My husband quarrels with me all day long, whether to break up

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is clear that:1"He didn't let him get his period. - take birth control pills for him" - he doesn't care about your body, he doesn't care about the life and death of others--- he only cares about his own happiness; one beast;

    2."His ex-girlfriend, he smiled so much that day" - happy;

    3."My friends say he doesn't love me" - everyone in the world knows it, but you don't know;

    4.often lose his temper with you--- look at you unpleasantly;

    5.He doesn't care about your feelings, doesn't care about you--- is indifferent;

    6.Now he doesn't care about you at all--- people are still there, and it's no longer in love;

    7.There is no end in sight to the days when you have been wronged and tortured.

    Recently, I have been arguing every day--- which is a husband and wife, and it is clear that they are enemies--- how much love is there? How much is the affection?;

    8.I understand and sympathize with your situation, but I am helpless.

    Do you want to break up"--take your time, if you can live one day at a time, I estimate that your endurance is very strong, if you become an underground party, even if you are caught by the enemy, you can endure all kinds of torture and will not defect in the end.

    9.In the years when no one cares, may you cherish it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Under mutual understanding, when two people are angry, it's best not to continue the topic, adjust your mood, or make yourself happy first, it's not easy for two people to be together, and you can share a bed pillow for a hundred years. He only loses his temper with you because he only lets you go, and you can communicate with him when both of you are in a good mood, so that he understands your mind instead of the eldest lady tempering him, and the boy is most afraid of this...

    Finally, may you grow old and be happy forever.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Landlord, at least add some gold coins or something as a reward. To get back to the point, under normal circumstances, it is the authorities who are obsessed with bystanders, and people on the outside do not understand the reasons for the things inside and draw conclusions just by relying on their own side of the analysis, first of all, it is certain that such a view is not advisable. There are many kinds of quarrels between husband and wife, and sometimes quarrels are also a kind of emotional exchange.

    Compared with those who don't go home to eat all day long, don't see each other a few times a week, and only have sex once a month, but focus on women outside, you look at your husband again, and you will understand by comparison. I remember a classic saying: Men who go home don't usually go bad in any way.

    Because he puts his family first. Also, don't compare yourself with his parents, who loves more. It's a stupid woman's job.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's get a divorce. Are you willing to live a life like this? Get a divorce before it's too late.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Marriage is not child's play, whether to break up or not In fact, you know best in your own heart that divorced women are still coldly regarded in society. I'm also a woman. But I'm not saying that women have to make compromises, let's focus on communication.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Quarrels between husband and wife are common, so why bother to lose both! Be tolerant of each other ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's not your problem, you can be separated from him for a while and let him reflect.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is also the case for me, I am very entangled in my heart, and I quarrel every day. I don't know what to do anymore...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.First of all, quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable.

    In this world, no matter how deep the love is, how real the love is, quarrels are inevitable; Two people are together because of different growth environments, different life experiences, different knowledge and education; Living together naturally, ideas will be different; When two people have different ideas, there will be quarrels; Because quarrels are a very normal thing, so if you want to make quarrels less and make feelings deeper, you must understand and manage love; Breaking up because of a quarrel is a way to escape and is not the key to really solving the problem; So often quarrelling, not mentioning a breakup, but how to solve the problem of not quarrelling.

    If you want to get out of your current single status and catch up with the goddess in your heart and even know nothing about love, then I recommend you to use this goddess crusher this small program on WeChat. In the past, I didn't know how to chase girls or how to fall in love. It wasn't until I used this applet that I completely changed myself.

    2.When couples have conflicts, they must know how to be tolerant and tolerant.

    When two people love each other, contradictions are inevitable; Then to resolve the contradiction, there must be a way; No matter what happens, you must speak well, and don't think about competing with your lover because of one thing; What you can do if you win; What can you do if the other party loses; The best way is to know how to be tolerant, to understand, to be tolerant; Since your lover is a person who likes to argue, let him argue alone. Don't argue with him, let alone argue with him; You don't say anything, you see who he's still arguing with; So tolerance and tolerance will make your feelings deeper and deeper; Confrontation will only make the relationship between the two of you weaker and weaker.

    3.There will be different opinions on who to be with.

