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So you and she are close friends? I'm also embarrassed by this situation, I've experienced it, and I even thought about breaking up my relationship when I felt the worst. As a matter of experience, you can choose to avoid and then go with the flow when the relationship is at its lowest point. But if you are very tired, you can also take the initiative to end it, and there is no need to make yourself uncomfortable.
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A happy life in the future is built on the basis of harmony, and the importance of character is far greater than the external and monetary factors. As for your contradictions, you should analyze them according to the specific situation, whether it is caused by your personality, or by the essence of the problem, or by a third party.
There is no couple who does not come over like this, if it goes well, it will be a happy marriage, and if it fails, it will be good to get together and disperse.
In fact, you are very good, and you don't have to limit your options for one person.
That's all I can say, no culture, but I hope it will help you. Respect!
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It's impossible to forget, you can only be in a new environment, no longer in touch with her, you will have a new circle of friends, and over time you won't think about it so much, and it's inevitable to think about it occasionally and sigh.
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Why not try to change this state of affairs and think about the reasons for this result. In any case, even if you want to disconnect, you have to have no regrets!
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It should be hard! As long as you don't think about reminding yourself to forget, you may forget it over time, and of course you will remember it again because of some details. It's a friend, it's a friend for life, as long as you don't forget!
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Shift your focus to work, or whatever.
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Losing a friendship can be heartbreaking and sad, but we also need to understand that everyone has their own path to follow, and sometimes there are separations and changes. Here are some tips to help you let go of a lost friendship:
1.Accept reality: First, we need to accept that the friendship is over and no longer exists as it once was. Don't try to hold on to the past, and don't hold a grudge against yourself or the other person. Try to look at the situation with a calm mind.
2.Be aware of the reasons for the change in friendship: Look back at how the friendship changed and see what led to its end. Sometimes, this understanding can help you better handle the situation and avoid similar problems in the future.
3.Find new friendships: Just because you've lost a friendship doesn't mean you can't have a new one. Try to meet new people, attend social events, and find people who share your interests. New friendships may also make you feel happy and fulfilled.
4.Focus on your feelings: Don't ignore your feelings when faced with a loss of friendship. Give yourself some time to deal with the situation, express your emotions, and express your dissatisfaction and sadness in your heart, so as to put yourself at ease.
5.Let go of the past and look forward: The most important thing is to let go of the past and look forward. Let go of resentment and negativity and focus on your present life and future plans. Believe in yourself and you will have a better friendship and life.
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If you want to forget that a person is simple and simple, no matter how many friendships are and how good they are, as long as they don't contact, most of them will forget her after a certain period of time.
Like some classmates when they were studying, they had a better time at that time, and some even slept together in a bunk for two and a half years of three years of studying, but after graduation, they didn't contact each other again, and they slowly faded away. Time is a dose of forgetfulness, no matter who it is, as long as it is not in touch for a long time, it is also a life that is gradually forgotten, even if it is a good friend, it is the same. If you don't contact it for a long time, it will slowly fade.
If you don't get in touch, no matter how good your friends are, they will slowly forget, even if they occasionally think of her existence in their hearts, but they won't talk about it as much as before, because they each have their own circles, and many things have changed.
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I think it's a very difficult thing to do, and for someone who is loyal to a friendship, it's even harder to forget a very good friend of his. But it's not impossible to do it, I feel like I'm a person who attaches great importance to friendship, I remember that year because of something, I had a very good classmate with me, and in the end the two of us never got along, and I was very, very sad during that time, and I didn't know how to forget my former good friend. The days were the most painful period I ever lived, I didn't want to do anything, and I didn't have the motivation to live.
Maybe my mom saw that my daily life was very bad, so he recommended me to go on a trip. To cultivate my own sentiments, open up my brother, forget those unpleasant things, at first I was very reluctant to accept this matter, because I didn't have the heart to travel, I couldn't forget me, then I was also a very good friend. But under the encouragement of my mother, I finally went out to travel, admiring the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and in the process of traveling, I also made new friends, forgot those unpleasant things, and let me finally let go of the past.
But when I think about it carefully, I feel that I was really simple at that time, and I couldn't be more naïve, and I quarreled over some trivial things, so that I broke up unhappily, and sometimes it was really not worth it. But that thing must have passed, and we still have to look up and move forward, and we must forget what we should forget.
So if you want to forget, my own very good friends, you can add some new friends, or go on a trip, forget about those unhappy things, change your inner pressure, this is also a very good way.
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In fact, I want to ask a question, why do you forget, since it is a friendship, and you are a person who values friendship, isn't it contradictory to forget, a person who values friendship wants to forget a friendship, or forget that person, isn't it very contradictory.
But it's not that you can't forget, you have to find something that you love to do, something that you are willing to stick to and do, preferably something that is good for you, and do it every day, such as running, reading, playing the piano.
At the same time, you can dust up all the things about him, because you value friendship, throw these things away, maybe you don't want to, then find a place you won't go to hide these things, under a tree in the park, or a coffee shop that can help you seal things.
Without his things, there would be no situation of seeing things and thinking about people, and I will slowly forget him, and gradually forget that friend.
