Do you want to buy a breakup gift before you break up

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Even if you are about to break up, you should see each other, but if you buy a breakup gift, you may be more sad to see what you used to be after the breakup. The last side of the breakup is actually a summary of what happened before. After all, breaking up doesn't mean you can't be good friends!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Alas, love and separate, meet is to meet, as for gifts, don't buy a couple T-shirt, you have to divide, since you love each other so much and decide to separate, there must be a reason for you to separate, cut your hair and give it to her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Not necessarily. Buy a breakup gift. After that, when I look at the gift, I think of the other party very much, and it will be very painful to disagree with the party who breaks up

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first time I heard that I was going to buy a breakup gift, I was afraid of hurting him, and I should refuse him directly and refuse all gifts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I advise you not to buy it. In this way, both parties will be very sad to see the gift from the other party. It's not easy to forget. It's also a pain.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think it's better not to buy it, so as not to be even more sad when you meet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I still don't want it, I'll be sad to see it,

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I have to do that anyway, since I decided to break up, I don't have to do that.

    lest you touch the scene, see things and think about people, and bring pain to yourself.

    Only by simply letting go can you come out faster and accept a new life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The best gift is to write him a letter with your hand.

    Write optimistically and positively, with a smile.

    It's the best gift.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I love it very much, why do you want to divide it.

    It's better to be thorough like this and don't leave a trail behind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that the gift sent out will be chased back after the breakup, and it seems that I am particularly small-bellied, and this gift is exclusive, only suitable for this person, and it is useless to use it to come back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If all the gifts are not too expensive, then the breakup is a breakup, and there is no need to ask for it.

    Personally, I think that in addition to the purpose of getting married, you can ask for very expensive gifts for each other, and everything else is unnecessary, after all, the two have had a very good moment, even if they break up, they don't have to be too ugly.

    Do you still have any questions? Kiss.

    The question was that she first made me ugly, she got married, lied to me that she was single, and then today I found out, and she played a shame and blocked me all.

    Question: Now that I'm blocked, how can I get it back, just 5,000 yuan of gold jewelry.

    For example, her home address, work unit, if you have this information, you can go directly to her home or work unit to block her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it is something valuable, you should still come back, because if you don't come back, you will feel that you have lost a lot, and your heart will be unbalanced, and the valuable ones are indeed very precious.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then if you want to go back, you can still go back. But I don't think it's necessary, because it's especially good when two people are together, so there's no need to go, you have to come back with what you sent. You still have to be a little more generous, right?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no need to go back, because it will make you appear stingy, and since you have broken up, there is no need to continue to have contact, and you don't need to come back as a memory.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can't return the gifts you sent, because they have already broken up, so after you ask for the gifts you sent back, won't you see things and think about people?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, haha, just love it, no regrets.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, sorry for your question!

    A thousand people have a thousand opinions on this issue, and different people must understand it differently. Some people think it is necessary, some people think it is not necessary, but from my point of view, I think it is necessary to analyze specific problems, and the gift should also depend on the value of the preparer, which is more important, ordinary gifts can not be returned, but the value of the gift, the valuable gift is still necessary to return!

    The first type: If the gift is not very valuable, such as the small things in daily life, I personally think that it is not necessary, and the relationship is broken, do you want to come back and use it yourself? However, if it is particularly valuable, such as expensive bags or watches, etc., some luxury goods, it is best to return them.

    In addition, the gift represents a commemorative meaning, and it is clear that the gift has no meaning, so it is still the best thing to do.

    May a lover eventually become a family.

    The second: some people think that breaking up and returning things is a polite act, which is understandable, because I like you, I will buy you a gift, since I have broken up, there is no emotional foundation, I like you to buy you something, now I don't like it, but I care about that thing, imitation so I have to come back, it feels normal, the love relationship has ended, the gift has lost the role of maintaining the emotional relationship, there is no meaning.

    Therefore, to sum up, everyone's approach to this problem is different, but there is no right or wrong in each approach, it can only be said that what kind of people will do what kind of things they miss! The emotional account can't be settled, so why not make it a beautiful regret?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Nowadays, people can't escape the matter of "giving gifts" when they fall in love, generally speaking, the man gives more gifts to the woman, but there are exceptions, that is, the woman sends more gifts to the man when she hails, which is mainly related to the fact that the woman's economic conditions are much better than the man's. A netizen said that after breaking up, can I get the gift back? Of course, you can ask for it back, as long as you want it, the other party will definitely not rely on it, after all, many people don't want to be involved with their ex because of this gift.

    Let's take a good look at this problem, and I hope you can understand some truth from it.

    I think that gifts that are given out can be returned after a breakup as long as you can ask for them. Since you can propose to return the gift you sent, then it is definitely not the breakup you mentioned, since the other party took the initiative to break up, then if you want to return the gift, she will definitely return it immediately, after all, she is afraid that she will not return the gift and be entangled by you.

    Of course, if the other person insists on not returning the gift you gave, you may not want to return it either. Even if you go to court, you may not be able to recover the gift. Because the law stipulates that gifts given during a relationship, as long as they are not large luxuries, they are generally considered to be your gift to the woman.

    In fact, most people will not choose to return gifts even after breaking up, after all, it is fate for two people to fall in love. There are also some people who will throw away all the gifts given by their exes or sell them on second-hand platforms after breaking up. So if you want it, the other party will generally pay it back.

    It is recommended that you ask for it early, and she will sell it. In fact, some people will fold the gift into money and return it to the other party when they break up.

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