a year of swaying from side to side, suffering from gains and losses, I gradually understand that my fiancé is the person who is worth sharing his life with me, in this way, my ex-boyfriend gradually alienated me, Later, after my fiancé's internship ended, and my business career was doing well, we went to another country, and we changed the environment and felt that everything in the past was a foolish entanglement.

I don't think your situation will be worse than I was then, if you really love your girlfriend, you tell her that you believe her, even if she is now vacillating between the two of you you don't blame her, support her decision, she will one day take the initiative to tell you about her and ex-boyfriend's dinner and mood and opinions, at that time you have to take the opportunity to tell her what the purpose of visiting her ex-boyfriend is, and at the same time imply that you are her real card. I believe that as long as you insist on loving her and communicating well, time can dilute everything, and he and his ex-boyfriend will naturally return to zero. Now that she broke up with her ex-boyfriend, in Buddhist terms, they are also considered to be destined, and they are actually forcing it now, and there will be no result.

Finally, I wish you a happy marriage and a successful career!

Men be generous!

Don't be so careful, if your girlfriend really cares about you, she won't have anything to do with her ex-boyfriend, but if something happens, it means that she doesn't love you! Why would you want to be with her anymore, right?

You're kind of funny.

I see that your girlfriend is still thinking about her ex-boyfriend.

But she doesn't necessarily want to rekindle her old relationship with him.

A kind of psychology of intellectual women.

Don't show yourself to be very stingy.

Just talk to her when you two are.

You're all a little jealous.

She can be happier and know what you think.

Although you should be generous, don't let it go, and show your concern and jealousy. If you can't stand it, you can also invite your ex-girlfriend or female classmates to dinner!

Summary. Dear Hello I'm glad to answer for you, your ex-boyfriend asked you to dinner, which means that he wants to take the opportunity to come back to you, there should be something to tell you, and he wants to deliberately please you and get back together with you to be so active.

Dear Hello I'm glad to answer for you, your ex-boyfriend asked you to dinner, which means that he wants to take the opportunity to come back to you, there should be something to tell you, and he wants to deliberately please you and get back together with you to be so active.

The reason why I say this is because you have broken up, and I took the initiative to ask you for dinner, but also to test your reaction, if you agree, it means that you don't resist him in your heart, or you haven't let go of him, so that he has the opportunity to get back together with you again.

Dear, if you also have him in your heart, then you can take this opportunity to meet with him, which will also show that we are empathetic, regardless of previous suspicions, we can also know what his purpose is, as long as it also dispels our concerns.

It may be because he regretted it in the years after he broke up with you, he found that you are still the best and wants to get back together with you, or he wants to restore a normal friend relationship with you, eliminate the embarrassment caused by the breakup before, or have other things to find you, but because it is an ex-boyfriend, he can only find a reason to ask you out, these reasons are all possible.

The first crack may be that he regrets it, regrets breaking up with you, and wants to get back together with you, so he asked you to dinner. But you have to choose this kind of thing yourself, why did the two people break up in the first place, or why did he suddenly regret it after breaking up for a few years, these things must be asked clearly. Because if he really liked you so much, you wouldn't have broken up in the first place, and since you broke up, there must be a reason, ask clearly and then think about it.

Don't be stupid and break up when he says he breaks up, and get back together when he says he gets back together.

Second, it is also possible that he wants to restore a normal relationship with you, and wants to eliminate the embarrassment of breaking up because you were together. But in this case, you also have to think about it. As far as I know, even if you say that you will return to a normal relationship after a breakup, it will still be a little awkward to get along, because the fact that you have been in love is real, and it must have an impact in your heart.

Third, it's also possible that he wants you to help with something. It's actually embarrassing to ask your ex-girlfriend to help, because some guys are machismo.

If he can't ask you for help normally, he can only ask you to help by asking you to eat in a roundabout way. If that's the case, you'd better think about it and don't just say yes. In general, there must be a reason behind everything, and as for what the reason behind this matter is, you still need to analyze and experience it yourself.

Maybe I miss you or want to get back together with you.

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for more than a year, and then he asked me to invite him to dinner.

It's been more than a year since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, and then he asked me to invite him to dinner, what does it mean If there has been contact, then it's just a meal, it shouldn't be anything. If you haven't been in touch, suddenly call you to eat. It could be that he wants to reunite with him, or suddenly thinks of you.

As for asking you to invite him, it's not to tease you, but it's just like that.

The ex broke up with you and said that he didn't love you anymore, and now he still keeps contacting you and asking you to dinner, indicating that breaking up with you at that time was when he was angry and said that he broke up, and now he may not want to break up with you again, the same as before. Cai Fei often contacts you and asks you to dinner, which proves that he did not break up with you.

Asking your ex-boyfriend to dinner can be denied for a variety of reasons, and here are some possible explanations:

1.He doesn't have feelings for you anymore. If your ex-boyfriend no longer has feelings for you, then he may choose to decline your invitation, suggesting that he wants to keep his distance and avoid any misleading signals of splitting.

2.He's still in the process of adjusting his emotions. After a breakup, the other person needs some time to process his emotions and feelings, maybe he is not ready to face you or has not yet come out of the relationship.

3.He may have a new romance. Your ex-boyfriend may decline your invitation because he has started a new relationship or because he has found another focus and lifestyle.

4.He wants to be friendly, but he also wants to keep his distance. Sometimes, your ex-boyfriend may decline your invitation, but he still wants to maintain a friendly relationship, and he doesn't want the invitation to become an intimate contact or any unnecessary misunderstanding.

In short, the specific reasons need to be analyzed according to the personal situation of the ex-boyfriend and the pure macro specific situation between you. If you'd like to learn more, maybe contact him directly and ask him what he thinks and why.

It means that your ex-boyfriend has no feelings for you anymore.

It shows that your ex-boyfriend has no feelings for you and doesn't want to be alone with you, and at the same time he is also a boy who knows how to refuse.

The ex-boyfriend was the previous boyfriend who has now broken up. Love is a commitment between men and women to rely on each other, tolerate each other, and stay together for a lifetime. Since you can't make this kind of commitment, you can only break up, and the breakup is called an ex-boyfriend.