Lack of emotional support and spiritual support, can t be uplifted, can anyone help me!

Do you feel that life is boring, there are no happy things, and you have no motivation to solve difficulties when you encounter them? In fact, everyone has this kind of time, hoping that they can have someone they care about, and they can support themselves mentally. But emotional things are hard to come by, so my advice is to cultivate more hobbies, enrich your life, go out with friends more activities, maybe fate will come inadvertently.

Hehe, what's wrong buddy. You can't go on like this, or you'll really stop.

Find a girl as a target, take her down, and you have a goal.

The power of love is great, try it, hehe, I wish you early success.

Are you an introvert? Don't feel inferior, don't be sad, you can say this, it means that you have strong self-esteem, everyone will feel this way, when you feel empty, boring, and life is not tasteful, it is best to find a way to enrich yourself, for example, go to cram school, take time to learn technology, plan for your future, you can learn which line of work you like, as long as you have technology and find a way to make money, everything will be there. Nowadays, girls like capable men who can earn money.

One is to find someone you love, and the other is to use your attention and your achievements in your work to get her appreciation and love!

It's normal, my boyfriend is also my spiritual support. It's a good sign that you love him and prove that he is capable of taking care of things for you, so you will make him a pillar.

This must not be, this kind of dependence is very bad for you, he will feel that it is good to be needed for a short time, after a long time, you take him too seriously, rely too strongly, when he can't take care of you, you will be sad and disappointed, if you quarrel with him again, it will affect your feelings, remember, I am really helping you, I used to regard a person as a spiritual pillar, as the only.

1. But when I don't always rely on him independently, he gets tired of me, and the more you take him, the less he takes you seriously, and after a long time, you will lose yourself, lose your freshness, have no personality and color, you can't keep him, you have to cheer yourself, make yourself strong, and rely on yourself.

Marry him. Live your life well.

That's good, look at what to do if you leave him.

The spiritual pillar of human existence can often be divided by differences in aspirations, interests, knowledge or character, but if it can play the role of a spiritual pillar for specific individuals, then this spiritual pillar has the value of existence.

Everyone's spiritual pillars are different There are careers, love, relatives, and friends.

Everyone experiences emotional lows. Don't be afraid, adjust your mentality, be optimistic, you can divert your attention, don't focus on this matter, maybe you can try a new relationship, you can also go out on a trip, relax, and fill yourself up a little.

Falling out of love is a small episode in life. You may have lost him, but you still have your family! After all, they will be there for you no matter what. If you have something, you can talk to them.

Time is a great concoction. It is recommended that you go for a walk outside with your family. Scatter your mind.

Or listen to some ** to see if the symptoms will get better. In fact, you still have self-confidence. Just lost myself for a while.

Relax. It would be nice if things were going to open up a bit.

Adjust your mindset and be optimistic, you can divert your attention from this matter, and maybe try a new relationship.

Long-term love is in your heart, just like many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay and pursue persistently.

Brave sacrifice, true love happens in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it's in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage.

As long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Falling out of love is a small episode in life. You may have lost him, but you still have your family! After all, they will be there for you no matter what.

If you have something, you can talk to them. Time is a great concoction. It is recommended that you go for a walk outside with your family.

Scatter your mind. Or listen to some ** to see if the symptoms will get better. In fact, you still have self-confidence.

Just lost myself for a while. Relax. It would be nice if things were going to open up a bit.

You ,,, really look down on you, how can you call it a spiritual pillar, is it true that only love is the spiritual pillar in life, you are not angry like this, don't say that your ex-boyfriend doesn't want you! It's just that you have a new boyfriend, your dependence is too strong, you don't have self-control, no one wants it in the future, people have to be self-reliant, you can't live in the past, live in love, think about your parents who raised you with hard work, not let you spoil yourself like this!

I'm also like this, more than half a year, every day, like the walking dead, people live a very nourishing life, and soon handed over a little fresh meat, obviously it's his fault, but I just can't hate it, because I know that she once loved me deeply, no matter what, I hope she can get everything she wants, happy and happy, and I, it doesn't matter.

Life has to go through a lot of lovelorn + painful just one! Learn to accept and choose! There's something for everyone!

If you fall out of love, you will fall out of love Since you are not together, don't think about anything more It's not that you don't have a spiritual support, but you don't want to wake up Don't be like this, live for yourself.

The world is so big, don't you go and see it? It's best to have a trip that says go. It doesn't have to be very far.

Just put your mind to it, and you'll find something. For example, if you stand on the 3rd floor and look out from the top of the building, think about the difference between what you see. Height determines the field of view.

Getting out and about is sure to be rewarding.

Alas, it's not something that someone else can solve by answering some questions, I've read some books on Buddhism, which talks about becoming a Buddha often in a thought, can't be forced, love life, love yourself, healthy behavior, good living habits, maybe one day you will find that you are very spiritual, of course, everything is difficult at the beginning, you might as well raise flowers, do jogging exercises in the morning, clean up the house, believe that life is beautiful, it is impossible to go on like this.

This can only show that you are a very emotional person, half a year has passed, this half a year may be your most painful time, I have also had your experience, so understand you, time can make your memory fade slowly, you arrange your time more nervously, in addition to sleeping is busy, or do something you like, don't stay alone in the room, go out to contact friends, and slowly get better....Bless you.

