It s been two years since we broke up, and he still asks me to pay back the money, should I give it?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you should understand that feelings and the economy must not be involved together, one yard is one yard, after all, emotional things cannot be involved with the law, but once the economy is involved in the law, the bad thing is your own reputation. Even if he doesn't prosecute, he runs into your social circle and talks nonsense, and people's words are terrifying, and it is hard to guarantee what your reputation will be ruined by then, and it will be really troublesome to deal with it when the time comes.

    Again, since you've decided to separate from him, you should break everything up, shouldn't you? Cut off all ties between you, so that you no longer have any room to think of him, and no room for him to come back to harass you, so that the aftermath can be solved once and for all.

    If you feel that others are not trustworthy, you can ask him to make a note stating that you have repaid the money, and then sign it. In this way, all aftermath issues can be dealt with perfectly. If you pay back a single bank card number, it is easy to be repaid, once he says that he has not received it, then you can only take a long road of litigation in addition to suffering a dumb loss, I believe this is not what you want to see Right?

    So, it's better to give him back the money, and I guess you're not bad for it, besides, when you mention this money, you will think of his ugly face, isn't this purely to find guilt for yourself?

    I believe that you will not be blinded by hatred all the time, and make the right choice

    Finally, congratulations, it is your luck to be separated from a man with such an immature mind Take advantage of the opportunity to fight for your own happier future

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After all, you have taken his money, and now that it is divided, the other party is pestering you, which may cause great inconvenience to your future work and life, and 2000 is not too much, return it to him, and then let him write a guarantee that he will not harass you again. Then everything will be pure. Otherwise, it is always the woman who suffers from this kind of thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If that's the case, I don't think there's any need to pay back, or I'll just change the number and not contact him. That's what a man should do to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If I were you, I would give it to him directly, because since you broke up, you became a stranger, and since you were a stranger, you said that someone gave you money for no reason, and you gave it to him. This kind of thing doesn't look cowardly! But remember to spend less of your boyfriend's money in the future, it's better not to spend it, and it's not like you don't have it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Here's a suggestion for you :

    resolutely refused to pay back the money, the reason is that he took out 2,000 yuan to do business with you, and asked you for 2,000 if he lost it, what did you earn? If you make a total of 10,000, he'll think you want 12,000, right?

    This kind of person is not even worth making friends, so if you are idle, change your mobile phone number.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do it according to your own wishes, if it will be a broken relationship, then it is better to forget it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Pay him back, and then tell him righteously that he looks down on a man like him... From then on, I didn't interact with each other, and I showed a little backbone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It feels like it's the man's fault, but as a boyfriend and girlfriend, it doesn't matter if you take money from each other when you're together, and after a breakup, you talk about who owes whom, I think it's just a sign of the stinginess of one party.

    But if you really force it, I think it's okay.

    One is not a lot, and the other is still quiet, and it is very uncomfortable to be read every day!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be given, because it doesn't matter, so don't owe people family favors.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's me, I'll pay him back, one is that I don't like to owe people things, and it's very faceless to entangle with this kind of unstylish person, and the other is that I think he's a hidden danger, you think about it, it's been two years, he has been urging you for two years, and the account during the relationship is not clear, but he can do it so shamelessly, and what else can't be done, forcing him to be anxious, I'm worried that he will make a hurtful move to you.

    The next time you fall in love, you should learn the lesson of this time, although you are lovers, but you still have to distinguish the things that should be clear, don't feel embarrassed, and don't think that doing so will give rise to points, this is the most effective way to avoid disputes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After all, he once held hands, so why treat him as an enemy, and if he owes him, return it to him, and cut him off from now on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It shouldn't be repaid, it's an investment, and if it loses, it's gone, and it doesn't have to be repaid.

    Ignore him, even if he sues the Supreme Court, you will still win, tell him to harass him and call the police!

    This kind of man, one less dead, the world is better without it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To give you a reference suggestion, everything is one yard to one yard, why can't the war be fought abroad, the reason is that they don't want to finish the war if they don't achieve their goal.

    Since you are separated, don't reconnect you for something, return the money to him (of course, make sure it's his account number, remember to leave the voucher) and then live your life steadily. If you are very angry for what he did and don't want to pay him back, it can only be one thing and one thing, and everything will not be settled. In the end, there is no result or no good result.

    The above is a personal opinion only.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello. If the boyfriend asks to repay the money after the breakup, it is necessary to specifically determine whether the transfer of each fee in the composition of the money is a loan, gift or other purpose according to the nature of the money, combined with the relevant details and vouchers at the time of transfer, so as to determine whether it needs to be repaid.

    Specifically, you need to analyze the status of each money transfer and the evidence in your hand. If you have received a court summons as a defendant and need to respond to the lawsuit, it is recommended that you seek the help of a professional lawyer to help you tide over the current difficulties and minimize your losses as much as possible.

    What should I do if my boyfriend asks me to pay back the money after I break up and sues me?

    Hello. After the breakup, the boyfriend asks to repay the money, which needs to be searched according to the nature of the money, combined with the relevant details and vouchers at the time of transfer, to determine whether the transfer of each fee in the composition of the money belongs to a loan, gift or other purposes, so as to determine whether it needs to be repaid. Specifically, you need to analyze the status of each money transfer and the evidence in your hand.

    If you have received a court summons as a defendant and need to respond to the lawsuit, it is recommended that you seek the help of a professional lawyer to help you tide over the current difficulties and reduce the losses as much as possible.

    I received a court summons.

    If you have received a summons from the court as a defendant and need to respond to the lawsuit, it is recommended that you seek the help of a professional lawyer to help you tide over the current difficulties and reduce your losses to the greatest extent possible. Go to your local court and find a lawyer to help you fight the lawsuit.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it is estimated that it is okay for your ex-boyfriend to ask you to repay the money after a year of breakup, but you must have clear evidence of borrowing money.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, it is estimated that it is okay for your ex-boyfriend to ask you to repay the money after a year of breakup, but you must have clear evidence of borrowing money.

    The money transferred is a loan from one party to the other party, so this part of the transfer can be recovered according to the law. If the private negotiation fails, you can go to the court to sue to protect your own rights and interests. Because the money exchanges during the relationship are also more frequent, such as a small red envelope that expresses love on a daily basis, the xing quality of this kind of money is actually difficult to define, therefore, from the perspective of safeguarding their own legitimate interests, if there is a large amount of money between the couple or the disposal of valuables, certain evidence can be retained, but it should be noted that these evidence must be able to confirm the true expression of the intention of both parties.

    Otherwise, the evidence may be invalid. You can enter my homepage to communicate with me, and I hope that you can safeguard your interests.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you borrow money, you should pay it back, whether you break up or not.

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