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Feelings are really inexplicable. Now you have chosen the latter, thinking that the former one is good. When you choose the former, you will be thinking about the latter in your heart!
People are like that. What you can't get is good. When you were with the former, you knew in your heart that he was a man of character and that you loved him, but your attention was focused on his family conditions.
So no matter how good his character is, he doesn't let you choose. At that time, I took a fancy to the latter's family conditions. Now that you are with the latter, you have come back to see the good of the former and think of his goodness.
Seriously, if you choose to start over with the former, you will have a lot of family things to think about, and you will have endless worries. So, no matter which one you are with, there will be something you are not satisfied with. There are times when there are troubles.
No one is perfect! It depends on which aspect you focus on. If you want to choose someone with good character and love you sincerely, you have to accept his family.
If you want to choose someone who has a better life and a better family background, you can stay with the latter in a down-to-earth manner. Don't overthink it.
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The latter should be chosen, mainly because it is suitable for life, and it is also good for the growth of children when they have children in the future. No matter how good the relationship between two people is, it will wear off with time and family life and disappear. Feelings are not the whole of life.
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You've got it all, do you think the king of character still wants you?
He's coming for you?
If not, forget it, people may finally come out of the pain, don't tease people anymore, in case they have a girlfriend.
You didn't live very happily with this person, so you thought of him, why did you go in the first place?
How ruthless is it to say points?
I suggest that you try your best to build a relationship with your current husband slowly!
He may have a lot of good qualities, but you just don't see them.
I really can't stay together anymore, let's talk about separation!
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Real feelings should be hidden in the bottom of the heart, and life is still realistic.
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I hate to say that the door is right.
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1. Every family will have a hard time, and this is a difficult time for you.
Second, the distress mainly comes from the economic aspect, this problem is not unsolvable, through the efforts of the husband, by borrowing from relatives, through various methods... I can always get through this.
Third, there is not much problem in terms of feelings, what is lacking is mutual communication, and then the division of labor in the family is too clear, each occupies one end, and there is not much common communication with each other, and there is also a lack of common topics, so I feel that the feelings are also weak.
Fourth, the career is mainly solved by your husband, and if you can't help much, you should ask him if he has a lot of troubles and understand his feelings. As for him, he should ask more about the family situation, although he can't take care of it, but it's always okay for you to exchange some daily trivial matters from time to time. It is also an exchange of feelings.
Fifth, if you want to get yourself out of loneliness, you can't be bored at home, so when your child goes to kindergarten, try to find something to do.
6. Don't be in the most difficult moment, try not to sell the house.
7. Everything will pass.
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