Crush Pain! Can anyone help me?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Find a suitable opportunity to explain to her, no matter what the outcome will be, but at least you won't regret it if you try, so that you are responsible not only for yourself but also for her. In fact, think about it, how do you know that her unhappiness is not because of your hesitation, what a good girl needs and appreciates is a frank love for her by others, and she doesn't need a person who is unwilling to show that she loves her blindly to be good to her, so that she will feel insecure, and the important thing is that she will not have confidence in this love, and then she will hate this feeling more and more.

    Good luck and good luck to all lovers in the world :)

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be proactive! Don't regret it when it's really too late! I was the one I had a crush on first and I lost him before I had time to tell him, so I learned my lesson and was very brave enough to say "I like you" to the person I like now, and as a result, we are very, very happy now, so if you have a beloved, you must not be cowardly to say what you think!

    The art of war in love is "as fast as the wind, as fast as a forest, as aggressive as fire, as immobile as a mountain, difficult to know into the yin, and as moving as thunder".

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After reading this story, I understand that it was you who took it yourself, she knew these things, and she began to run away from you, and you yourself didn't confess to her! It's not a fault to like someone, it's happiness! If that's the case, why don't you tell her?

    Say what you thought at that time?

    You said that she knew that you were good to her, and now she is a little disgusted, is because she feels that friends don't need to be so good, maybe she is just waiting for you to confess to her?

    You won't wait for her to tell you to say what you like, let alone your love for her!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Good touching story, if it's true, I admire that boy.

    After all, there are not many such people in this world anymore.

    Since it's painful, let's change to love Don't be afraid of rejection.

    Be brave, that boy can be so brave to save that girl, why not be brave and face it

    It's not like anymore, it's love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    We've all been through disaster.

    This is when the other person needs love and strong faith.

    At that time, the liking was just a manifestation of the heart, and now the love is great, I personally think that this kind of love is better not to say, because, at this time, she may not have this kind of love in her heart.

    It was better for him to wait silently, if he felt that he had the opportunity, he had that feeling.

    It's a joke, that is to say, to confess in another way, I think it should be good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you love, you should be brave and confess, happiness will not wait for you, you can only seize happiness, even if it is a failure, it is worth trying

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confess, no matter what the result is, settle yourself at ease.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't confess, people already know your wishes, just look at his reflection.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think I have to confess.

    No matter how it turns out.

    Otherwise, you will regret dropping later.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Crush is painful! Stick to your original ideas.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take the initiative for the sake of those you like.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ah! The competition is too fierce, and I still honestly go to the 2 points that belong to me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not painful, it's sweet, and what you can't get is the best.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If mutual crushes. Suffering.

    It's just one-sided, and it's very happy to see him and her happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It shouldn't be painful, it's just very tangled, after all, love is also sweet.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Crush is really painful, I have tried this taste, it is very uncomfortable, I remember when I just came out of school and entered our current company for internship, and like you now, at that time, several classmates in our class and a few male classmates from another class went to this company for internship, at that time I fell in love with a boy, we worked together every day, we were fighting, others said we were like a couple, so I was embarrassed every time, but my heart was always sweet, Until one day I learned from a classmate in their class that he had a childhood sweetheart since he was a child. At that time, I was really lost, I thought I would stop thinking about him because of this, but I couldn't do it, I would still pay attention to him, care about him, and know that it was impossible to be with him, but I still thought, that kind of taste is really uncomfortable? I didn't forget about him until he left our company, but I still think of him when people mention him.

    However, I have now figured out that what is not my own cannot be forced, but my own is my own after all, and others cannot snatch it.

    If you now know that he already has a girlfriend and still confess to him, if you are rejected, then you can't even be friends in the end, so why bother? Although today's society has also built up to say love and be brave enough to say it, sometimes it's not a wise choice to stay silent, isn't it?

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