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Everyone gets old one day, and when this day comes, it may be that we are getting old or not so obvious, but there are always some manifestations that make us feel that we are really getting old.
For example, one day I went to the mall with my wife to buy vegetables, my wife was light and healthy, and she walked fast, but she couldn't keep up with her behind, and when she arrived at the mall, she looked at the crowd of people, and suddenly felt dizzy, and finally squeezed in, but suddenly forgot what ...... to buy
These abnormal behaviors show that you are getting old, but when a person is old, it is a natural phenomenon, do not resist, and accept this arrangement of nature, which is like a matter of course, and live according to the laws of nature.
So what are the four manifestations of a person that show that a person is really getting old?
First, I like to be alone in a daze.
Older people always like to be alone in a quiet daze. They may be reminiscing about a bitter period in the past, or reminiscing about a good time in the past, in short, there is one thing, which is very important in the river of his life, occupies a very important position, don't disturb him, let him be alone in a daze, let him have his own private space and time, so that is the least respect for a person.
Second, stop thinking about things.
The things that I was too entangled in when I was young are now relieved and I don't think about it anymore. What's the matter? For example, fame and fortune in the past, I wanted to get it when I was young, but according to the strength at the time, I couldn't get it, which gave me a feeling of toasting to the moon, but now, he no longer thinks about those impossible things, fame and power are just passing by the clouds, and now there are not so many expectations, and living a good life now is the most important thing.
When you are old, you are old, and the knots that you couldn't think of in the past are now untied, and people live more comfortably.
Third, I don't like to look in the mirror.
When people get old, their hair will turn white, they will become wrinkled, there will be unsightly age spots, and their bodies will be emaciated. No, at this time, people are old and yellow, the more they look in the mirror, the more upset they become, the white skin and beauty in the past have now become ugly, how can they still have the heart to look in the mirror.
Fourth, love your wife more.
When people get old, they will become more and more lonely, their children are not around, and the only one who can accompany them is their wife. This wife, who has been dependent on him for half his life, has experienced the ups and downs of life with him, and now he is getting old and weak, looking at his wife's such a haggard face, even hard-hearted people will shout.
Life is just a few decades, the longest companion to yourself in addition to your parents, is the wife, in the last years of life, there is a wife, you will not be lonely, if the wife is gone, you alone do not have the courage to face life, so, after thinking like this, you love your wife more.
It is a natural law for a person to grow old, and no one can stop it, if a person has the above four manifestations, it means that he is really old. However, don't be afraid when you are old, you have an old way of living when you are old, and you will be much more relaxed in the last years of your life.
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For example, I especially like to chat with the elderly, sometimes I like to be quiet, sometimes I like to dance square dances, and my usual ideas are particularly conservative and conservative, so people are old.
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Whether a person has really grown old or not can be seen from his mental state, when he is young, people are basically tougher and sharper, especially for their relatives. But when he gets old, his personality will change a lot, he is a very strong person, a very taciturn person, and when he gets older, he will become more amiable.
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The first manifestation is the appearance of melasma and age spots on the face, indicating that ** is aging, and people are also aging.
The second is the deterioration of body functions, and slowly suffering from a variety of chronic diseases.
The third memory also deteriorated, and I always forgot what I wanted to say and do.
The fourth moves slowly and begins to be opinionated.
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First, more and more pessimistic about the world, no longer entangled in right and wrong, able to stay unintentional, and more and more open-minded. Second, they like to think about the past, think about how they were in the beginning, and are unwilling to accept new things. Third, the body is not as good as before, and you must always pay attention to your diet, otherwise your body will be uncomfortable.
Fourth, I can't stay up late, get used to going to bed early and getting up early, and soak wolfberries in a thermos cup.
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If a person is really old, then he will feel very tired from doing a little thing, and his mentality will gradually become calmer, and he will no longer worry about others, and even start to recall the past.