    Finally, is it time to break up with frequent quarrels? Understand first that no matter who it is, as long as you are with a person, you will have different opinions and ideas; Whoever it is, it's inevitable. There will be contradictions between two people; So if you have a fight with your lover and you want to break up; So one day, you find another lover, but the other party will quarrel with you, do you want to choose to break up again; Whoever it is, you must know that youth is limited and you can't afford it; If you've been wasting your youth, you can't live happily; If you've been on the path of love, your last day will be more and more painful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There should be no breakup. In real life, there will be various conflicts between couples, and quarrels are not uncommon. So it's about adapting and changing.

    Generally speaking, the reason for quarrels is disagreement, but in fact, quarrels are later, often have nothing to do with opinions, quarrels between couples are a means of control, and it is also an outlet for emotional venting.

    Both parties want the other party to act according to their own ideas, and after the other party refuses, the situation is out of their control, panics, produces negative emotions, says some unscrupulous words, and covers up their inner powerlessness with a violent state, which is the internal logic of quarrels.

    Actually, quarrels are not terrible:

    1. Quarrels can find emotional problems.

    It's a good thing that small problems are detected in a timely manner, and relationships can only be improved by identifying and solving problems. Not arguing does not make the problems between the two people be discovered as soon as possible, small problems will accumulate and gather into big problems over time, and big problems have already appeared, which will lead to disastrous consequences, such as separation, divorce, etc.

    2.Quarrels can release the pressure of life.

    The pressure of real life is gradually increasing, making the cost of living higher and higher for modern people, and the pressure is very easy to cause mental illness, so it is essential to decompress properly. Proper quarrels can relieve tension and release enough pressure, so that the body and mind can be relaxed, although quarrels will make people blood pressure rise, and emotions will even get out of control, but it is better than sulking in the heart, sulking, is a healthy taboo.

    3. Striving not to quarrel is fundamental.

    Since quarrels hurt hearts, livers, and feelings, it is very important to strive not to quarrel. Understand and respect each other's living habits, and try to meet each other's requirements if they are not particularly excessive. When the other party encounters difficulties in life, they must do their best to help solve them, and they cannot ignore them, because this will disappoint the other party.

    If all aspects are thoughtful, the other party will naturally be grateful, and infinite love will naturally arise, so how can there be any desire to quarrel at this time?

    4. Breaking up is not a good solution to quarrels.

    The reason is obvious, since there will be quarrels in every family, as long as you remarry, you will still encounter this spare limb problem, which is even more serious than the current one, will you still choose to break up? It is wise to face up to the questions of the imitation date, not to avoid the problems, not to resist, and to work hard to solve the problems. If it's something you did wrong, then correct it, if the other party did something wrong, then why don't you let the other party do it?

    Wouldn't it be better to wait until the relationship between the two parties is reconciled and then bring it up tactfully? In this atmosphere, the other party will also be happy to accept it.

    Therefore, in the event of an argument, it is not appropriate to break up. In life, please quarrel less.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The answer, of course, is no. If you quarrel with your husband and then have to break up with him, how many times you have to break up with him in your life is something that neither you nor he can bear.

    Is there a husband and wife who don't quarrel? After all, both of you come from two different families. Two people who have grown up in different environments will certainly have great differences in personality, temperament, and habits.

    You have been able to come together because you are definitely in something. There is some agreement in terms of interests and hobbies, or you have a common topic, or you have a good three views, and they are generally the same. That's how the two of you can get through love and then come together, and it's a happy thing.

    The two of you are also destined, otherwise, the two of you would not get married. You won't call him husband either. She calls you wife, you call him husband, this is.

    The fate of this life.

    There are a lot of inconsistencies between the two people. There will be opinions, and of course there will be quarrels with inconsistencies. It's going to be like the one you described in the title.

    Once we quarrel, we feel that the other party is not good. I feel that the other party is not good for me, so I will have a cold heart. That's what you call a breakup.

    But after a certain amount of time has passed, after this contradiction between you and him is resolved, you will think that it is better to be your lover. This is husband and wife, husband and wife are the life of firewood, sun, rice, oil and salt. Isn't it normal for couples to have quarrels?

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