In order to help a girl, I haven t been in a relationship for four years, isn t it a bit silly?

It's stupid

Confession is good for confession, you say what you feel in your heart, be true to your feelings, whether she accepts or rejects you, you will not leave regrets.

But if she confesses, if she can't accept your feelings for her, or even alienates you because of your confession, this is also something you have to bear.

If you don't confess, you can always be so open-minded, but you have to adjust your mentality, don't expect anything, forget that layer of love, and do what you should do as a friend!

But you have to pay attention to yourself, whether she is also interested in you, if she is also interested in you and you give up like this, it is a pity to have a good marriage!

What age is your senior year, don't let yourself be pushed into a blind corner by your feelings too early, take a step back and open the sky, and fulfill others is also fulfilling yourself, isn't it?

Remember, life is much bigger than love (I'm so nagging, hehe, I'm sorry).

You can say that 4 years of affection, 4 years of care, she won't have any feelings for you to have that affection.

Say it At least you don't regret it You have fought for it She refuses it means that you don't have fate, brother, you just start over again and pursue your happiness Maybe she is not far away.

Good luck.

Love is a thing. If you dare to confess. Tell her you like her.

Then you still have fifty percent hope of being with her.

And if you don't confess.

Then I can tell you that you don't have any likes.

Confess to her, four years is not a short time for anyone, if she still chooses her boyfriend, then you can bless them chicly, although love can not be forced, but I think if I haven't even pursued it, I will regret it!

They don't necessarily have to be together, after all, it's been four years apart, and it's not necessarily appropriate to be together, and I think you need to confess that maybe he'll think about you, because you're the one who has been with him, and he'll remember that you've been good to him, and he's blank in those four years.

...Don't cherish the fate that came, don't have the courage, if you want to miss her, then don't confess.

Sometimes you have to be brave!!

Don't be afraid of rejection.

It is indeed a matter of urgency

Sister, he is a good man

Permission, sloppy and crumbling

Maybe he's already belched

Gamma bar

Talk to her clearly, maybe she has a deeper feeling for you than for her previous boyfriend.

Don't miss it, you'll regret it.

I can only say that you are too shy, why don't you confess all the time? No matter how uncomfortable you are, you are the only one who bears it ...

When love comes, you need to confess, don't dare to say that beautiful vow because it may change, but it's good once. When love leaves, you need to keep it, because you let go easily, even if she doesn't want to go, she will be swept away by the crowd, the same once. Kai-Fu Lee said that being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of attraction, and knowing how to love because of being loved, this is the process of love!

Loving someone is not about suffering from gains and losses, nor is it about spending all your energy to please you, let alone fantasizing about how happy you will be in the future, but you have to be an excellent person, because in the future, there will be people who love her, and the only thing you can do is to compare them! Please give yourself patience, wait patiently until that day, when you are brave enough, good enough to walk firmly in front of her, and with a sense of calm, it will be you she has never seen before. He can refuse you who are not excellent, but he can't refuse you who have become strong for her!

In the relationship, there is no draft rule that says who must take the initiative, nor does it say that whoever takes the initiative is the loser, if you don't take the initiative, you can't know what kind of love your ininitiative will make you lose. You argued that you like him, and that's enough, but for the person you like, isn't it worth your effort? Otherwise, how can you be embarrassed to call it like?

Even if he doesn't like you, so what? At least your initiative will get you the answer you want.