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For some, happiness means being alone and enjoying their time and hobbies, while for others it may mean spending time with family and friends, finding social support and communication. To achieve a meaningful old age, consider the following suggestions early in the morning:
1.Find hobbies and activities that interest you, such as traveling, reading, drawing, etc. These activities can keep you excited and curious, while also helping you meet like-minded people.
2.Participate in social activities such as volunteering, clubs, community organizations, etc. These activities allow you to make new friends, broaden your horizons, and provide a support system.
3.Take care of your body and health, maintain a healthy lifestyle and eating habits, and try a new exercise or fitness class.
4.Seek mental health support, such as finding a counselor or support organization to help you deal with any emotional and mental health issues. All in all, a person who is not married can also live a full, meaningful, joyful, and happy old age, and it is important to focus on their hobbies, seek social support, and take care of their physical and mental health.
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When people get old, their hair will turn gray, they will become wrinkled, and there will be unsightly age spots, and their bodies will be emaciated.
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When the child arrived at the mall, looking at the crowd of people, he suddenly felt dizzy, and finally squeezed in, but suddenly forgot what food to buy.
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When a person is old, the most obvious manifestation is that he feels that his physical strength is not as good as before.
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Monkey anxious - describes being in a hurry to do things, like a monkey, unstable;
Old scalper - describes honest and diligent work without complaints;
Cow temper - describes the character as stubborn as a cow;
Eyeing - described as a tiger**, waiting for an opportunity to plunder;
Snake and scorpion heart - describes having a belly of bad water, as vicious as a snake and scorpion;
Wolf's heart and dog's lungs - described as wolf-like**, unrighteous;
Timid as a mouse - described as timid and afraid of things like a mouse;
Ants on a hot pan – describes a troubled and restless look;
These adjectives basically have allusions, and they are available when you check them up.
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There are always people who are worried about getting old and worried about it, which is actually a bit unfounded. Whether a person is really old or not is not in his appearance, but in his heart. Looks are just a person's appearance, what doesn't it say?
Some people are old on the outside, but not on the outside; Some people are not old on the outside, but they are old in heart. The heart is not old, it is not really old, only when the heart is old, it is really old.
Is a person really old, or is there no reason to worry? Just look at these five points.
A person who is really old will eat less and his appetite will not be as good as before.
If a person's appetite has not decreased, he can eat half a catty of rice at each meal, and he can still eat meat and drink wine in a big bowl, then he is not old, and his body is still the same.
People who eat well, don't say that they live a long life, they can live to at least ninety-nine. Because only by eating can the body support it, people are iron, and rice is steel.
When you get old, your waist and knees will be sore, you will be out of breath, and you will not be able to take a step.
If a person reaches the age of sixty or seventy, he is still as light as a swallow, his gait is vigorous, and he walks without panting and his heart is not beating, then he is not really old.
If you are really old, don't say that you are as light as a swallow, and you don't want anyone to take care of you?
Whether a person is really old depends on whether he can still work.
If you are really old, your strength will not be as strong as before, and you will not be able to do things as well. If a person doesn't feel powerless to do things, what if he is seventy or eighty years old? It's still comparable to young people.
Teeth are a sign of a person's age!
Good teeth, good appetite; If you have a good appetite, your body will be good. As long as a person does not reach the point of bald teeth and cold teeth, he is not old.
A seventy or eighty-year-old man eats with a suitable hot and cold meal, do you say he is old? No, he can eat more than a young man.
Vision is also a sign of whether a person is aging or not. When you get old, you will be dazzled, you will be farsighted, you will not be able to see things in the near distance, and you will not be able to see clearly in the distance.
When a person sees something near and is blurry, if it's not myopia, then you have to worry about whether you're really getting old.
A person, as long as he is deaf and clear-sighted, has sound teeth, eats hot and cold appropriately, has a good appetite, and does not work hard, no matter how old he is, he is not old, not to mention that he lives a long life, and it is possible to prolong his life, so there is no need to worry about it at all.
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