Am I not worthy of true love, it s not that I haven t found true love, it s that I don t deserve tru

Updated on society 2024-05-26
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For yours, maybe you are a brother more than a woman! Don't break your heart for someone who doesn't love you, and don't hurt another person for him! Love is the most difficult fate in this world, and there is no distinction between high and low in front of him.

    Everyone has the right to love and be loved, it's not that you don't deserve it, it's just that you haven't met it yet. So women, you should love yourself more! If the definition of flower heart is the constant pursuit of your own happiness, you should be more careful!

    Let go of the hand that does not belong to you, and face the person who can give you a hug with the truest heart. Now can you be sure that the boy who is going to marry you is your significant other!? If you can't, let each other have another choice!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not a question of whether you deserve true love, it's a question of whether you have met true love. Everyone has the right to ask for what they like. It depends on you, whoever you like is whom, what you talk about is worthy or not, and whether you have done anything to be sorry for him.

    If you like it, you will be together, and if you don't like it, you will be separated, it is very simple. Also, you should be cautious in getting married, and you should entrust it to someone who can trust and love you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since your original boyfriend doesn't know how to cherish you, why should you be persistent, love is originally a two-way street, and two-way can cherish each other. But when accepting two foreign boys, don't be too hasty. A little more time to test the test, it is already difficult to find a man who is truly loved.

    I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're not a flowery person

    At least that's what I think.

    You just expect more from love than from the outcome.

    The people you care about don't care about you.

    You may have made a choice in the hope of getting his attention.

    I want to see his reflection.

    But I hope you don't go against your heart.

    I hope you can cultivate a lot of affection.

    Feelings don't need to be rushed.

    It's about going through a lot of things together.

    in order to finally let the other party see clearly.

    Who is true love wants you to live your life to the fullest.

    A woman with a personality is cuter than a woman with a gorgeous face.

    What do you think of believing in yourself and believing in love.

    Failure does not mean the end of the encounter years later.

    Maybe it's the beginning of a new story.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, for a girl, it is better to love her own person than to the person she loves (if he cares).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't blame you, since he doesn't care about you so much, you should pursue your own happiness.

    But don't get married too hastily.

    Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't be sloppy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it were me, I wouldn't have chosen him as my boyfriend.

    It's not you who care, it's him who cares.

    He doesn't care how you feel.

    I think you'll be happier if you choose this guy now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the fifth year after leaving Xinyu, I came back again. Come back for a special wedding. Two excellent people, two people who love each other, I sincerely wish happiness.

    The bride said that first love, true love, is in front of her. I haven't been noisy because of the trivialities of life. It's not life that treats them well.

    They are very good, and behind it is the result of their hard work. They have also endured the test of a street, half the world, half a country. This test is not a year and a half, but eight years.

    It's not that they haven't been anxious, it's not that they haven't encountered difficulties, it's not that they don't have a reason to be noisy, it's probably an excellent person, someone who loves each other, can control himself first, and is willing to carry more for others, regardless of gains and losses. They work towards a common goal. They are young, but they are role models for me to follow.

    The reason why I say that I haven't found true love, but that I don't deserve to be happy, is because in love, instead of devoting myself and giving, I calculate the gains and losses, for fear that I will suffer losses, for fear of unfairness. The reason why I am afraid of losing money stems from a lack of security. The reason why I lack a sense of security is because I am not capable enough, I don't work hard enough, and my cultivation is not high.

    Imagine that happiness is to be obtained? All happiness is the result of giving. It is the result of hard work. It's your own feelings.

    I didn't think about true love at all, ** true love.

    Who gave me the right to accuse my lover of a disagreement, who gave me the right not to respect my elders when things didn't go my way, and who gave me the right to sit back and enjoy what I did not work. Who gave me the right to lose my temper at the slightest difficulty?

    No one. God would not have given me such a right. I guess the devil has attached himself to people who are incapable of overcoming sin in order to mess with my mind. To put it mildly, it's a stinky problem for vulgar people, uneducated people, and incompetent people.

    It's because the noise hurts, but most of the noise is provoked by yourself. It's because I don't feel satisfied if I don't create an atmosphere, and it's probably caused by my own laziness. The accusation is due to economic pressure, and most of it is my own delusion.

    Stubborn and old-fashioned thinking system. Don't make tea, create the tranquility of tea, and envy the morning and twilight of others.

    That's right. It's not that I haven't found true love, it's that I don't deserve it. I don't even think I deserve true love. Otherwise, how could I do it to death like this?

    I need to retune the frequency. 2018 starts with changing yourself. Get rid of the accusatory, controlling, stubborn, willful, unreasonable, and aggressive stinky habits.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The pain of the original family requires a lot of love, knowledge, and faith.

    I don't think it can be said that they don't deserve love, but people who lack love in their original families don't know how to express their love, and they don't know how to accept the love of others.

    First of all, if the family of origin brings some bad memories to the child, then the person will be more prone to extremism when he grows up, such as me. I once pinned all the love that I didn't get in my original family on my boyfriend at the time, I hope he loves me, I hope he can give me a warm family, I hope he has me in his life plan, and the final result is that I scared him away. Then I went to the other extreme, I needed a lot of security, no one could give me security but myself, and I began to reject all intimacy, including friendship, affection, and love.

    Of course, this is just me and not everyone.

    Isn't there a saying that the lucky have a lifetime of childhood, and the unfortunate have a lifetime of childhood.

