Zixia Zizhang can tell who they are? 15

Zixiazi Zhang Runjiao can see who they are, I think they should be two people with completely different personalities, so the conclusions drawn are completely different. Each of us has our own personality traits, so that we can form different social habits for each person.

It can be seen from this article that they are very honest and kind people, because only if they are honest and kind, then they will be recognized by people and will do things with a greater sense of justice.

Uh, through the words of Jiao, it can be seen that this is the kind of gentleness and integrity, and then the etiquette treats people with etiquette, uh, the kind of support, and then the paper, it is the kind that is more flexible and makes good use of power, well, it is only a good model.

If you read this thing a few more times, there is a saying that the meaning of the book is self-evident after reading it a hundred times, and after you understand that after reading it a few times, your understanding of this book is very different.

From this, it can be seen that in fact, they have reached a standard, so this one is very correct.

I sue you, Zhang Runjiao, you can see that they are introverted and introverted respectively. The one who left it off.

The general poor, this is the practice of Zixia Zizhang.

You can see that they are very powerful people.

Zi Xiazi and Zhang Runwen can teach them who they are, and they are their colleagues.

Zixia Zizhang can see that they are a pragmatic and exaggerated person.

Therefore, different humanistic styles are also different.

How can they see that they have a lot in common with each other, and they can also see what they want to care about?

Original text] Zixia's gate was handed over to Zizhang. Zi Zhang said: "Zi Xia Yunhe?

He said: "Zixia said: 'Those who can do it with it, but those who can't reject it.'"

Zi Zhang said: "It's different from what I have heard: the gentleman respects the virtuous and allows Qin to lead the people, and the good is not able."

What is not tolerated by others? If I am not virtuous, people will reject me, so how can I reject others? ”

Translation] Zixia's protégé asked Zizhang for advice on how to interact with people. Zizhang said: "What did Zixia say?

He said: "Zixia said, 'Whoever can associate with him, associate with him, and reject him if he cannot associate with him.'" Zizhang said

Contrary to what I have heard, a gentleman respects the virtuous and accommodating the ordinary; Reward those who do good, and show mercy to those who are weak. If I'm good enough, what about others that I can't tolerate? If I'm not good, people will refuse to associate with me, so how can I talk about rejecting people? ”

From "Zi Xia. In the article "Zi Zhang on Friendship", it can be seen that Zi Xia is a person who makes friends based on his personal likes and dislikes; And Zizhang is a person who pays attention to making friends.

Zi Xia's students ask Zi Zhang how to make friends. Zizhang said: "What did Zixia say?

Said: "Zixia said: 'Those who can make friends with him, and those who can't make friends with him.

Zizhang said: "What I have heard is different from these: a gentleman respects the virtuous and can accommodate everyone; Able to praise good people and sympathize with those who are not capable enough.

If I am a very virtuous person, what can I not tolerate with others? If I am not virtuous, then people will reject me, so how can I talk about rejecting others? ”

Zi Xia and Zi Zhang are both Confucius.

The student, Zixia's answer, is suitable for people who lack cultivation; Zizhang's answer is suitable for more mature people. A benevolent gentleman has the mission of educating the world, and when interacting with others, he cannot take likes and dislikes as the standard, and reject those who don't like them.

From this passage, it can be seen that Zizhang and Zixia have different opinions. As for the question of how to make friends, Zi Xia follows the ancient precept of "keeping friends is not as good as himself, and Zi Zhang is following the ancient precept of Confucius who loves all people and is kind to others". These two ancient precepts are aimed at two different objects, for beginners, because of their poor recognition and self-control.

Weak, since you should carefully choose friends and make friends; For a gentleman, he should be benevolent and righteous to benefit the world. It can be seen that Zizhang and Zixia's statements are reasonable, but they are not treated separately according to different objects. In contrast, Zizhang's insights are more practical.

Especially from the point of view of today's people, it is also based on Zizhang's opinion.

Zi Xia and Zi Zhang talk about making friends.

Zixia's gate asked to hand it over to Zizhang. Zi Zhang said: "Zi Xia Yunhe?

He said: "Zixia said: 'Those who can do it with it, but those who can't reject it.'"

Zi Zhang said: "It's different from what I've heard: a gentleman is virtuous and tolerant, and a good man can't.

What is not tolerated by others? If I am not virtuous, people will reject me, so how can I reject others? ”

Note] Zi Xia: surname Bu, name Shang, word Zi Xia.

Zi Zhang: The compound surname is Zhen Sun, a famous teacher, and the word Zi Zhang.

Ask about the relationship: ask about the way to interact with people.

With it: fellowship, fellowship.

Rejection: Refusal to associate.

矜: Pity, sympathy.

Translation] Zixia's students asked Zizhang for advice on how to make friends. Zizhang asked, "What did Zixia say?"

The student said, "Zixia said: 'Those who can socialize will be slow down, and those who can't be interacted will refuse to socialize.'

Zizhang said: "What I have heard is different: 'A gentleman respects the virtuous and tolerates the common man; Praise the good and sympathize with those who are inadequate.

If I am a virtuous person, why can't I tolerate ordinary people? If I am an unvirtuous person, others will refuse to associate with me, so how can I reject others? ”

Zixia pays attention to personal cultivation, so "there is no white ding". Zizhang asked many times about the way of government, so "respect the virtuous and tolerate the public". Confucius teaches students according to their aptitude, and they should not be despised because of Zhang's words.

"Advanced Chapter" Zigong asked: "Who is the teacher or the businessman?" Zi said: "The teacher has also passed, and the business is not as good." Which Jian said: "Then the teacher will heal and heal?" Zi said: "It's too much." ”

Knowledge Expansion] He Yan's "Collection of Explanations" quoted Bao Xian and said: "Friendship should be like Zixia, and pan-friendship should be like Zizhang." ”

Cai Yong's "Orthogonal Theory": Zixia's Gate asked Jiaosui to be empty in Zizhang, and the two sons each heard about the master. However, it is also to give advice, and the business is also lenient, so it is told to refuse people; The teacher is also a teacher, so the training is to accommodate the public.

If Zhong Ni's right path is corrected, then "love the public, and relatives ("Learning and Chapters", communicate with the party, meet friends with benevolence, but there is no depreciation.