What do you think of those who can t see other roommates to study?

Those who don't want to study themselves, and don't want their roommates to study, I think they are very selfish, no one has the right and obligation not to study for you, it's your business that you don't study yourself, why don't you let others learn? Anyway, I don't like this kind of person in particular.

These people may be a little jealous, because they don't want to learn, so they don't want others to learn, and they will definitely think about how good it is to fall together, why should they take the lead in learning, and they are probably all thinking like this.

Some people are very lazy, but it doesn't mean that they don't want to study, they may see that their roommate is not decadent, but chooses to study, maybe he is a little panicked in his heart, and he will definitely want him to study again, and he will definitely do better than me, most of these people may feel unbalanced.

I just can't see others studying, because as soon as others go to learn, I am very anxious, because I don't know anything, and I should study, but I am lazy, and I don't want to learn, and I feel uncomfortable when I see others studying, which is in a kind of torment.

Everyone has their own way of life, some people choose to study, and some people want to be decadent, and even want others to be as decadent as themselves, so that you don't study, I don't study, our grades are comparable, and those who can't see others learning probably think so.

I don't like people saying in front of me to study, because I have a lot of fun and I don't want to study, but as soon as he says it, it reminds me that I still have a lot of homework to write, a lot of things not done, I feel very troublesome, and I can't play with peace of mind.

I feel a little irritable in my heart, I was originally staying in the dormitory, looking at my mobile phone, talking, listening to songs or something, and suddenly there is someone who wants to study, then I must be a little panicked in my heart, and I don't want to study but there are people studying will definitely cause some pressure on my heart.

It's not that I'm ruthless, but this kind of person who you tell him with kind words and he won't listen, because this is his character, no matter how much you advise him, it will be useless, and you can only treat him in special circumstances. Since you are his roommates, I personally feel that you can join forces and give him a taste of abandonment and isolation. For example, if you have a good group activity in the dormitory, don't call him, and then be ruthless, just treat him as air, just treat him as if he doesn't exist, and don't care about him, the more you pay attention to him, the more energetic he becomes, after a long time, if he is a person who understands current affairs, he will introspect and reflect, why he is so unpopular, a person who doesn't like him is human nature, if the collective hates to snub him, that is his personal reason, and then he will naturally come with you to admit his mistakes and ask for forgiveness.

If he doesn't know the times, then you will continue to be isolated, and there will be nothing to lose anyway.

What I said above may be a bit extreme, and another way is that he doesn't see others well, then you prefer to show him, when the time comes, your grades are better than him, the popularity is stronger than him, and the quality is higher than him, (of course, these must be achieved through your own efforts, verbally speaking, it is not possible), anyway, almost everything is better than him, he feels that he has no advantage to show off in front of your eyes, so he will rest quiet, and dare not make a mistake.

In short, what kind of person to deal with what kind of method to use, that is, specific analysis of specific problems, if the other party is willing to accept softness, then the ice releases the previous suspicions, shake hands and make peace, if the other party has a tough attitude, people are annoying, then you can also "fight poison with poison", and the attitude is harder than him.

Every student party has roommates. But people have different personalities. There will always be a variety of classmates you like and dislike, and it is especially important to manage the relationship with your roommates.

Threesome, there must be my teacher, know how to get along with others to be able to learn the strengths of others. in order to be able to achieve healthy physical and mental development. Good dormitory relationships are an important factor in the quality of life at our university.

We need to learn to accept others and accept others. Know how to appreciate the good in others. Discover everyone's strengths, and then learn from each other's strengths to make up for your own shortcomings, and make yourself more charismatic.

People's hearts have become more and more distant, and I always feel that people's minds are becoming more utilitarian and more impure. I like to be self-centered in everything, others need help, and I don't want to help, and I like to look at your jokes more like to look at your jokes. Let people feel more that the society is fearful.

In fact, I think that even though I am still a college student, sometimes I feel that not everyone wants you to be good, not all people want you to succeed, not everyone wants you to be good, and some people are waiting to laugh at you.

Some people say that college students are not so simple, as if everyone has a little more heart and mind, and a little more careful thinking of their own. Actually, I feel that most of my college roommates are quite good, but there are also special ones, they are jealous of their abilities, they always want to be the best one, the most prominent one, when others surpass him in some aspects or when they are more outstanding than him in some aspects, he is always depressed, very unhappy, and always feels very unhappy, and they always think of ways to be the best one.

