I don t understand why I m so narcissistic and withdrawn because I m a boy and I m in college

If it's the kind of woman who sticks upside down, you're doing well; But if it's a simple good girl, you're too indebted! Because people may need your help.

Don't be offended! You may have group portraits of homosexuals.

Never met a girl who caught your crush?

Maybe it's because fate hasn't arrived yet.

But how can you find out how good she is if you don't contact her?

Because of your appearance, there are many girls who like you; Because there are many girls who take the initiative to show favor to you, you are even more disdainful of girls; It's also because the girl you really like hasn't appeared yet, and you love beauty very much. I suggest that if you spend a little of your time dressing up and spend a little time on studying, I believe it will definitely be very helpful for you in the future, now is the age of knowledge. Because you don't have to rely on your appearance to eat in the future, and strive to be a charming man who is consistent on the outside and on the inside.

Don't be narcissistic, it's not the appearance of a country and a city; Don't be withdrawn anymore, and you're not a good boy in comics. It's not popular in the real world. Girls in the real world are very realistic, she may like your appearance for a while, but there is always a day when time lasts, no matter how good-looking people are, they will not feel anything after a long time together, understand?

It's nothing, women love beauty, men love beauty, go your own way, let others say it!

Another tall man.

Lofty? There are good and bad, I still prefer the boy who is clear. Hehe.

If you want to be an extrovert, it's very easy to take the initiative. Taking the initiative is the most important principle of interpersonal communication. You can try to take the initiative, and if you are not used to it at first, find something that you can accept, such as taking the initiative to say hello, taking the initiative to bring food to classmates, taking the initiative to smile, and so on.

In a month, you can see the changes in yourself, and at the same time, your popularity will get better and better.

This brother, I used to be in a similar situation to you.

You can exercise more, and exercise can easily give you a sense of accomplishment.

There is also a self-soothing method, which is not to look at those who are better than you, that will not help you now, it will only make you more sad.

If you really can't do it, just get a girlfriend, and the power of love is also great.

You can't be in a hurry, you have to find what you are more prominent, or what you are more interested in, and try to make some achievements here, then your mood will be very good, and your self-confidence will be slowly established. In short, focus on one thing with ruthlessness and perseverance, and you will succeed, provided that you find the right direction. That's what I did, that's all I can say

Introversion stems from low self-esteem, what does inferiority come from?

When you meditate on the above questions, when you understand them thoroughly, it will suddenly become clear --- the road is ahead.

I will also be cheerful and confident from now on.

Good luck!

It's all about showing the best of you. First of all, you can start with what you are wearing. It doesn't have to be very expensive, but it must suit you.

Look your best. I change my outfit every day, smile at myself in front of the mirror, and tell myself that I am the most confident today. Second, show your best aspects.

For example, if you study well, you help others more, and after a long time, you will find that you get along well with the people around you. When you help others, you are communicating with them. Third, hints, hints in the heart.

Always remind yourself that you are the best. The best. Fourth, reading more books on the mind will help you understand yourself and others.

Fifth, communicate more, it's okay if you don't say it well, don't worry about others laughing at you, and don't be afraid of saying it wrong. Self-confidence is a kind of embodiment, a feeling, and a kind of feeling. I wish you better and better.

Believe in yourself.

Help your classmates a lot, and get old with your classmates about your own things and other people's things.

Communicate more with your classmates, let go of the so-called "face", and be thick-skinned...

Friends talk a lot together, and it will get better slowly, and I used to do too.