Is it worth sacrificing yourself for the sake of your baby? Should mothers sacrifice themselves for

This kind of thing, don't ask others, your own children, there is nothing worth it or not, if you are willing, it is worth it, if you are unwilling, presumably you will not give up other things.

This kind of thing is not worth it, but it must be worthwhile, every parent will sacrifice a lot of things for the baby more or less, and the baby is all they have in the eyes of parents.

There is nothing worth it, only whether you want to or not. If you feel like your baby is more important than everything, it's worth it.

I think it's valuable, parents are like this, that's how parents love their children.

As a mother, there must be sacrifices for the baby, but as a mother, I feel that this sacrifice is worth it.

Sacrificing oneself for the sake of their children is the most common mistake parents make, because this kind of mistake is often in the name of love, and families have parents who have the courage to sacrifice and dedicate, but children are often not grateful and unhappy. Because they will be kidnapped by a deep sense of "guilt", the child is likely to feel not the love of their parents, but more likely to be controlling, burdensome and shackled;

I think this is the heart of parents all over the world, everyone wants their children to be good, and sometimes they will give up a lot of things for their children.

There's nothing more rewarding than being a mother! You will be more mature and responsible, and your ability to do things will also be strengthened. You will lose some, but the rewards will be higher and the gains will be greater.

You didn't sacrifice anything for your children, and your children didn't hold you back, you all grew up together in life, there were bitter and sweet, laughter and tears, just like everyone!

It doesn't matter if you have a plan to have a baby or if you are not prepared for the baby to arrive. As the identity changes, so do the mindset and responsibilities. The growth of children needs the company's mother the most, especially before the age of 3 and a half, it is more important, it is related to the happiness of the child's life.

Those who know me well know that I never praise the greatness of motherhood. Because I am afraid of kidnapping mothers and children over this moral. If I had to give one answer, it would be, it's not worth it.

Because, whether you are a mother or not, your ego is the most precious thing. Before you prepare to have a baby, you must understand: with a baby, life must be different.

Of course, you can be a shopkeeper and only be responsible for birth, not for raising, but this is not responsible for yourself and your baby. ‍‍

Don't give up your hobbies, and don't give up your job if you really love your job. Believe me, the way you work hard and the way you love life, children will definitely see it. ‍‍

With children, you can have a period of time, as short as a few months, as long as two or three years, without a good sleep, without a world of two, without your own time and space. If it is the parents who take on the task of raising the child independently, then it will be more difficult, and if there is an elderly person or a nanny to help, it will be easier. Perhaps, it would be more appropriate to use it.

After all these years of parenting and companionship, you will get the baby's unreserved love, even if you don't control your temper, discipline her or even beat him, she still loves you the most, and always feels that you are the best and you are the most beautiful. ‍‍

If you love your baby, don't think about whether it's worth it for your child, and if your life is not fulfilling, don't let your child suffer misfortune. Organize your life well and face the reality with a positive attitude.

The baby is too small, needs maternal love, affection, care, needs big expenses, individuals are different choices in the situation, can not be generalized! You decide for yourself, the standard is in your heart.

Many mothers love their children deeply and can make sacrifices unconditionally for the sake of their children, so as to ensure that their children are cared for in all aspects. Although this reflects the love of the mother, it is not entirely true. Mothers should be the guides on the road of children's growth, not simple victims.

Self-sacrifice. Dong Qing is a difficult child to take care of, he has often been sick since he was a child, and he is a frequent visitor to the hospital. In order to take better care of her, her mother resolutely quit her job.

Now, Dong Qing is a third-grade student, but she has to rely on her mother to wake her up every day, help her prepare clothes to wear, and insist that her mother send her to school.

My mother had a headache when she saw Dong Qing who was so dependent on her, and she didn't know what to do. But every time her mother asked Dong Qing to do things by herself, Dong Qing said that her mother didn't work at home all day long, and she didn't want to make progress, so she should take care of herself.

This made her mother very sad, and she began to wonder if the sacrifice of disturbing Qingchen for Dong Qing was worthwhile.

Teacher Meng, an expert in family education

There are poor mothers who give up their jobs for the sake of their children and choose to stay at home to take care of their children; In order to take care of their children, some mothers even use their working hours to go to school to do hygiene for their children. However, whether such a sacrifice is valuable and meaningful deserves serious consideration by the mother.

Sacrificing everything for yourself and putting your children first in life is unfortunate for both mother and child. A mother's sacrifice is not necessarily in exchange for the child's progress and happiness.

What children lack most nowadays is the tempering of life, and only in the process of overcoming setbacks and difficulties can children achieve all-round development.

The child is the hope of the mother, and the mother is willing to make any sacrifice for the child, including work. However, the mother's sacrifice is often not understood by the child, nor can the desired educational effect be obtained.

Mothers should strive to be the guide of their children, help their children understand themselves, develop themselves, and embark on their own paths, and do not cut off their own progress because of the existence of their children.

Mothers need to get rid of the "self-sacrificing" education method in order to find their own place, be a role model for their children, and help their children grow better.

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