I really don t like my ex boyfriend anymore, but why do I care so much about him?

Ever heard of the pole theory? The ex is like a telephone pole that you hit while walking, it hurts, and you will walk around the telephone pole when you walk in the future, and you forget how much it hurt at that time after a long time, but that telephone pole will always be there.

You say that you don't like him anymore, but in fact, you subconsciously still miss him, after all, the days you have spent together are still in your heart, and you will still be hit by sudden memories.

No matter who mentions the breakup first, both sides of this relationship have paid a lot seriously, men and women are different, men are good at the beginning, everything is the best, and then they get along for a long time and find that it is just so, the emotional line is going down, women are just the opposite, at first they felt that he was not good here or there, he was not handsome enough, not romantic enough, and after getting along for a long time, he has to take care of everything, he will intervene in a lot of his things, he will love more and more, and the emotional line is going up. This is where the contradiction is triggered.

Also as an ex-boyfriend, some of you don't think about it at all, and you don't even feel sad about the breakup, because this telephone pole has not caused your mood swings, in fact, in the final analysis, there is not much difference between the telephone poles, you may just have paid too much for him, and subconsciously you are a little unwilling.

Life is like a drama, don't impose the drama of bitter love on yourself.

After all, you have loved each other before, and it is certain that you have a certain amount of affection. No matter what happens to her, you can't help but care about him, because you used to be each other's everything, and your heart was once full of him. His voice is in your heart and in your head.

Therefore, when you hear from him, you can't help but care about him and care about him.

Just like my current classmates, she heard that her ex-boyfriend's phone had been dropped, but she still risked being found by her current partner to chat with her ex-boyfriend and care about him. Asked him how he dropped his phone, whether he found it back, whether he told his family, and some other questions. She told her ex-boyfriend that if he didn't have any money, he could take some money from her first, but she was actually very worried about her ex-boyfriend.

In fact, she really doesn't like her ex-boyfriend anymore, but she still has the heart to let him go.

After all, it is a person who has been together for three years, how can he easily give up and give up. Although the two people have no feelings, when one party hears that the other party has something, they will still care about him desperately. If you say like or love, you will definitely not have it, but there is care.

After all, they once loved each other and were once the closest people to each other. If you can't be a lover, you can be a friend, and a friend is better than a stranger. At least this friend knows you and can genuinely help you.

Don't care if you like your ex-boyfriend or not, as long as you still want to care about him in your heart, then follow your heart. It's better to have one more friend than one more enemy. People have feelings, and your relationship with him is not something that can be forgotten.

There will still be some memories more or less. If you can still care about each other, you can care more about each other, maybe there will be unexpected surprises.

Girls are like this, I hope that the other party will always care about themselves, even if they have broken up, even if the boy has found a new girlfriend, but the girl still wants him to only care about himself forever, even if he is married to someone else, the girl still hopes that the other party will always have her in his heart, which sounds excessive, but most girls really want it, even if they know that they no longer like their ex, but they still hope that their ex's heart is full of him, If you know that your ex doesn't feel anything about herself and she wants to be at all, girls will feel very frustrated.

Girls are really doing it, really hypocritical, what girls care about is this feeling, this feeling of always being the only little princess in each other's hearts, even if I don't like you anymore, I don't care, you have to love me, no matter what.

Although none of these things have any practical significance, girls just like it. After the breakup, she doesn't need to care about her like a friend, and she doesn't need you to express it with any practical actions, but she must always care about me in her heart, which is what she cares about the most in breaking her relationship.

Boys are different, boys prefer practical things in the relationship, such as getting a girl's kiss, a girl's body, etc., these are very specific things, writing is the most precious thing in his relationship when he recalls, so when he breaks up, he doesn't care if his ex still has him in his heart, it's not important, he doesn't like his ex anymore, and what his ex does won't be very touching for himself.

The girl cares if it's because she's unwilling, unwilling to let this boy leave her world like this. It may also be that she really doesn't have the current relationship.

Sometimes habits are really terrible, you may have no feelings for him, you may not like her anymore, but after all, you have been together, you are used to him being your person, and now, if you say that she is with someone else, you may be as sad as you see, because you are not used to someone snatching something from your life, and in fact this thing does not belong to you at all.

At the end of the day, these things are just habits, and I'm no different from you, I think women all over the world should be the same, right, I don't know what men think? Anyway, I know women are supposed to be like this! <>

My ex-boyfriend is sick, we have been together for three years, and the illness is after we separated, and I have a new boyfriend at that time, and I still miss him very much, and I don't worry about his body, and I also go back to see him, but the two of us really don't have anything anymore, and nothing will happen again, because I don't love him.

I don't care anymore I just once left a deep imprint in my heart, and I am used to the existence of this imprint and can't change it, so I can only let it act recklessly, and then, even after breaking up, he has a new girlfriend with his new girlfriend and started her happy life, I still can't stand it, as if someone else snatched her by my side, but this is not the case.

Habit is a really scary thing. All our care is because of habit, and it may take a long, long time for this habit to change, but during this time, we will die by ourselves and never show it again, so as not to cause any misunderstanding.

Summary. I understand how you're feeling right now. When I asked my ex-boyfriend if he still liked him, he said he didn't know. It means that there is still affection for you. It's definitely not easy for you to go through a relationship together.