If you fall out of love, life will go on, the earth will not stop turning and lose because of whom, just because this man is not good enough for you, and there are better ones.

Let's get out and relax! I used to work hard, but I learned to travel and relax after falling out of love.

You have to think clearly: are you at fault in this relationship? If you're right, it can only mean that the other party has no vision, and it's painful for you to lose your spiritual support, but you can try to develop another relationship, don't drill the horns, and look at the point.

Memories are painful, it takes courage to let go, you can hide it in the truest place in your heart, in the dead of night, you miss it alone, but in life you must learn to cherish the present, take back the love for ta, love yourself well, and use the care for ta to treat the friends around you. Have fun.

In addition to love, there are many beautiful things waiting for us, try to let go, get used to being alone, take the past as a good memory, and find a new person to cherish.

I'm pretty much the same, I talked for three years and finally broke up, and I thought it would be easy to live together for three years, but after I broke up, I learned that many things were used to it. Ay. She is expecting. Married.

Since I don't know what to do, the best way is not to find a partner, if there is a broken love, I don't know what to do, I can only find a partner, so I won't grow up in this cycle....Instead of doing this, it is better to adjust your mentality to adapt to it...

If there is something you wanted to do before falling in love and didn't do it, then the time has come to chase back your dreams.

It's been half a year, and you still haven't been able to get out of your last relationship, which shows that you really put a lot of effort into it. A silly girl like you is often easy to get hurt, but the easier it is to get true love, and when you meet someone who truly loves you, marry yourself.

Go to a place you want to go but haven't had a chance to go yet, relax, and come back and focus on your work.

No one can live without anyone, rely on yourself, and find someone who loves you.

Dogs can't be too fed, people can't be too nice, and if that person helps you every day, and one day he doesn't help you, you will feel that he is not as good as those who haven't helped you.

Rest assured, falling out of love is so painful. No one can help you get rid of it quickly, but bless you to start a new life soon.

I don't have a lover, because it's embarrassing, shy, so I don't do it, the same you are there after losing, I'm watching her flow away. It's just as sad. Lonely, empty, cold, I think it's a big truth like a celebrity said, so hard that bees can never feel bitter.

It's in line with the strength that we should have as a man. You must know that even if people are by your side, you still have to struggle. If you have the capital, who will do the same with you.

Then others are the pillars, don't let others do you like this, you have to take the lead. Dude, I'm not talking about what's wrong with love, the reality will always be **no, caused by it.

Don't treat others as pillars, you have to rely on yourself, I hope you get out as soon as possible.

Every day is new, and you can change it! But you can vent for a while, let go of it, and then start over to be yourself, and at that time, you will feel no pressure in your heart.

Using your girlfriend as a spiritual pillar will make you egoless, and a man without ego is undoubtedly unattractive! There is no grass at the end of the world, improve yourself, and at a new height, you will find that the previous unbearable is just a small dirt bag.

No one will stop turning when the earth is gone. Before, you regarded one too much as psychological sustenance. Once lost, the sense of loss is staggering. Read more books to develop a strong heart and be brave in the face of choices and challenges. Nothing can break you if your heart is strong.

Cultivate some new hobbies, go out with friends more, believe in yourself, and everything will pass

Forget about her, enter a new life, remember to live better than before, change yourself.

Although we have broken up, if you are very sad, you can try to make amends. Don't leave yourself with regrets.

You can't lose yourself, make a plan for yourself, and you can't let yourself go.

It's just a woman, buddy, as a man, why do you take those things so seriously? Where is there no grass at the end of the world?

Eat something delicious, get a job and have something to do, don't think too much.

Focus on something else, and after a while, you'll be fine.

Be strong, you are not a person who has no self-confidence, but you lack courage.

I am the same as you. Split up my girlfriend. That time it was divided when I was drunk, and after the division.

I quit my job and changed my place of residence. In the blink of an eye, it is half a year. I regret breaking up with her.

Now a girl like her can't find a second one. (She always thinks about me, I remember that on Valentine's Day, everyone else bought roses for his girlfriend, and I bought them too.) She dragged me to the flower shop to exchange roses for lilies.

Every time I go to the mall, I always try on beautiful clothes when I see them, and I want to buy them for her. She would confiscate my money. Tell me not to buy it.

Every time I paid my salary, she urged me to save my money. Said to wait for marriage. Every time I got into trouble at work, she always encouraged me to work hard, and when your salary was 5,000 a month, we would get married.

Stay with her. I have the motivation to work, the direction to struggle, and when it comes to using money, I can always save money. Since I broke up with her, I feel ......Nothing went well.

The girls I've come into contact with since then, and the ones my friends have introduced me to are not as good as hers. Now the other girls are very realistic and snobbish)

Then you are recovering your spiritual pillars

I'll give you a little bit of analysis of your illness.

I'm just as sick as you, I couldn't figure out why, but now that I think about it, it's really a mere nuisance.

In fact, as long as you are open-minded and give trust to others, you will always meet such and such people in reality, and slowly you will meet friends who treat you sincerely!