In this case, I think that if you also have such a roommate, you should not brag too much in front of your roommate, you can't always say how good and excellent you are, you should be low-key and modest, often ask your roommate what you don't understand, you can't only show your strengths and strengths too much, and you should also expose some of your shortcomings, so that your roommate feels that you are not a perfect person.

On the other hand, you should drive your roommates more and improve each other, in fact, the reason why he is jealous is because he also wants to be an excellent person, you should tolerate him and understand him, so that roommates can also find the value and meaning of their own existence, and can also reap their own success. Slowly, maybe the roommate will be changed and the psychology will be corrected.

This kind of person is not of the same grade as you, and he is not worthy of being friends, keep his distance. To put it mildly, you've run into a psychopath or a villain. There is nothing to say at all.

For such a person, I really don't know how to say it, it's like a neurosis, I can't see others all day long, then she herself will live a little better, she can't do it at all, I don't know what the use of using snacks all day long, people who make good friends with money, I really can treat you sincerely or what's the matter, what's so great about money, can it solve all problems?

In addition, you can also make yourself happy every day, he doesn't see you well, then I will live very happily let him see, envy and jealousy, I just need to be myself, why bother him so much, people in this life is not to try to make themselves happy, no regrets? Just go your own way and let him go with envy and jealousy, leave him alone!

Although I don't care about him, I try to get along with him as much as possible, I can talk to him and tell him, I hate you very much, don't lose if you can still be friends, and if you can't be friends, don't break up with misunderstandings. At the same time, you can also give him some corresponding suggestions, let him listen to more pleasant songs, go for a walk in nature, and see the infinite scenery of nature, so that he can be happy and let go of those things.

Nowadays, there are many college students who are reluctant to study, and my roommate is not very fond of studying, in fact, I think that a roommate who does not like to study may affect you, but if you really love to study, he will not affect you. There is no need to stay away from them, because they are your roommates after all, he will be there for you at all times, and if you stay too far away from them, it is easy to be isolated.

To be honest, my grades are very good, my final grades are almost all full marks, especially in professional courses, they are all 100, I am very satisfied with my grades, but my roommates don't like to study very much, they don't like to study, to be honest, it doesn't affect me, you don't need to stay away from them, for example, don't they don't listen to lectures when they listen to classes? I want to play with you, you say you play, I don't play, I want to study, just take the initiative to reject them, there is no need to stay away from them, but there are some things that they affect your learning can be refused. I guess they won't say anything at that time, because if you are alone, they should be able to play.

And when you study in the dormitory, you can also tell them to be quieter, because you are studying, although my roommates don't like to study, but they won't disturb my study, so I don't think there is any need to stay too far away from them, and then he is your roommate, if you are too far away from him, the rest of the people will isolate you, don't you think about it, in the future, when you eat and go shopping, who will accompany you? This is one of the most fatal problems, and it is important to maintain a good relationship with your roommates, not too close, not too far away.

There is no need to be too distant, when you want to study, you can go to the library, a place with a relatively quiet learning atmosphere, and if you don't want to study, you can chat with your roommates or something, get a little closer, keep your distance and not seem estranged.

When I was in graduate school, the other three roommates were not going to graduate school, and every night when I wanted to go to bed, they kept chatting until one o'clock in the morning, and they were very devastated.

Later, I went to the library during the day, and at 10 p.m. I went back to my dorm when the library closed, bought a good pair of sound-isolating headphones, and slept with earplugs.

You can go to the study hall or the library by yourself.

When getting along with people you hate, be sure to keep your distance. If you spend too much time together, you have more opportunities to cause unpleasantness, and you don't want to be with people you hate. If you spend too little time together, it will only make your estranged relationship even stranger, and over time, it may turn into enemies.

If you find yourself in a stalemate, then what is likely to happen next is that you have become enemies. At this time, you can put down the shelf and take the initiative to praise him a few words, if you can't say it, a few small jokes can also ease the deadlock.

What the other party has said and done, as long as it does not slander your personality and dignity, don't take it too seriously. Don't let yourself be a careful-eyed person, a careful-eyed person will meet n people he hates no matter how much he arrives.

Disliking someone is a very subjective emotion in itself, so don't always look at what they have said and done with the word "I think". Otherwise, the person you hate will only become more and more annoying to you, and your conflicts will become more and more difficult to resolve.

Everyone has advantages, calm down, temporarily disconnect yourself from the role of hating them, and then list the advantages of them from an objective point of view, then you may find that they are not actually that annoying.

After all, it's a dormitory, so don't look down and don't look up, so don't be too stiff.