The person who knows you best is yourself. Where people are ignorant is that they don t reflect.

Sometimes you don't know yourself, only the person closest to you knows you the most, and sometimes your shortcomings are told to you by the people closest to you.

The one who knows himself best is often himself, but sometimes he doesn't know how to reflect, he doesn't know that he is not good, and he doesn't know how to correct it.

Yes, this sentence is very correct, it is used very well and accurately, and people are indeed like this.

Know your flaws and faults. It is necessary to constantly reflect. Make improvements. But many people are easy to change, and their nature is difficult to change.

This sentence is very right, I still know myself best, the most ignorant place of people is that they will not reflect on themselves, if people will reflect on themselves, then there will be no quarrels in the world.

The person who knows you best is where your own people are ignorant, that is, they don't reflect, this sentence is very reasonable.

Sometimes, I really don't know myself very well. Especially when people are about to reach their peak, they will be prone to expansion.

In fact, this is not the case, the last thing people know is themselves, and they don't know how to reflect.

That's not necessarily, it's not necessarily yourself who knows yourself best, and sometimes you will deceive yourself and deceive yourself.

The one who doesn't know the most should be yourself, and it's easy to get lost in the authorities.

Yes, I think it's still yourself who knows you best, because what you think, others can never accurately guess and change if you know your mistakes, and it's good to know that introspection is good.

This sentence makes a lot of sense. Only by oneself can you see your true face.

Indeed, such a person knows yourself best, that is, where your own people are ignorant, that is, they will not reflect, so when we encounter any mistakes or encounter something wrong, we must reflect.

People know you best is yourself, of course, you know yourself, if you don't know yourself in life, you will be confused, and the place where people are ignorant is introspection. I don't know if I reflect on myself, it means that I have matured.

In fact, people don't necessarily know themselves. But you have to learn to reflect on yourself.

You have a lot of point, and that's a question we often make.

This sentence is very good, people must have self-knowledge, always reflect on themselves, and try to correct things that are wrong.

People are self-aware, so I think it is best for him to have self-knowledge and understand himself.

This sentence is indeed very reasonable, but sometimes people do not know themselves and do not understand themselves, which is the saddest.

The person who knows you best is yourself, this sentence is true, others don't know what you think in your heart. Only you know what you want to do.

Yes, people know about themselves, and they don't understand each other thoroughly, but if there is something wrong, then you have to think about it.

People know you best is yourself, then you can't say that, people actually don't know the most about yourself, as long as the people on the side are likely to understand you.

I think this sentence is very reasonable, people are indeed, well, the person who knows himself best is himself, well, only he knows what he knows best, and if he doesn't know how to reflect, then people will never improve, and there will never be room for improvement.

Yes, that's right, when you're helpless, you make a lot of mistakes.

This is indeed very reasonable, and I know that if I don't reflect on it, I will be more and more wrong.

I think it's very true that the person who knows you best is yourself, because no one knows yourself better than you, and only people who are constantly reflective will constantly discover their own problems and correct them.

Everyone doesn't know what they're doing wrong, so everyone doesn't think about it for themselves.

Since everyone knows themselves well, then you know what you want, and you will often reflect on whether you are doing the right thing.

Well, it's true, the person who knows himself best, that is, what advantages and shortcomings he has, he is very clear, but often, some people will not reflect on themselves, obviously they have done wrong, but they will also adhere to their own opinions, and never know what they can do well by reflecting on themselves.

People may know themselves best, and when they make mistakes, they should reflect appropriately, and then understand themselves and give full play to their strengths.

I think so too, but there are a lot of people who just don't think they know themselves, and they don't reflect on it.

Do you know yourself.

No one can really understand themselves.

The so-called understanding of oneself is just naïve thinking that oneself understands oneself.

Everyone has a different you in their hearts.

All you know is what you think you are in your heart.

But what others know is who they think you are.

So. Can you say that they don't know you?

Similarly. You can say they don't know themselves because they don't know what they know about themselves in your heart than you know about them in your heart.

Individuals have the initiative to study hard to make themselves better and stronger, in order to change the status quo and change everything.

People who can understand you, even if they don't explain; People who don't understand you won't be able to listen to any explanation.

If you really love each other, then you should tolerate his shortcomings and strengths.

Hurt or what's going on? Looking like this, it seems that you have seen through the red dust and are ready to soar in the day! The catastrophe is imminent.

This is from the ancient dragon**.

In the Gulong Martial Arts ** series, this sentence is mentioned in many articles and different characters and stories, and in the "Great Desert" of Chu Liuxiang's legendary series, it is mentioned with the help of dialogue, the person who really understands you is an opponent rather than a friend, because friends don't need to know too much about each other, if you see a person too clearly, you don't want to be friends with him. The enemy, on the other hand, often knows him better than his friend, because the enemy tends to study him thoroughly in order to defeat him.

It is also often mentioned in many ancient dragons, and this truth often appears. Such as the "Seven Kinds**" series, "Peerless Double Pride", "Xiao Li Flying Knife", "The Legend of Lu Xiaofeng".

After everything is done, think about it and summarize it.

I had a relative who always looked down on me, because his children studied better than me, and his family was richer than me, so whenever I went to his house, he would say let me study like his child, don't be foolish all day long when I don't do anything, but in the end, when the college entrance examination was taken, her children did not pass the test, and then they would say to me, you see that my children have not taken the test, then you can pass the test, so you don't have to study hard, you should play and play, and in the end I did not pass the college entrance examination, But I made up for another year, and finally passed the test, and he didn't say anything when he saw me.

