My boyfriend s parents are divorced and they dote on him, but they haven t taken care of him much, w

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This kind of boy loves it the most, boys are not as sensitive as girls, as long as you have been good to him, he can feel it, so boys are easy to chase, and your boyfriend himself lacks the warmth brought to him by the family, then it is even easier to do. Caring for him from the details of life, just like a mother loves her children, it is essential to add clothes on a cold day, remember to eat on time, etc. When he was sad and lost, he was by his side, encouraging him and giving him confidence.

    Always say a warm word, tell him that you love him, you treat him as family, and don't be afraid that everything will be faced with you and him. Anyway, it's the attention to detail, I hope it helps you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Get to know him in detail, do something touching in the little things of life, and let him protect you!

    Generally, such a person lacks love and the feeling of being loved, you have to make him "love" you, but also make him feel that you love him and can't do without him.

    People like this generally say that they don't know the severity, you have to tolerate him, and get angry at the right time, and let him coax you, which is the most important thing.

    Hope it works for you, because that's who I am, that's what my wife did.

    Another point, you have to be weaker in front of him, so that he has a sense of protection.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do more things that move him, reflect the greatness of love, in fact, what he desires in his heart, give him the sense of security he lacks. All right.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It shouldn't have anything to do with divorce! Communicate more.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Communicate, and if he doesn't agree, turn around and leave! It's painful to wait where you are!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Leave him at once, he looks down on you, he doesn't deserve your love? It's time to find the right better and better man.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If he can't even accept this thing, how can he be good to you? Don't fight for anything, just wait! It's yours that you can't get rid of.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The divorce of your parents affects your relationship, and I wonder if he is sincere with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What is deliberately concealed is the deep pain in your heart, which shows that your parents' divorce has hurt you deeply. Only by getting out of the haze of divorce from your parents can you find your true love!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Most of the time he told his family about your situation, and his family didn't like it. Be prepared.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Unreliable, make a choice early!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the two really love each other, they don't care about the economic conditions of each other's families, although you don't have anything now, don't you all have each other? I believe that as long as your hearts are together and you are brave enough to struggle, there will come a day when others have it, you will have it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sister, sister, please ask you, why do you believe him so much? Especially in a different place, have you ever met each other's parents? Have you ever been to his hometown and met relatives and friends? Have you asked his friends if he earns or who he usually interacts with?

    But I can't see anything from your description, I only see that you are obscured by the word "love", and insist on "gambling" your own life and that of your parents.

    If there is something false in his words, how should you deal with your parents who raised you with love?

    He said that his parents divorced, have you checked it?

    He said he was very frugal, are you sure he didn't spend money on other women over there, so he was frugal with you?

    A man who doesn't even know how to give gifts when he meets his parents, in addition to having no common sense, can't he be impatient or just coping with things?

    Why are you so obsessed with a man who doesn't know how to be a man and has an unknown background?

    Marriage will not change his character, do not have illusions.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This requires both of you to be self-reliant. Never give up and support each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend still needs parental care, then you should really consider whether it is time to continue dating him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At this time, it was his girlfriend who stepped forward.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just be good to him, love is mutual, and blindly taking and giving is not the best love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Boys can't be petted, it's okay to be considerate!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A person's personality and acquired environment determine his style of doing things in the future, which does not mean that you don't love him, but your character determines your style of doing things, there is no need to worry about anything, just like you eat with chopsticks and eat with a knife and fork, loving him does not mean that you have to replace chopsticks with a knife and fork, if you don't love him, use chopsticks, it is the same reason.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Dear, everyone has a different way of expressing love, you can love her in your own way. There is no need to treat each other the same way as him. Please adopt!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personality issues, or the way everyone expresses it differently.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The boy's debts in the previous life will be repaid in this life, and the debts of girls in this life will be repaid in the next life!!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Besides, children can't be spoiled in the first place, of course, they must be happy in vain, and in the absence of children, as for the child's upbringing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on whether you follow this man unconditionally, if you love him very much, follow him, you are living with him, money, you can make money. If he is not worthy of disobeying your parents' orders to follow him, it all comes down to you and others can't help you!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't you know if you love him or not? Communicate more with your family to show that the two of you are suitable, and the difficulties in front of you can be overcome, bless you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Are you happy to be with him? What exactly does he love about you? Can he give you the life you want? He can figure out these three questions and think clearly before deciding. Marriage is not child's play!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If it's really good for you, you can cook cooked rice with him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's all about the freedom of marriage now, don't miss it if it's good for you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Ask them more, and you should agree.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on how much you like your boyfriend, after all, it is between you and your boyfriend, if the man's parents are concerned, you just have time to communicate more, and time will smooth everything out.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, you can't break up with your boyfriend because his parents don't have the qualities.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Can you get you without spending money, don't think that you love you very much if you spend some money, you have to pay a price for everything, and in the future, you will love it when you consider the major events of marriage.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Having such a boyfriend is worth cherishing, as long as you have a good relationship, nothing else matters!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Save money, keep it for marriage, keep it for buying a house. Take control of your finances and stop spending money indiscriminately.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't you just dislike him for being poor, your boyfriend is responsible for you, isn't that good?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You mean that you want to flatter true love and ask for money.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you really love each other. I'm sure you won't hesitate to ask. In fact, you already have the answer in your own heart!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Being poor is only temporary, being good to you is the main thing.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Since it's consensual, it's good to be together! I wish you all happiness.

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