How hard is it to meet someone you like?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, I don't think it's too difficult to meet someone who likes each other, and the so-called initial liking is mostly like a person's appearance, like his appearance, like his figure, like his temperament, like his personality, and so on. In the same way, these likes that can be judged in a split second or in a short period of time can be replaced by another at any time, because these things are not too irreplaceable. There's nothing wrong with this kind of liking, there's nothing wrong with it, and it's even more enjoyable.

    It's just that this liking can easily change or even disappear. On the contrary, I think it is difficult to meet someone you like, and it happens to be his soul that you like. It is impossible for a person's soul to be exposed to you in a short period of time.

    Second, the process from liking a person's appearance to liking a person's soul is bound to be entangled, contradictory, and even self-reproachful. Because there is no perfect soul in this world. It is not difficult to meet a person who likes each other, but it is difficult to meet a soul that appreciates each other and snuggles up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard, isn't it? I once met one. My judging criteria are simple.

    A man who is better than my dad is worth considering. I'm a girl who loves my father very much, and I'm basically very well-behaved from childhood to adulthood, and my mother doesn't care about all my things, and my father is in charge. Cooking, commuting to and from school, parent-teacher conferences, communication.

    When I went to the college entrance examination, the school sent a car, and my dad couldn't come to find an acquaintance to bring me a bag of food and drink. Even wet wipes, sanitary napkins and the like are properly prepared. So I developed a vision that no one is as good as my dad.

    I thought no one would treat me better than my dad. But I actually met it. Take care of everything from start to finish, from big to small.

    I thought we'd have a possibility. But he was married to someone else. I've met one in more than 20 years.

    But he didn't want me. So, I think actually. It's not hard to meet.

    It's rare that you're the one he wants to meet. That's hard to blow up. But when I think about it, I couldn't have predicted such a person before he broke into my life without warning.

    So, hold on to hope and wait for the results.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How difficult it is to meet someone you like, to discover, to know, to understand, to get acquainted, to integrate, so that you just enter a person's life. But how long will it take to get into my heart, because I don't want to start and end again, so I have to cowardly watch from a distance and like it silently in my heart. But after all, I still couldn't control my heart that wanted to get closer slowly, and finally I couldn't ask for it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's easy to meet someone you like, but it's hard to like each other. It's easy to love someone, it's hard to be loved by someone you love. Love is simple and can be felt as long as you dare to take the first step. As for whether it is love or not, who knows until the end?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In my opinion, it is actually very simple to meet someone you like. Of course, my so-called liking is not the fascination with the handsomeness of celebrities, nor the worship of the IQ of talents, nor the coveting of rich money. What I call liking is to see his brilliance in a very ordinary person, and like all of him.

    Even if he is not good, even if he has shortcomings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I met the people I love among thousands of people. My boyfriend and I met in high school, and he just looked at me and started chasing me, so I didn't know how to agree. Later, I failed the college entrance examination, and he successfully entered the university.

    We went through numerous breakups, and finally I successfully entered the same school after repeating the college entrance examination, and now we have been together for more than four years. It is difficult to meet true love, and it is even more difficult to love each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    20 years old, it's really hard to find someone you like, when can the person I like like like me, sometimes I feel too greasy, you see today, I took the initiative to ask a boy out, I think I might like him, but people just reject you, it's good to refuse, refuse, I won't have thoughts, I will live my own life, I won't think about it anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is it lazy or cowardly, sometimes I meet someone who looks tempting, and if you worry about it, you miss it. It's rare to meet someone who is really motivated to try and fight for it, and I don't know why. Maybe you don't want to bother getting to know someone anymore, or maybe you don't like it enough.

    I'm very confused, and I haven't felt like I've been in love for a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I finally met that interesting soul, it was really not easy, and the happiness value exploded. Ran Goose, the soul seems to be a little afraid, pretending to be up, probably because he has been injured in love. Inability to cooperate positively. Died. Sorry for the heartache.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know if you realize that the older you get, the harder it is to talk about a relationship you like. It was as if love had become a luxury.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The main thing is to meet the right person in the right place and at the right time, in fact, sometimes it is not difficult.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not difficult to say that it is difficult to meet a person who likes each other, and it is not easy to say that it is easy, mainly depending on the problem of fate, if the fate arrives, then it will be met quickly, and if the fate is not enough, then continue to look for it

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