Then you can make some new friends, often very emotional people, his friends are not very many, because he needs a lot of time to pay for a friend he thinks is worth befriending, just because he is emotional, when that friend has any need, he will be the first to be there, if you go to make some new friends, you will shift this attention to others, and when you make new friends, you will not pay a lot more than your previous friends, so it will be more helpful to forget a person.
Although you are very much like forgetting someone, don't hurt your body too much, such as getting drunk every day, and eliminating your bitterness by smoking, which is not good, so that you will fall into a cycle of death, and the more uncomfortable you will be to think about this person.
Therefore, you must let your body have a good state first, and then let your heart have a good state, and slowly your heart will become stronger and stronger, and you will slowly forget that person.
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Friendship is really important in my heart, because in my heart I can change objects but not friends, friends in my heart is the supreme position, so no matter what, I will not easily get rid of my friends.
In my year I met a very nice girl, she thinks about me every day, probably because I am not very sensible, and I have to quarrel with her every day because of a little thing, she is almost all she cooks, she never asks me to do anything, people are always in the blessing and do not know the blessing, when she leaves I will miss her very much.
Time is the best medicine, because time and distance are the time to test the real feelings, if you don't contact a person for a long time, you will slowly forget her life, in your eyes her life will not be closely related to you. So you have to understand these truths yourself.
My best friend and I will have very little contact after the start of school, she is busy doing her own things every day, participating in various activities, and then constantly enriching herself to make her life richer and richer, but my daily life is very bad. Because I don't know what I want.
You can make new friends, because people always have to change the environment to grow, and it is impossible to be in one place all the time, so you have to learn from experience, and you will be very happy when you have new friends, and you can replace your old friends in your heart.
Some friends are irreplaceable in your heart, so sometimes you can't forget them, don't forget them, which will only make you more uncomfortable. If you want to forget a person, you have to use your heart to erase his place in your mind.
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In addition to breaking your heart, there is no way to quickly forget. How can a person who was once cherished and valued quickly forget this friend who has been playing for a long time?
A person who only met in his first year of high school, the time is not long, but it is not short, and this year is the seventh year. I don't know why, from the day she first opened, I thought she was very good, and then we were also at the same table, and the relationship was not very good at first, and then it slowly got better and better step by step. Outsiders may think that the personalities of the two of us are really opposite, but the two of us are really the best.
Her name is Xiaoxue, and she just gave me a slap in the face when I thought the friendship between the two of us was indestructible.
It was her ex-boyfriend, the two of them were together in junior high school, but then they separated, Xiaoxue told me about the two of them, but I didn't care very much, because I felt that after all, it was the past, and the past should be let him pass. But who would have thought that when we were the heaviest in high school, he came back to find Xiaoxue, this is the type of boy I hate the most, and I think Xiaoxue, a child who studies so well, how can she give up studying so easily for such an unreliable boy to be with someone who won't study hard.
Just when I was confident that I could threaten Xiaoxue with our friendship, she chose to abandon me, and she was the one who was resolute.
I wanted to give up, I tried to drink to anesthetize myself, I wanted to forget it quickly, but when I woke up, the images were still clear in front of me. If you want to forget someone, you must first become a heartless person.
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It takes time for a person to forget that a person is righteous. If you want to forget a friend quickly, you can't keep thinking about that friend. As soon as you think of him, you have to block that thought.
You can do things that will distract you, such as playing games, watching TV, running, playing basketball, etc.
I'm a very emotional person, and I've had a lot of really good friends around me. But due to some factors, such as, time, distance, three views. We slowly faded out of each other's life circles.
When we said goodbye, just smiled and said a few words. When we first started losing, we kept thinking about it, but I think it's normal. Everyone encounters such a sad thing, and they will not be able to let go quickly.
If your best friend leaves you, you don't feel anything at all, that's not normal. All you have to do is not let these things affect you all the time. You keep doing things when you're supposed to do them, maybe you're distracted, but you still have to do it.
Because only when you do something, you will slowly concentrate.
After a long time, those people forgot about those things. After experiencing more, I don't feel it anymore. If it's hard for you to concentrate, you go for exercise until you sweat, and after sweating you feel comfortable and relaxed.
You can also go and sing and vent these bad emotions. The main thing is that we have to figure these things out, and only when you figure it out will you not get hung up.
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I also have this experience, don't deliberately forget, there will be many, many friends in a person's life, if you really have a friend who can be called a confidant, it is simply lucky, no one really can't live without anyone.
First of all, it's good to keep a distance, don't always think about it, keep yourself busy, read more warm books or movies, try to strengthen communication with other friends around you, maybe there will be unexpected surprises, but don't complain to them, just like usual, the flat atmosphere will affect you, you will feel "Actually, that thing is not a big deal, I am still living well, and he is the same".
It's better if you and your friends don't see each other often, and slowly that sadness will subside. If it's the kind of situation where you don't look down and don't look up, don't try to avoid it, otherwise you will feel worse when he walks by, hold your head high, smile, like a friendly ordinary acquaintance, maybe the atmosphere between you will be softened.
But this is just my experience, if it is really just a misunderstanding, friendship is different from love after all, there is still a chance to recover. The most important thing is that your own face does not rain every day, and a happy life is the premise of solving the problem.
Good luck coming out of the shadows!
No, it's possible to secretly like it in my heart It's a piece of enjoyment, it's not what you say, and I've had it too, hehe!!
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