Then there must be a lot of contradictions between you, so you must first consider the problems between you, reflect first, and then find the main contradictions, so that you can save your feelings in a targeted manner.

I understand how you're feeling right now. When I asked my ex-boyfriend if he still liked him, he said he didn't know. It means that there is still affection for you. It's definitely not easy for you to go through a relationship together.

Then there must be a lot of contradictions between you, so you must first consider the problems between you, reflect first, and then find the main contradictions, so that you can save your feelings in a targeted manner. Summary.

Dear, hello, I am a cooperative emotional counselor who has been engaged in the emotional counseling industry for 8 years, and I am thinking about the questions you raised, and I will be there for you immediately, in order to better your situation, please add your specific situation.

I understand how you're feeling right now. When I asked my ex-boyfriend if he still liked him, he said he didn't know. It means that there is still affection for you. It's definitely not easy for you to go through a relationship together.

I understand how you're feeling right now. When I asked my ex-boyfriend if he still liked him, he said he didn't know. It means that there is still affection for you.

It's definitely not easy for you to go through a relationship together. Then there must be a lot of contradictions between you, so you must first consider the problems between you, reflect first, and then find the main contradictions, so that you can save your feelings in a targeted manner.

I don't just pay lip service.

It's okay to be really good to you, so why bother saying it!

My judgment is that there are no two possibilities for the ex to be affected by this question: one is that he does not know what to do, and the other is that he does not know what will happen in the future. Fiber-carrying.

1. Why don't you know how? Because no one can tell what sincerity is, there must be liking, and sincerity should have appeared. After all, if you don't have sincerity, how can you love each other?

If it is sincere, how can it be separated? It's likely that there were, but it didn't last, and then due to various reasons, there was a entanglement, and the sincerity was lost.

2. If there is, will you look for him again, and if you do, will you be entangled again. If not, will it be impossible for you to be friends anymore, or to hurt you?

So, simply no.

Actually, I think you can also ask yourself if you really like your ex and why you broke up.

Perhaps, the question will become clear.

Because this question is meaningless, people don't want to, what if they like it, what if they don't like it? It's all gone anyway, and I didn't get together in the end, so what's the point of saying that I once liked it or not.

There may be any, there may not be, and there may be feelings that are not going well, and I am very depressed and disgusted with this topic.

Because I like it, I don't like it.

Congenial... This question has never changed since ancient times.

You broke up.

But that doesn't mean your dad's liking stops.

So there's no need to dwell too much on this issue.

Even if you won't be together again.

But your ex-boyfriend can keep your dad's heart.

Some secrets should be told sooner and remedied early, the truth of the truth may make people unbearable for a while, but time is the best healing medicine, and it will be over, the experience of recalling before is not the point, and the point of feeling the experience in the future is not the point, the point is who created these experiences together, and you tell him like this, the person who really loves you will be shaken.

Since it's an ex-boyfriend, it shouldn't have anything to do with you, and it's over, so why bother.

What kind of attitude does he have, if the way of dealing with love is not good, you don't have too much hope for him, how can it be child's play.

Love always makes people wait, and makes those who wait quietly miss it.

You have to find more around you, maybe there will be someone who loves you, and you have to be brave enough to find your own love, instead of waiting for it to come.

One possibility is that he just said he didn't care, but in fact he cared a lot in his heart.

The second possibility is that he doesn't plan to be with you all the time, so as long as both parties are happy.

The third possibility is that he is indeed mature, and he may have had a few girlfriends, so I also feel that it is pointless to dwell on whether you have done it with your ex-boyfriend.

It shows that your boyfriend is very broad-minded, he will tolerate everything you have in the past, only care if you love him or not, and he only hopes that the two of you will go on well.

This man is the real man. He wants you now and in the future, and that's the key. Is there still any point in thinking about things that have passed, can't you be careful, do you still like men who return old accounts. I wish you happiness.

1. Maybe he really doesn't care!

2. It's possible that he just talks about it, and he may care about it very much in his heart!

3. If he cares, he will definitely find a way to abandon you!!

Everyone has a past, your boyfriend accepts the present you, if everyone turns out the old sesame seeds of Chen Guzi, then you ** have a bright future, you live in memories, your friends are entangled in your memories, it's bad to think about. He didn't care. It's because he loves you, he doesn't care, what are you doing with it?

Just love him well.

Now life is cared for and cared for, someone cooks when you come home from work one day, and you are satisfied with knowing what you eat and wear, after all, you are accompanied by each other until you are old!

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you

Your ex-boyfriend is interested in you, or maybe he still has a crush on you, or wants to reunite with you.

Another is that he wants to pay attention to whether you have a new relationship

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question Your ex-boyfriend is following you, maybe he still has a crush on you, or wants to reunite with you. There is also a kind of nuclear destruction that he wants to pay attention to you, and there is no new relationship with the family

I don't have a new relationship.

He just pays attention to whether you have it, and maybe he is also worried that you have a new relationship, so he is always paying attention to why does he care about me when he doesn't often have a girlfriend.

Female friends. Probably long handsome.

No, I scolded others for no reason, I scolded an innocent girl.

I'm sorry. Hug you, you're kind, you didn't scold her, he's just a female friend......It's not a girlfriend.