A lover who has loved and been together for ten years is not in love now, how to deal with this rela

As the saying goes, there is only the feeling of getting married, there is no age of marriage, since you also know that you have "loved", as long as you think clearly and truly face your own thoughts, there may be no right or wrong.

Many people feel used to loving for a long time, repeating the same life every day, facing the same lover, feeling tired and bored, feeling not in love, in fact, if it is another person, it may still be like this, some people are very strict with intimate people, but they are very tolerant of strangers, so it is easy to have a good impression of an unfamiliar person, but this is definitely not love. Before you really figure out your heart, I hope the person concerned will not say too hurtful things too soon.

If it is really like what it says, "loved, but not loved", you should be honest about your feelings, a person can be responsible, moral constraints, but because these two people are because of the so-called moral responsibility to torture each other for a lifetime, it is really worth the loss, love is originally humble to the dust, we have the right to love a person, of course, there is also the right not to love a person, you may say, ten years is too long, that may be the best time, But that's your most beautiful time and his most beautiful time, no one can decide this kind of thing, self-pity is useless, with morality, responsibility to restrain the person you love, it is a little cruel, you may let go of it can't say so freely, but loved, cherished, tried to live may be worth it.

In fact, you should still face your feelings truthfully, whether you love or not, you should give yourself an explanation to each other, give yourself another chance, ten years is not easy, you should take it seriously.

<> what do you want to do, since you don't love it, of course, end this relationship quickly. Since you have been together for ten years, and you are no longer in love, don't deceive each other anymore, after all, if you continue to walk with him with no love, the next ten years, twenty years, thirty years, you will only spend in pain, a marriage without love will not last long, and it is also an unhappy marriage, after all, you once loved, and now you don't love, don't hurt him, end it early, he can start again early, and you can also delay each other.

However, have you really figured it out, are you really not in love? If your answer is that you have thought about it for a long time, or yes, then please end this relationship seriously, after all, you have been together for ten years, and you have started seriously, and in the end you can't end it sloppily, in the TV series, it is called a bad ending. You should be responsible for your relationship, no matter how you look at it.

The two of them sat together calmly, chatted well, treated each other honestly, stopped cheating, said what they always wanted to say, but had scruples, and said what was in their hearts, perhaps, some knots were unexpectedly untied. The breakup is not one-sided, please both take it seriously and talk well to break up well. Since both of them have loved each other, what is the reason for today's situation?

Do you still have a chance to make amends, are you willing to give each other a chance to admit your mistakes and start over, if all is impossible, then, please break up peacefully.

Moreover, don't bother the other party after the breakup, let the other party be happy again, don't bother, I give you the last tenderness.

<>I can understand your hesitation. Why hesitate? Because after all, you have been together for ten years, ten years, in the eyes of others is an enviable couple, you should be able to pile up a hill every year, and you have too many memories in the past ten years, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, so many memories make you feel that person has become a part of your life, if you lose Ken will feel that something is missing, something important is missing, but you also clearly realize that although it is a part of life, But you can't think of her or him as the one who goes to the end of your life, because what?

Because you don't love anymore, you don't have that feeling of love anymore, or rather, it's tasteless.

At this time, I hope you can have a good talk with the other party, the kind of communication in your heart, clearly tell her your true feelings, and don't deceively covet those who have been good to you with her, that is really selfish. If you can tell her sincerely, I think even if she feels sad is better than putting it off again and again and you can't bear to be with her or find a mistress after the expiration date. Of course, I hope that you can go to the place where you were young to have a look, to feel the sweetness of the time, how you gradually entered love, maybe the current love is just because of the reality of the force, think about the simple love that was desperate at the beginning, will you regret it?

So, don't be anxious, think about it calmly and think about whether you really don't love anymore, we don't like bad endings, and I hope you can grow old together, I think, that must be what most of us are willing. If you really don't have feelings, it's good to get together and disperse, don't delay each other anymore, personal opinions, don't spray if you don't like it.

If you don't love it, you will separate, and if you are not willing to give up your previous feelings, you will be a confidant and confidant.

It's hard to feel with someone you don't love, and I've experienced it. But it is impossible to let go of the relationship after ten years of separation, so it is a pity to let go of Lutaling, so let's treat it as a friend. I believe that with so many years of understanding each other, if you really encounter any difficulties with each other, even if you can't help each other directly, you can give spiritual encouragement and comfort.

In fact, how can a person who has entered the heart of the wild grinder say that he forgets it. If you are moved by the love of your heart, how can you say that you will let go of the sock bucket. For the rest of my life, see it or not, you are in my heart.

Even if there is no connection, there is always a place in the heart, where there is a person. Occasionally, I think about it deeply, and I just wish that my spine will be safe for the rest of my life....

Personally, I think that for a person who has made you love for ten years, suddenly one day, when you decide to give up this relationship and want to break up with each other completely, it is obviously a more painful thing for yourself, after all, in these ten years, two people have established a deep connection with each other, and if you want to let go of this relationship, you should first adjust your mentality, so that you can truly realize that such a relationship is no longer really suitable for yourself Two people together, it is impossible to have any results and the futureZhisen must improve his ability to bear as much as possible, so that he can truly face reality.

If you don't love it, it's good to get together and disperse, believe in filial piety, life is short, why force yourself and treat yourself badly? As long as he has a clear conscience, Shen Yuan calmly told him that he would break up peacefully and be fine in the days to come.

Give up completely, forget this relationship completely. Only in this way can you really get out of this relationship.

Don't hesitate, the longer you drag it on, the deeper it hurts, be honest with each other, say what you feel in your heart, you can't force your feelings, and strive to get together and disperse.

Lovers who have been in love for ten years, now they have broken up, and their love is over, then their respective lives, heavy mountain people start their own lives, everyone will have a past, and the past will become a good memory.

You have been together for 10 years, don't talk about feelings, at least there is family affection, and learn to let go of each other.

It's time to let it go, it's still no fate.

Many people's judgment of love likes to be measured by time, but in fact, this is a way to delay each other. Because time has been unclear, so why bother in the end, leading to both lose-losers? At this time, you may even begin to have a feeling of doubting love.

So in my opinion, even if we have been together for more than 20 years, if you don't love it, you don't love it. Continuing to torture each other together is just disrespect for the relationship. What's more, it's a relationship that is destined to separate, so why not leave more and better memories for each other?

In fact, in my heart, I think Chen He made a very wise choice, and when one day I find that two people have no love, it can be over. This is a responsible behavior for each other, which is much better than those who secretly run out to eat after getting married, and are unwilling to divorce their wives! So it doesn't matter if it's ten years, twenty years, or how many years.

If you don't love each other, please let each other go!