    Because I also grew up in a terrible family of origin. And then married into an equally bad family of origin. But it is because I analyze and compare the factors from the two bad original families that are the major keys to destroying family harmony.

    Therefore, I can better identify the elements that a happy family must have and some hidden dangers that must not exist. Proclamation.

    The original sin gave me a clearer understanding of how I planned my family of three. So I'm the vanguard of our small family of three! Personally, I think that whether it is the interaction with my husband or the mutual growth with my children, I am still relatively happy.

    I can't implicate my new family because of the misfortune of my original family!

    Parents, their misfortune is caused by their reasons, not all of them are children's reasons, they actually don't know people clearly, or they don't know how to behave, and they have a big problem of their own. As long as I avoid some of the scum spots on these original family members, I can achieve my happiness and matching. And they didn't follow my advice, and I couldn't interfere too much with that garbage native family.

    With a new member joining, I can't make any decisions, or I'll think I'm ruining that family!

    So trust me, be independent and brave yourself, no one has the right to disturb your happiness again!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What is love? I do not know. But I know someone knows. Yes, as early as the third century B.C., there was a great man in the West who was very clever about this problem. He was Socrates, the ancient Greek thinker, educator, and philosopher.

    Once, Plato asked Socrates, "Teacher, what is love?" ”

    Socrates did not. So he told Plato to go to the wheat field and pick the fullest and heaviest ear of wheat, and he repeatedly instructed him to look forward and not to look back.

    Plato braved the scorching sun and went to the wheat field to find it. Half a day passed, and he came back empty-handed.

    Socrates asked, "How?" What about the ears of wheat? ”

    Plato said, "Report to the teacher, did not pick it".

    Socrates asked, "Why?" ”

    Plato said, "I began to see a very large ear of wheat, but I didn't know if it was the best." Since he was not allowed to turn back, he had to give up.

    Go on, and look again, it's not as good as what you saw before; Walking forward, it became less and less good than before, and unconsciously walked out of the wheat field. And so he returned empty-handed. ”

    Socrates said meaningfully, "This is love." ”

    Love is sometimes unclear, and what is clear is often not love; There is no match or unmatch in love, and there is no one who is wrong or right.

    Love is like an unkempt beggar, when she reaches out to you, you will reject it consciously or unconsciously; The moment she turned around, you realized that she was Venus, the god of love, and when you rose up to catch up, she became a fairy, which made you regret it.

    Love always comes crashing when it shouldn't come, but it stops abruptly when it should come.

    Love doesn't need to be packaged, and what needs to be packaged is often a **. When you have money, power, and status, the taste of love changes. What I admire more is Dong Yong, the Seven Fairies, and the good fate of the heavenly immortals; Xu Xian, White Lady, wait for a thousand years.

    Love is a fierce tiger, which can make you ruined, but it can also make you soar. There may be many people who don't want to admit it, but this is the law of the development of things, once some people fall in love, they are irrational, and even stupid, even if they drown in love, they are willing; There are also people who regard love as leisure, and ignore gains and losses. Neither imposing nor blaspheming.

    Just like the moon on the horizon, the third day of the first month and the beginning of April are not round, and the fifteenth and sixteenth will be round.

    Love is a game, and those who are playing think that those who are playing are fools, and those who are watching the play think that those who are playing games are crazy. Whether it's a fool or a madman, after a long time, the game has no new ideas, and it is on the verge of falling apart, and as soon as the game is over, some people laugh and some cry.

    Statement of Originality This article is written byPoetry and love words

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why? Why? Why?

    It seems that everyone who knows me will be very unlucky and will be hurt. Actually, I don't want to hurt anyone! Really, I don't want to hurt anyone because of me.

    However, the reality is often different from what I expected. I shouldn't have come into this world, I hurt others again and again. I'm sorry!

    I'm really sorry! Although I know that you love me very much and care about me, what I want to tell you is that no one in this world can live without anyone, so promise me to live well. It's no longer possible.

    I don't know what I'm going to say to you, I feel heartbroken when I hear your sobbing voice on the other end, really, I don't deserve you to love me so much, it's really not worth it. Being with me will only hurt you.

    I'm just an unlucky guy, don't I deserve love? My love hurts, and whoever loves me, don't love me anymore because I don't deserve your love. I'm just looking for a complete love of my own.

    But it seems that God does not give me such a chance. My heart, which has been sealed for so long, now seems to have found a home for it! I didn't expect my first love in my life to end so early!

    It seems that I haven't felt the sweetness yet, I haven't felt the feeling of happiness, and that's the end of it, I think it's okay for all of us! Because, if you continue to do so, it will only make each other more uncomfortable in the future! So, my dear, we can't call you like that one last time, we really don't fit together!

    Please don't be sad, and don't cry, I don't want to see you like this. We'll be friends again!Don't say that losing me is equal to losing the world, without me, you have to work hard to find the love that truly belongs to you!

    I'm sorry, dear, and allow me to call you that one last time, I can't love you because our love is too burdensome. There is still a long way to go. We all have to live with each other, so I don't want to live in thoughts all the time, so, let it go!

    Really, let's not go on like this, it's useless to keep it! Let's all pass our past! It's only been a few days together, but I'm really happy!

    Thank you for giving me your love, but I really can't accept your love so much. I'm thinking about it a lot these days, and I'm really not as strong as I seem! Missing is too tiring and painful!

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