Why is it said that only by discovering a better self can we meet the best others?

In the real world, rich people often find rich people, and people with high education and people with high education are together, which is also a manifestation of ability matching.

Flowers don't bloom for the sake of falling, they are meant to bloom.

Life is not to live, it is to be wonderful.

Everyone lives to find a better version of themselves.

Meet the best version of yourself at the most beautiful time. Free and lonely, bright and bright, simple and warm.

Met is a beautiful word.

Meet the flowers, meet the flowers, meet the wind, meet the rain, meet the snow, meet you, meet me, meet all the unknown.

We meet different people and different things every day. We met each other, said goodbye to each other, missed each other, and didn't want to look back.

We have so many choices every day that we gain or lose, and we are a little further away from our original selves.

We seek, we introspect, we self-discipline, we struggle, and we are a little closer to the best version of ourselves.

Never blame anyone in your life. Good people give you happiness, bad people give you experiences, the worst people give you lessons, and the best people give you memories. ”

We will meet thousands of people in our lives, some people are like dragonflies in the water, passing by, and some people, like thick ink, leave indelible traces in life.

As the ancients said, "Whoever you meet is the person you should be in your life, and it is no accident that he will teach you something." ”

Maybe it is to let you know how to love, to know truth, to hate, and to know pain.

All love and hatred are a part of life, is a practice of life, we need to go through step by step, in order to meet the light, meet a better self, in order to support the tenacity and heaviness of life.

The phrase "meet the best of you" means that at some point in our lives, we meet a self in the best condition, which can be the pinnacle of physical and mental health, or it can be the peak of personal growth and development. In this state, we are able to reach our full potential and achieve our goals and dreams.

The self in this state may manifest itself with the following characteristics:

1.Have a clear sense of self-awareness and self-worth, be able to clearly recognize your strengths and weaknesses, and be able to appreciate your own achievements and values.

2.Have a positive state of mind and emotional state, be able to cope with challenges and difficulties, and maintain inner peace and optimism.

3.Have a healthy lifestyle and habits and be able to maintain a good level of physical condition and fitness.

4.Have the motivation and action to pursue personal growth and development, and be able to continue to learn and progress, and constantly improve their abilities and qualities.

Meeting your best self is not an end, but a process. It requires us to constantly work hard and pursue, constantly challenge ourselves, overcome difficulties and challenges, and maintain an open mind and a spirit of continuous learning to realize our potential and dreams. At the same time, we should also cherish ourselves in this state, strive to maintain this state, constantly optimize and improve our quality and ability, and become a better version of ourselves.

Constantly sublimate yourself and improve yourself. Leaning alone in front of the window, a cup of tea, a good book, the sun is slanting in, and the years are quiet. At this time, I met a different version of myself.

In the book, I felt the chic of Zhuge Liang's retreat from the enemy, appreciated Guan Yunchang's righteousness, and saw Daiyu's sentimental ......A book, spanning thousands of years, finally met my eyes, that kind of fate, indescribable. In the book, I make friends, I imagine, I progress, I sublimate! I met the best version of myself.

Everyone is unique, and we meet some people and things in the vast sea of people. We always have to deal with it. Different people have their own unique ways of doing things.

What can be successful in others may not be successful in oneself. But we tend to borrow from other people's methods, so what we think is good is not necessarily the best. We can try different ways of doing things.

Choose the one that suits you best.

Today's reading: Be the best version of yourself, and you will meet the best others.

There is such a passage:

Don't chase a horse, use the time to plant grass, and when the spring flowers bloom, there will be a batch of horses for you to choose from.

Don't deliberately befriend a person, use the time when you don't have friends for a while, to improve your virtue, and when the time comes, you will have many friends with you.

Friends made with favors are only temporary, and friends attracted by virtue are long-lasting.

It is more powerful to enrich yourself than to please others.

If you are a sycamore, the phoenix will come to perch; I am the sea, and all rivers come to gather.

If you want to meet good people, you also have to make yourself good.

An entrepreneur once shared his experience:

When he was in college, he was interested in e-commerce and met several big names in participating in events.

On the occasion of graduation, he decided to start a business, and confidently contacted several of them, but there were few responses to him.

He had to study and practice by himself, keep trying, keep failing, step by step, and finally made some achievements.

After that, there was an endless stream of people who approached him, including the big names of the year.

Excellent people, all friends from all over the world; If you don't have the strength, it's hard to move an inch in the court.

Excellent people will meet more excellent people; The better the character, the better the character, the better the character.

As the Book of Changes says: Respond with the same voice, seek from each other.

Things of the same kind will always attract each other.

When you become the best version of yourself, you will meet the best others.

How your life is is has a lot to do with the people around you.

Whoever you are, you will meet; Be the best version of yourself in order to meet the best others.

Life is not long, you must make yourself excellent and walk with excellent people!

Emory environmental instrument, accurate to the urgency of peers!

Only by being an excellent self can you meet better others.

There is a law of attraction in psychology: "The people and things that a person encounters are actually attracted by their own characteristics." ”

Therefore, if you want to stay away from people who consume yourself and get close to people who have positive energy, the most important thing is to cultivate yourself and make yourself a better person.

There is a cloud in the Analects: "A gentleman is a gentleman, and he is born from the beginning." ”

To be a man, we must fundamentally improve ourselves, do not deliberately please and curry favor with others, only by constantly optimizing ourselves can we attract people of the same frequency and essentially change our lives.

The same is true for being a person, you don't need to deliberately squeeze into a circle, constantly improve yourself, enrich yourself, and when you become strong, you will attract the people you want to attract.

Know that enriching yourself is far more powerful than pleasing others.

As the saying goes: "Plant a plane tree, attract a phoenix." ”

Who you are determines who you meet, and who you meet determines what kind of person you will become.

Be the best version of yourself in order to meet better others.

If you are dull, your surroundings will only be dark, but when you are radiant, your surroundings will shine!

If a person says that he has met a better self, or if he has said something like this, I believe that he may have experienced something like this, and wants to show himself a better self in front of others, such as making himself more mature and stable.

When you meet a better self, you must forget that you may have been naïve or simple before, and you want to learn more from one thing, and you want to make yourself better and better, expressing this vision for the future, and you will be better and luckier in the future, which is also a confident idea.