When you just graduated from college, was there a time when you were most helpless and lost?

Updated on society 2024-05-02
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, when I went home for the Chinese New Year in the first year, the round-trip fare was paid by my parents, and when I went back to work, my parents also showed me 5,000 yuan, so that I didn't save too much, remember to eat, and think of tears.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I went to a strange city alone, looked for a house for three days but didn't find a suitable one, and walked blindly on the streets, feeling like I had nowhere to go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, there was a time when the salary was too low and I was reluctant to spend money on medicine when I was sick, but I learned a lot in this job and laid the foundation for finding a good job in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just graduated, rejected the family's arrangement, went to find a job on his own, has not been suitable, has no income, and his friends continue to get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course. The basic work content of the first job is to do chores, and the knowledge I have learned is basically useless, and I look at other colleagues talking eloquently, and then look at myself, I feel very helpless and lost.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it was a time when I just went out to look for a job and couldn't find a job for a long time. I don't have much money in my pocket, and I'm embarrassed to ask my family for money, and I have to spend money on food and housing, and I live a budget-conscious life every day.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After graduating from university, I was very confident about my first job, but later I realized that my theoretical knowledge and practical experience were far from perfect, and I was very frustrated at the time, but with the help of my colleagues, I quickly adapted to the job.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When looking for a job, you are the most helpless, you can't go to the company you want to go to, and you don't want to go if you can, no one can help you at this time, and you are really helpless.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After graduation, I don't have a girlfriend, I don't have a job, and I can't breathe because of the constant pressure from my family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't just graduated, I graduated in 15 years, studied accounting, worked as a project assistant in a small unit after graduation, and left naked at the end of February, I want to do accounting, after all, I have studied professionally. It's not the most helpless now, I've interviewed ten companies, and all but one of the bad treatment refuses me, and most of them are because of work experience.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My boyfriend went to work in a township far away from me, and the sudden separation made me very unaccustomed, plus I always had friends around me, and suddenly, I was the only one who returned to the dormitory, and I was also relatively timid, and I was afraid of sleeping alone in a room. During that time, I really wondered if I would have a phobia of loneliness. I don't have friends, the man is not there, and I have a temper tantrum with my family, and I feel like this is the most helpless time for me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The bottom, low, struggling, despairing, tearing, rebirth, cheering up, setting sail, slowly also learned to protect themselves in society, learned to support themselves, put away arrogance, began to learn to feel the things around them with their hearts, no longer addicted to games, has longed for the right love for themselves, has met more friends, has taken out 1500 every month to thank his parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be a friend who played well with me at the time and suddenly a virtual friend and someone else Sui Dan guessed and isolated me.,When I was targeting me.,I don't know what happened to her.,Suddenly changed so much in a day.,Opinions on me.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is some truth in what was said upstairs, reading books can promote you, but more importantly, the internal factors must work, and you yourself must be motivated.

    Transitioning from a student role to a job role does require a transition. What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

    When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

    To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

    The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

    The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What are you doing with Wen Zou Zou, you don't have the ability to see anything in vain.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A recent college graduate may seem like you have nothing, but you actually have it all. How to say, first of all, you should be healthy and strong, which can be the foundation for a career, and then the knowledge you learn in school can point you in the direction of your future, and you have a sense of courage and will not be afraid of any difficulties at all. Isn't that what you have?

    You have all the possibilities! As long as you are willing to work hard for your goals, I believe that the future will not be a dream!

    Although we have no money, no power, and no life that others yearn for, we must still have hope after hard work, and we are afraid that you will give up on yourself. Don't be blushing at what is rich and handsome, what is rich and second-generation. You don't know how hard their father worked to get to where he is now.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

    Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

    After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. Hello, at present, the number of college students graduating in China every year is close to 8 million, but there may not be so much demand for jobs in the society, so it will lead to unemployment for some students.

    2. With the progress of artificial intelligence and science and technology, many jobs have been replaced, and there are fewer and fewer people in need in society, so students who have just graduated do not have too many advantages.

    3. The quality of college students is declining, and many college students may fail their courses when they graduate, they may not have learned too much in school, they have no professional knowledge, and they have no social competitiveness when looking for a job.

    4. There are more and more college students, no longer just resumed the college entrance examination, now walking on the road, at least 8 out of 10 people are college students, so college students can't represent anything at present, the so-called superiority of college students can be removed, otherwise the heart is still themselves.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is just a way of saying that in fact, aren't college students unemployed all the time?

    The key is not to complain and work hard to forge ahead, in fact, the company's recruitment information is everywhere, and many positions are in short supply, there are still many opportunities.

    The concept of society, industry and position is not very clear after graduating from university, so if you can take a deep look and study the position and responsibilities carefully. By analyzing yourself, finding the most suitable position, and mastering resume writing and interview skills, I think the so-called unemployment after graduation will no longer exist.

    You need to put down your body, start from the basic post, don't pick or pick, accumulate experience, and improve your skills.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can graduate and be unemployed, either your school is bad, your major is bad, or you are very bad at studying.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello. This situation is only for "scumbags". Otherwise, there will be a lot of jobs. As long as you're capable enough. Many units will be strong and wanted. Therefore, it is most correct to study hard in college.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't know when such a sentence began to circulate on the Internet: "After four years of college, graduation is equal to unemployment". Some people will say that this is , on the contrary, many people say that this is the true portrayal of college students now!

    In the past, college students were called the best of the world, and when a college student came out of the mountains, the cadres of the organs had to come to congratulate them, everyone was envious and jealous, and the parents and elders were even more proud and glorious. In fact, the essence of this change is the depreciation of college students. The issue of the depreciation of college students is really a matter of opinion.

    The devaluation of college students is a fait accompli, so what drives the devaluation of college students? In fact, there are both objective and subjective reasons for the depreciation of college students.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Many college students will have such a situation when they graduate, so when they feel lost, they first need to maintain a good attitude, because this sense of confusion is only a temporary phenomenon, keep calm and do what they want to do, and they will soon be able to solve the problem.

    YesIn order to choose the right job according to your major, I believe that after finding a jobThe confusion in my heart will disappear quickly, but it takes more time to find a job, but when you start working, it is the beginning of your happiness, you must believe in yourself, come on!

    Entrepreneurship. 2. You can also relax and relax yourself, when you encounter such a situation, it may also be caused by excessive psychological pressure, and you want to let go of all the things in your handsTraveling without a goal will not only help you improve your mood, but also improve your knowledge, and it is very likely that you will find your own direction in life during the journey.

    Travel. 3. When looking for a job, tooYou can find a job you like according to your interests and hobbiesIn this way, it will be easier to work, and the working life will become more exciting and fulfilling.

    Job. 4. You can also choose to start your own business, but in the process of entrepreneurship the road is very bumpy, you must work hard to persist in hard work, for entrepreneurship, it is a thing that is proportional to the return, you must also believe that there is a return to pay, you must have confidence in yourself, every day to keep encouraging, keep learning, I believe that one day will be successful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is the mentality of just graduating, it is better to find a job, and after a period of exercise, it will be fine. If you are homesick, you can find a job nearby, and you will continue to mature after the influence of society.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1.After graduating from college, you will be disappointed because you didn't learn much when you were in school, 2After graduating from college, you will be disappointed because you have not published a good ** in your major. . . Things.

    3.After graduating from college, I will be disappointed because I have been in love many times and wasted time renting friends... A lot.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Just temporarily confused.

    The uncertainty of the future, the uncertainty of the future. It will get better and better in the future, and there is no need to dwell on it.

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