What should I do if my daughter is pregnant before marriage and doesn t want to kill the child?

First, I am unmarried and pregnant, and I have not applied for a marriage certificate.

Wedding banquet, the reason is that my parents are afraid that my life will not be guaranteed in the future, he said that he will give me a household registration book within three years after giving birth, second, not to hold a banquet is my personal meaning, because I am afraid that I will be too tired to miscarry, which is not good for my health, second, as a parent, I think I must first take into account my daughter's feelings, and secondly, you will say your suggestion, since she doesn't want to fight, then you should communicate with her to see how to deal with it, ** is not good for the girl's body, some of the physique is not good, and may be infertile.

My parents knew that I was pregnant and they were very happy, they didn't ask me to go **, they asked my mother-in-law's family what they meant, and my mother-in-law also wanted it, and my in-laws also said that they would give me a make-up wedding, and I would not be less, the most important thing is to see what kind of person your daughter meets, whether he is responsible, whether he has a sense of responsibility.

Thank you, the above is a personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

If you don't want to kill the child before marriage, I think you can have your own ideas to give birth to him, as long as I can pay for the child's living expenses.

I don't think it's okay to fight, the child's mother has the final say, as long as she has the consciousness of living a hard life in the future, she can be born. If this man loves her, has basic financial ability, and has a good character, then he can get married, if this man not only has no money, but also is lazy and lazy, it is better not to get married. You can let the man pay child support every month, and if he doesn't give it, he will sue.

We should try to persuade her to kill the child, because she still has a good time of her own, and she can't ruin her lifelong happiness because of this mistake, and it is not fair to that child.

It depends on how old your daughter is this year and whether she has any plans to get married. If you are already planning to get married, then it is time to speed up, get the certificate quickly, and get the birth permit according to the procedure. If you don't have a regular income and don't plan to get married, you have to get rid of it anyway, and even if you tie it up, you have to go to the hospital.

If you already have a regular income, but you are not in a hurry to get married, your family conditions allow, and it doesn't hurt to be born, and it is good to have an heir who completely belongs to your own family, but if the conditions do not allow it, or the family income is relatively low, it is best to discuss again.

The daughter is pregnant before marriage, but she doesn't want to kill the child yet, so she should communicate with him psychologically and persuade her to kill the child or marry the man as soon as possible.

Of course, the first betrothal should be negotiated with the boy's family, and it is the responsibility of both men and women to get pregnant before the girl is married. Besides, this kind of thing is very common now, and there is no need to panic.

Then keep it, whether you are married or unmarried, don't hurt if you don't kill a life, you can find a man or not, the child is different, you can manage the man's child support after birth, although the life of a child is hard, but it is also happy, he is a happiness that other men can't give.

It's time to get married, it's not good to get pregnant before marriage, you can go to the boy and ask him to consider getting married and protect his daughter.

If my daughter is pregnant unmarried in the future, I will first ask my daughter for advice, after all, it is very dangerous and hurtful. Then ask the opinion of the daughter's boyfriend's family, if both parties want the child, then it is good to hold a wedding. If my daughter meets an irresponsible scumbag, my daughter doesn't want to give up the child, I will also respect my daughter's decision, the failed marriage tells me, in fact, it's good to be an unmarried mother, a man is unreliable, and he is still a free nanny with no salary in his in-law's house, and if he is busy with his career, he will also have a family drag, and there will be a few more parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters who are not related to each other, and they will be calculating everywhere. . .

From the fact that you don't want to kill the child, it can be seen that the man probably doesn't want to get married, and as a parent, you are a failure. The attitude is not tough enough. Even if she gets married, the woman is humble to the dust, not to mention that she feels sorry for her daughter and children, and if she doesn't fight, she won't fight. There are times when you regret it.

Depending on the man's attitude, if the man is good to your girl and is willing to get married, and is willing to pay a bride price, he will fulfill them. If the man wants to hold his grandson without pulling out a dime, I think it's better not to stay and make plans as soon as possible.

I was also unmarried and pregnant, and I gave up for more than 2 months, because I didn't want my child to come out and suffer with me, and I didn't want my child to grow up without my parents, so I owed my child too much. How reluctant a living life is, blame yourself for not being able to give your child a good living environment. I swore that I would take good care of myself in this life, work hard to earn money, and give my future children a complete and healthy family.

I think you should actually get rid of it, because you're not married at all, and after all, you can't be sure if that person can really give you a good future.