If you meet the kind of relatives I said look down on you, then you don't pay attention to him, there is nothing that anyone can look down on him, he can only look down on his own children, but don't wait for relatives to speak, you feel that there is something wrong in you, you should reflect in time, the ancients also said that I am three times a day, so as a modern person, you must often reflect on yourself, in fact, this is like the blood in your body, sometimes you always have to draw out a part of the blood, there will be new blood infusion, Otherwise, you will have nothing new to renew in your body.

In fact, I have had this experience before, in junior high school, I also had a period of time when I felt very confused, I didn't know what to do every day, and even for a period of time, I still skipped class and ran out to play with those who didn't study every day, and the final result of this incident was that I was asked to be a parent, at that time my parents were very angry when they saw me disobedient, but after returning home, they still chose to tell me, but at that time I seemed to be confused by ghosts. They just didn't listen to them, so in the end they started to get down in me, and at the same time my sister started to look down on me because I was so decadent.

So later, I began to slowly reflect on myself, because at that time, all the people around me thought that I was wrong and looked down on me, but fortunately, in the end, I finally realized my mistake and corrected it, so in my opinion, when the people closest to you start to look down on you, then it proves that you really need to reflect on yourself.

Yes. I'm a selfish person, and everything I do is for myself. For myself and then for my family, I want my family to live better, so I will work hard.

Actually, I don't care what other people say about me and I don't care, but when my family says that about me, I feel really uncomfortable.

I can't say that everything I do is for you, and I won't impose my ideas on them, but I really do it for their good, I want to make them happy, but they don't understand me, they blame me and look down on me with others, which makes me really uncomfortable.

Actually, to be honest, I don't care at all what people say is true, for example, they say I'm selfish, yes, yes, I'm selfish, so I don't care if you say I'm selfish, because I'm selfish. I am also a selfless person, but no one cares about your selflessness, and even you will be hurt because of your selflessness. I'm sorry, but I'm a person who wants to protect myself, so I don't want to be selfless anymore.

When the people closest to you look down on you, you should introspect, but this does not mean that you have to change yourself. I believe that everyone has become who they are now to protect themselves and to keep themselves from being harmed. I will reflect on my mistakes, and I will admit my mistakes, but that doesn't mean I'll change my behavior.

At most, I'm going to make my behavior patterns a little more acceptable.

Actually, I don't like to be looked down upon. I also don't like to see other people's cold eyes and white eyes. But I still do what I want to do, and other people's eyes don't make me feel constrained by what I want to do.

I won't hurt my family, I'll only be good to my family. To be honest, if one day they really look down on me, I won't defend it, I will still be nice to them because they are my important family members.

This must be something to think about. After all, the relatives in the family are the ones whose interests are the same as yours. If they do this to you, then you should think about it.

But there are other cases of this. So I'll summarize here, in general, there will be two directions.

One is that what you do is against morality. It's just that you don't have the moral and ethical concepts of normal ordinary people.

For example, murderers. Murderer. This kind of basic will be looked down upon.

Or fraud, fraud. In short, there are those who violate the law and discipline and cannot give a legitimate reason. It's definitely going to be looked down upon.

This type of family will also be looked down upon in the outside society.

There are also things like mental illness, or not growing, gnawing at the elderly, and the like. Although this kind of discomfort violates morality and ethics, it is also contrary to some common sense and will be looked down upon. This type also needs to be noted.

Another is that your status is different. Poor relatives or relatives will also cause you to look down on you.

It is generally from the wealthy relatives who look down on the poor. If it is a relative, it is similar to an aunt or aunt, and it is easy to compare with parents. If you are living in poverty, you will also be looked down upon.

But this is not a normal kinship status. This belongs to living in a differentiated kinship relationship.

This type is actually much more common than the above type.

I remember that my friend's family was the poorer kind, but the relatives didn't come to help and looked down on them. So it's in this category.

So the so-called contempt is generally these two categories. You compare it. If not, then you should pay attention to whether there is anything inappropriate in your usual words and actions. It has caused the dissatisfaction of relatives and thus looks down on you.

Sometimes it should be, sometimes it shouldn't, it depends on what the thing is, and it also depends on what the person is. Take me as an example, my grandmother looked down on me very much, she was a very paranoid person. And maybe she is old, she doesn't know anything new, and she has her ears back, she said you can do it, she should not hear what you explain to her.

She only believes what she believes, thinks what she thinks, and no matter what others say, it is useless. For example, when I was writing, she thought I was playing with the computer and that I was not doing my job every day. It's useless to say whatever I say, you know how to scold when you see me.

Originally, I thought that there might be some communication problems between us, but then two things happened, and I felt that she really looked down on me.

The first is to introduce me to someone, she doesn't know where to cut an ugly, old and bad man who has a bad job to introduce me, but because the conditions are so bad, my mother directly refused, and I didn't have to think about it at all. But she felt that I didn't want to, and later scolded me, saying that if I continue like this, only the disabled will want it, and she is my own grandmother, and saying such words is really heart-wrenching.

Later, my sister graduated from college, and her family used her connections to find her a good job in Fujian. My sister worked for four months, but she didn't want to stay there because she was too far away from home, so she had to go home. But they refused to release them, because the welfare benefits in that place were not bad but very biased, and it was really difficult to recruit.

So, she asked me to go to cover my sister's shortcomings, but I didn't want to go, and I was scolded for several days.

I want to tell her that my current salary is already higher than my sister's job, why should I go? As a result, she didn't listen to persuasion at all, thinking that I was definitely inferior to my sister. I really don't have anything to reflect on her contempt, but this kind of thing is a special case after all, if it is not for a clear conscience and being looked down upon by the closest people, I think it should be reflected.