What if you are mature and your boyfriend is na ve?

Do you love him? If you love, help him build confidence, help him build a sense of responsibility, let him feel that you will be attached to him in the future, he will have responsibility, like a big man.

His naivety in front of you shows that he loves you, and if he is mature you can't be sure if he loves you or not.

Look at how you see the relationship between the two of you If you care, you can only take your time Assimilating him, I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.

Don't you think this will complement each other? If you're both mature, it might be a lot less fun!

If you like him, accept it, and if you don't like it, you will say goodbye.

If he is naïve, then you will train him to be a mature type.

Either you become naïve, or he becomes mature.

I rub. I'm worried, too.

My girlfriend is all about maturity.

Calling me naïve all day long. I rub.

This is called cultivation.

The psychological age of girls is older than that of boys of the same age, so it is easy to meet immature boys, if this boy is positive and motivated, it is better, if he is immature and not motivated, that is the most heart-wrenching thing, so what should I do if my boyfriend is naïve and immature?

Take a firm stance.

Have you heard such an example, a girl's boyfriend wants to break up because she doesn't buy herself a new phone, do you think it's normal? In fact, this kind of man is spoiled by women and mothers, so the first step we have to do is to have our own position.

Male self-esteem.

It is relatively strong, they are not easy to accept girls' suggestions, if you directly blame and complain, but the other party will resist, and even cause quarrels, I believe you have also experienced.

Therefore, we can use the method of negotiation to communicate with them in the "three chapters of the law", and try to reach a consensus on the principle of equality and mutual love, so as to avoid being "exploited" like the girl at the beginning of the article.

Give some encouragement.

Good men are praised, there is some truth in this, in fact, not only men, but also women, because from the perspective of energetics, when they are praised and affirmed, the inner energy value will rise, and when a person is affirmed and recognized by others, they will be more active to accomplish something.

It's like "I'm good to you, and you'll be good to me in turn." We can use the phrase "You've done a great job, if you can do it, you'll be perfect", and you can add a little gift to reward it (not too expensive, just be romantic).

On the one hand, it can give intimacy.

Keeping it fresh, on the other hand, can also give your significant other a boost.

Guided future planning.

Many times couples break up because of inconsistent future planning, for example, women want to get married around the age of 25, and boys still want to focus on their careers when they are 25 years old, which will cause demand deviations, so the third point is very important, especially for men who are not very mature in mind, and it is even more important to take it step by step, because the cost of women's youth is very expensive, unlike men who have forty-one flowers.

It is better to customize a short-term and long-term plan for you, and the short-term can be the last year, for example, the two of you work together to save money, and start living together after saving enough money. Then the long-term can be the work and life plan after cohabitation, and to get married (most women are aiming for marriage), these plans are best recorded with a pen, or they can be posted in a conspicuous place at home, plus the first and second points I just said, with more encouragement and discussion, in fact, a little boy can also become a big boy with a temperament!

If your boyfriend is too naïve and immature, then you have to tolerate him more and help him grow up at the same time. On many things, you can give him advice. Tell him what to do. Give him time to grow.

You should teach your boyfriend what responsibility is, and then let your boyfriend mature as well. Of course, you can also discuss it directly with your boyfriend, and you can grow up slowly and not rush for a while.

The boyfriend is too naïve and immature, such a boyfriend is very inappropriate, because two people need to be mature and stable together in order to have a better life, like those naïve and immature people, it will only add some troubles to their relationship.

The boyfriend is too naïve and immature, and it will definitely not be happy with her, because they are not very good at loving you, caring for you, taking care of you, and making you feel a sense of security, all they think about is to have fun with themselves, or it is better to break up.

Give him some encouragement, don't quarrel over trivial things, that hurts self-esteem even more, when a person is affirmed and recognized by others, they will be more active to accomplish something, you can set him some goals, let him work hard.

If a boyfriend is very naïve and immature, as a sensible lesbian, slowly guide him and let him mature a little.

If your boyfriend is very naïve and immature, you can wait and see if he is growing up in the future. However, if your boyfriend has been acting childish, then you can consider ending the relationship.

What should I do if my boyfriend is too naïve and immature? There is no other good way, only let him grow slowly, and the more things he encounters, the faster he will grow, the faster.

You can take him with your own maturity belt and let him mature gradually. If you really can't bring it, just give up.

Men need time to grow. No way, it's like a child who needs to grow up slowly, and girls are generally more precocious.

This requires you to have a lot of Haihan, the so-called "gold is not enough, no one is perfect" is always two sides, if you want to get along with him for a long time, you have to think about everything and think more about him!

As you get older, you may experience something that may slowly become mature. There are some people who have been pampered by their families since they were children and have not experienced setbacks, so they will be naïve and immature, and it will take a long time for such people to grow up.

Isn't it a bad thing that a boyfriend is too naïve and immature? Because he has not experienced the baptism of society, and he is still stuck in the mentality of his youth, if one day he really changes, but the result is not what you need.

I don't like such a boyfriend, who looks like a child who doesn't grow up all day long, let's find it again!

This is normal, and sometimes childish and sometimes mature manners are the lubricant in love and marriage, as well as a sign of your intimacy.

Men and women have been getting along for a long time, and if they remain the same, they will inevitably get bored with each other. At this time, the change of your boyfriend will bring you some different experiences, whether naïve or mature, you can take it as a pleasure, just like the flowers in early spring suddenly meet the rain, you can instantly flourish and be green.

Think about it, in front of outsiders, he is dressed in a suit and leather shoes, his face is mature and steady, high-spirited, and graceful; In front of his boss and colleagues, he is crisp and neat, never dragging his feet and doing things, and is always so appropriate. But when he got home, he took off his suit and shouted "Baby, I'm back in shorts and slippers, and I changed my face, wouldn't it be good?"

A man is always a child, but only in front of you he is like a child, and in front of others he is a mature man. This is because he has no defenses in front of you, and he treats you as the closest person.