The arrival of every new life is fate, and now in society, it is normal to get pregnant unmarried, it depends on how you think, get married, have a child, the man ignores you, what is the difference with the unmarried pregnancy, the child is born, the man pays child support, and in the future, you can still find happiness. Now that a second-married woman has children, doesn't she also agree to find a good family to marry?

A person who makes a woman pregnant before marriage will not have a good character.

I am also very embarrassed, I encounter the same problem, the man is irresponsible, the family does not come forward to let the man who has the child go, the woman does not want to hurt the child, and she is afraid that she will not be able to give him good conditions in the future, and she is at a loss for what to do.

Look at the attitude of the man's family, there is a certain amount of gift money, and he is willing to be born responsible. Those who don't want to be held accountable can only **. There is no way.

Really, it is recommended to get pregnant before marriage, just beat it! Because this kind of marriage will not be happy!

Tie the knot! Questions! It won't be what most people would like to marry you with their children!

Legal analysis]: There is nothing wrong with the law for the woman to act without the consent of the man. However, childbearing is a matter for two people, and the decision of one spouse may damage the other's reproductive rights.

For disputes over reproductive rights, Shenyin should still take the communication between husband and wife as the main thing and should not resolve it by legal means, because the law cannot force one party to realize his reproductive rights. If the child is pregnant out of wedlock, the child is born out of wedlock, and the child born out of wedlock has the same legal status as the child born out of wedlock. Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and no one may harm or discriminate against them.

Parents also have the right and duty to support their children born out of wedlock. First of all, it is possible to negotiate that the child will be raised by either the man or the woman, and the other parent will pay child support. Second, if the negotiation fails, you can file a lawsuit with the court, and the court will make a judgment.

Legal basis]: Article 71 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as legitimate children, and no organization or individual may harm or discriminate against them. A biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the maintenance of the minor child or an adult child who is unable to live independently.

Single mothers will face the following four dilemmas.

First, having a child out of wedlock can bring a lot of difficulties to raising a child.

If you are married and have children normally, you can raise children with your lover on the premise of having a stable life, which will make the burden of raising children much lighter. The state of giving birth out of wedlock will affect your own life, and you will also be out of sync with your other half in raising children, which is very detrimental to raising children and will bring a lot of difficulties to yourself.

Second, giving birth out of wedlock will affect the education of the child, which is very detrimental to the child's growth.

A child's growth and developmental progress requires a good education, which needs to be done by both parents. For married couples, this is a natural thing, it is easy to do, and the children will get a good education, but the situation of out-of-wedlock births is different. Since both parents are not married, there will be problems in the education of the child, and the child may also be affected in matters such as schooling, which is not conducive to the growth of the child, so the birth out of wedlock will bring more difficulties to the parents of the child and the child itself.

Third, there are emotional disorders, in the process of growing up, there are problems such as mental anxiety, low self-esteem, weak willpower, etc., and often deal with problems in a moody way, and it is easier to appear in adolescence such as truancy and early love. The child's low ability to resist frustration is directly related to the lack of parental education, and the father's bravery, strength, enterprising and other masculinities can promote the child's personality development to be more sound. Fourth, social interaction is restricted, mothers give their children most of the emotional needs, and the father is to cultivate the child's way of thinking and the ability to deal with others, the child who is short of father's love, social talent and life ability are simply limited, the father is the hub of family and social contact, is the child's guide to the outside world, they can teach the child how to get along with others, how to expand the social circle, how to properly deal with problems, etc.

Although I have never thought about this issue, as a woman, if my fiancé dies suddenly after I am pregnant, then in this case, I will still choose to keep Huaihu and his child.

First of all, a direct reason for the destruction of the chain is that there is a deep relationship between the two of us, in the case of such an unfortunate situation, I will still maintain a deep love for my fiancé, it can be said that this child is not only the continuation of his life, but also the crystallization of the love between the two of us, out of my longing for him, I will choose to keep this child, even if I will suffer a lot of difficulties and setbacks in the process of raising and educating this child alone, I will still make such a decision.

On the other hand, the sudden death of my fiancé brought me a lot of pain, which is difficult for others to understand, and leaving his child and accompanying the child's growth process can free me from this pain as much as possible, and can allow me to spend more energy on the child, and will not let me be too sad for his departure, and the birth of this child will also bring me new hope, and I can experience an indescribable joy and happiness in the process of the child's growth. Even if my parents and other family members around me did not approve of my approach, I would not be influenced by them and still chose to keep this child, if I chose to give up this child, it would leave me with a sense of guilt and regret for the rest of my life.

Don't knock it out, hurry up and go through the formalities, get on the ship first and make up the ticket later, it's normal.