Why do people wait until they lose to cherish what they have?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

    Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is the nature of man, man, to ignore --- when he has it.

    When you're happy--- be grateful.

    When sad--- lonely.

    When you lose--- regret it.

    When it became history--- smiled and slowly forgot about him.

    When he lost it, he realized his preciousness, and then he understood what it means to "laugh and cry the most"!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For some people, how can they know its importance without losing it? What you can't get is always the best, and this is the inertial psychology that many people have.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because only when you lose it can you know the beauty of what you have.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because before you lose, you don't think about what it will be like when you lose it, and if you don't lose it, you won't know what it matters.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People always think that some things will never leave them for a lifetime, and they will not change for a lifetime, and they really don't understand what is going on until they lose them! Alas. Sorrowful!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This question can be explained in one sentence, what you can't get, is always the best! Don't

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a shame to have it! I think it's my own!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many things are not known until they are lost, cherish every day of your life!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To put it mildly is "cheap".

    To put it mildly, it means that you can't see what is closest to your eyes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, people are like this, what they can't get is always the best, so people have been pursuing those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore that it is indeed those who have been silently loving themselves around them, and when they are aware of it, they are really lost, people are like this, what is cherished? Pay more attention to what you have around you, grasp it, and don't wait until you lose it to react, it's useless.

    Because only what is lost is the most precious.

    If you are having true love, then don't break up easily.

    Don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

    At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they are lost, we should cherish what we have around us, and do not lose an opportunity or a lover because of the eyes of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate him, think more about her him, his beauty, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hey, people are always like that! People always have to wait until they lose to understand the preciousness of what they have, when it rains to discover the brilliance of the sun, and before they die, they can understand the meaning of life! Because when people have something, they get carried away or even ignore its importance, so that they don't estimate the severity of losing it.

    So whatever you have, you have to think about it if I lose it"it"What kind of consequences will there be. I regret the loss!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you know how to cherish it, you won't lose it

    Loss will make people know how to cherish it more

    However, sometimes if you lose it, you will lose it, and you want to cherish it, but you don't have a chance Good luck

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The question is a bit complicated. It is necessary to analyze from the process. First of all, before you get it, you will have expectations for him, and when you get it and your psychology is satisfied, you will start looking for better, so you will naturally feel that he is not good enough.

    But when you lose, there are two things that happen: one is what you're after"Better"Being you get, you'll forget about him for a while, but when the previous process repeats itself, you get"Better"After psychological satisfaction, you will begin to compare again, it is possible to find better, it is possible to feel that what you have lost before is better than what you are now, when you have the feeling of the latter, you will come to the conclusion that you know how to cherish when you lose. And the other situation is more direct to what you are after"Better"After you can't get it, you lose the balance in your heart, and you become empty from satisfaction, so you know how to cherish it when you get it again.

    In fact, people don't know how to cherish when they lose, when you know how to cherish, it means that you can't find a better one. People are like this, this is the result of greed, but it is greed that pushes people to progress.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why, you've probably heard the story of a black bear swinging corn.

    We always want to have a better one ahead, so we keep looking forward and passing through, but when we come to the end, we find that our hands are still empty. When we want to go back and look for it, the people who used to have a place to wait for us are now gone

    Brother, cherish the person in front of you.

    Don't always think that there is still good in front of you, in fact, what is now around us is the best, if you missed it before, then see if there is still a chance to catch it back, if not, don't be sad, don't be sad, because it's useless.

    All you can do at that time is to try to cherish the person who falls in front of you again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    "Why do many people not know how to cherish the beautiful things in front of them, and they choose to give up easily and choose to leave in a very chic way. I often think, "But why are so many people desperately trying to get what they can't get?"

    It's like it's a rare treasure. "In fact, there are many things that don't need to be asked why, because you can't get an answer if you ask, and the questions without answers are just a wry smile, in fact, many people's ideas are incomprehensible, and they can't figure out the ......

    In fact, don't shed tears or heartache for the lost years, because at least those years have brought you warm memories.

    Bless you ...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes、Because once do not cherish。 It will let the person know the meaning of the word "cherish".

    Most people only know how to cherish when they lose; lost it, only then did you understand its importance to yourself; I lost it, and I realized that my life had changed a lot.

    It's not that people don't know how to cherish, it's just that when they are, they only know how to enjoy them blindly. Isn't it?

    He may be a passer-by in your life, cherished, not talked about.

    However, people always have to face the problem of "loss", and it only depends on where the time is up.

    As long as they are lost, they will know how to cherish, not everyone can not cherish the people in front of them, some people are worried about the future, and they know how to cherish.

    Isn't that what people are trying to realize?

    After comprehending this, I understood. I understand its importance to TA.

    Even his departure has made a big difference to his life. Therefore, we all have to experience such "loss".

    Losing once does not mean regret, because of loss, I know to cherish these two words.

    Words alone will be cherished. In the end, it is not a broken promise.

    Therefore, we have already lost, so why bother to pursue it, next time, as long as we know how to cherish it.

    Don't blame yourself for not knowing how to cherish others.

    Because. Sometimes, "cherishing" comes too suddenly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are together, you are together because you see each other's good, and you are separated because you see each other's bad, and after separation, you will be in a state where you have just met, and you will know a lot of things! Love is like an adventure, I am always so excited when I set off, I always complain about why I did such a thing in the process, I put myself in dire straits, it's over, look back at everything I have experienced, it's really worth the trip, it turns out that the process is what we want to enjoy, but often many people forget that you have been familiar with the dangerous adventure road since you started anew, there will be more exciting waiting for you, and you have to watch the movie twice to know if you really like this movie or not!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because I don't know how to cherish when I don't lose it, but when I know how to cherish it, I have already lost it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because man does not get it.

    There will be a sense of possessiveness.

    But after getting it.

    I don't know how to cherish it.

    I think it's my own.

    But lost later.

    will think about it.

    But maybe by then it was too late.

    So be sure to cherish it.

    Don't leave regrets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    。Many things are always understood after experiencing them. For example, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing.

    In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with. Learn to give up, and life will be easier. Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back;

    Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, leave the best memories, learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable.

    This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way.

    I once said I loved you, and I still love you today. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you.

    As he loved the fire of the wilderness, he loved him, but could not bring him back.

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